NnamdiN: expecting us to talk everyday, nagging, seeing me as her father being a vir...(i like em faily used

Professor D.:

Are you for real

NnamdiN: yes boss. Pretty weired fellow i love my space. Once a week call don do abeg. Im extremely introverted so i dont fancy much talks(except we are typing). As for the v... Never been with one, love my ladies so much i cant bear hurting them plus i feel im the one introducing the boo to sin so i prefer the ones with enough judgement on their heads lol. Finally i havent dated anyone before yet to fall into the damn thing. Most of my female friends double as bed mates

Professor D.:
Cool signature @djeezy.....

ms.mysterious22:
[color=#006600][/color] too blingy :-/

Sagamite: 1. Rude
2. Her head up her arsse.
3. Classless.
4. Poor conversationist.
5. Not genuinely interested in me.
6. Frigid/unsexy/intimately dull/practices contract-based intimacy.

Most Naija girls normally have 4 out of 6 of the above.

thareta:

You alredy have a negative mindset about nigerian girls. The funy thing is,itz really obvious.

Sagamite:

I already have a world of experience with Nigerian girls and girls from other nations to contrast them and be negative about the average Nigerian girl.

The funny thing is that when I read or interact with many of the girls on NL, their mentality makes it obvious my negative mindset was right in the first place.

Only few are exceptions and I let them know this. That shows I am not just being blindly discriminatory.

More evidence of me willing to give props were it is due, irrespective of being a Nigerian girl or not, was when I used to call pendo89 a classy girl even though I thought she was Nigerian. Only to find out she wasn't:

https://www.nairaland.com/969496/men-it-love-acts/5#11188192

https://www.nairaland.com/969496/men-it-love-acts/5#11188331

That is proof my mindset was developed based on content of character not the palm oil in their ogbono.

thareta:

Hummm interesting. Okay o. Remind me to fear you

Sagamite:

Fear me for wetin? Wetin I do?

Sagamite: 1. Rude
2. Her head up her arsse.
3. Classless.
4. Poor conversationist.
5. Not genuinely interested in me.
6. Frigid/unsexy/intimately dull/practices contract-based intimacy.

Most Naija girls normally have 4 out of 6 of the above.

thareta:
MR, you are so wrong most naija girls are sexy, classy, intimately wild and terrific conversationalist.how I know? Have read pretty good intelligent comments from ladies on this forum and with a good guess 75% are from naija.Everyone knows communication is key to an happy relationship so a girl inlove with you should learn how to do so..now Ofcourse, there are rude girls however not so many naija. Why, most cultures in naija don't permit rudnes be it to elders or to your man. Infact, I'd like you to define what you mean when you type "rude" . P.S foreign girls are generally rude and when it comes to contract intimacy they are top on the list. My point is most naija girls aren't what you mostly paint them to be.

Zeebah23:
I can easily with relate number 4,most Nigerian ladies (guys too) are poor conversationists and it's worse when you meet one whose IQ is way lower than yours but number 6 -contract-based intimacy- i do not understand you.

lipsyliscious: All dis long list tho, bt 80% of dis guys would Zap a gud looking girl weda she is a bimbo or not n would even go on to hv a relationship with her tho they myt not hv future plans.

Sagamite:

"You have to buy me X before you touch/date me."

"You have to be looking for marriage to date me."

"I have to know you for at least 6 weeks before we kiss and 12 months before we have sex"

Basically, the interaction is not about passion nor is it spontaneity. It is about "what is in it for me". Someone looking for someone that can provide a goal/benefit, not someone attracted to you for you. Sign the contract before I do X.

It is business not feelings.