Hi
I have a problem here.My best friend has fallen head over heels over a guy but this guy is really not at serious about their relationship and is actually using her and is also flirting with another girl.Whenever she confronts him he goes all over her and by his charming behaviour she just melts.This guy has also openly critised her on her back .But finally a few days back she turned sensible and broke up with him and is now in a state of trauma .And also the guy often turns up to hit her in her soft part emotionally.Im totally sad to see her in this condition .MY FRIEND OFTEN TENDS TO FALL FOR HIM .HOW DO I SAVE HER FROM THIS TERRIBL\Y TERRIBLE GUY PLS DO SUGGEST SOMETHING

2 ways

1. she will need to see sense by herself and go thru all this hurt to overcome whatever

or

2. She needs to really detach; and i mean this by not being in d same area or seeing the dude.

Proper detox

@ plumber
Many thanx foryour help REALLY

@ poster

stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. _{u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness}

she will come out stronger, just let her be.

NEOTIC
THANX DEAR

noetic:

@ poster

stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. _{u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness}

she will come out stronger, just let her be.

LOL. . ,

I quite agree, u need these experiences in order for u to learn,

she will survive and be better at handling herself  

noetic:

@ poster

stay out of it. this experiences make us better n stronger persons. _{u can ask nubian, jennykandry and HRhotness}

she will come out stronger, just let her be.

yeah i agree leave her alone.

My friend is like that as well, she even had her guy tell her that he is dating her and someone else, she left him and went back when he begged as she has broken up with him a million times, i even went with her to see him one day and he refused to open his door cuz another girl was there and she took all the shit all i do is listen to her, she will get over it. leave her be!

YEAH I GUESS U ALL R RIGHT.JUST HOPING FOR THE BEST.
ANYWAYS actually i am quite new here and so many thanx for ur help and suggestions nubian and dear HOTTY

Hi'

U could equally send her to me and i will hear her broken heart

@POSTER

JUST ADVICE HER LET HER NOW THAT LIFE IS ALL ABOUT UPS

THEY BORN YOU UP
YOU GROW UP
YOU JOIN UP
YOU FOLLOW UP
YOU MAKE UP
YOU OPEN UP
YOU ZIP UP
BUT NEVER GIVE UP

@ KENNYKANDRY
HOW FAR LONG TIME,

AM BACK TO NIARALAND

Leave her alone . . . let her keep playing with fire.
she won't know what she's gotten hersef into until she gets burnt once.
next time . . .she'll know better than to play with fire.

maybe the guy is the only one doing it the right way,the don take am go sckool

You can only talk to her but if she refuse like the saying goes you can force a horse to the river but you can not force the horse to drink water, Experience they say iis the best teacher, if she gets a bad experience then she should learn from it then if she doesn't it's left for her afterall no be the same mama born una,

LOL

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@ Hollandis, Sharrrrrrrrrrrap there wrapper like you

I am guessing your friend is actually you. You/your friend need to severe all links with Mr. charming while your heart is still attached to him. He knows he can get you whenever he wants to. Hopefully, if you stayed away from him for a while, his charm might wear off. Good luck