This is one of the nasty ones: it's my body, i can kill the baby.

What can you say? The baby is withing the jurisdiction of their body besides, you seem to look at it from one side, what about when the guys want her to terminate the pregnancy but she really really wants to keep the baby, will you also blame the guys for their request?

If a woman rapes a man don't you think the man has a right to determine what becomes of his sperm?

Lmao; No, the man has the right to throw her in jail for rape.

In which case she can still keep the baby at his expense. I have been taught to avoid unintentional reproduction and I would like to keep control of this aspect of my life as well.

In which case she can still keep the baby at his expense. I have been taught to avoid unintentional reproduction and I would like to keep control of this aspect of my life as well.

That's one of the things in life that falls under the category of "it's unfortunate". In the same vein, will a man be forced to partake in the pains associated with the pregnancy that resulted as a result of his rape?

RedHotChic:

What can you say? The baby is withing the jurisdiction of their body besides, you seem to look at it from one side, what about when the guys want her to terminate the pregnancy but she really really wants to keep the baby, will you also blame the guys for their request?

I'm imploring a wholistic perspective here Funmi.  I happen to think both the man and the woman should have a fair chance to determine what happens with unborn fetuses.

RedHotChic:

That's one of the things in life that falls under the category of "it's unfortunate". In the same vein, will a man be forced to partake in the pains associated with the pregnancy that resulted as a result of his rape?

Bwahaha; double standards do favor women afterall.  I hope you're not attempting to systematically disqualify and demolish the valid concern I have introduced here. In contrast, will the man be able to forgo the emotional trauma and psychological trauma inflicted upon him during the rape and perhaps for the rest of hsi life?

I'm imploring a wholistic perspective here Funmi. I happen to think both the man and the woman should have a fair chance to determine what happens with unborn fetuses.

I disagree because the pain associated with the pregnancy is not evenly distributed.

In contrast, will the man be able to forgo the emotional trauma and psychological trauma inflicted upon him during the rape and perhaps for the rest of hsi life?

That's why Jackal called men the stronger sex, abi?

Speaking of pains . . . how many men undergo broken-di*k surgery from thrusting during intercourse.  Not that I have researched it, but I do know it would be painful. Hip replacement surgery from trying different positions . . . freak accidents during workouts to build up stamina for intercourse cause pains too don't you know.   And all this while all most of you do is lay there and watch the feature presentation unravel before your eyes.

RedHotChic:

That's why Jackal called men the stronger sex, abi?

That's why women are naturally prepared to bear babies, abi?

That's why women are naturally prepared to bear babies, abi?

That's why you should not complain when they control 100% equity shares in your pregnancy.

Hip replacement surgery from trying different positions . . . freak accidents during workouts to build up stamina for intercourse cause pains too don't you know. Tongue And all this while all we ask you to do is lay there and watch the presentation.

Hip replacement from a 2 minute action(some are even less)?.

That's why you shouldn't be bitter when it is argued that men are, on average, physically stronger than women and consequently deserve peculiar jobs over women?

It takes the action of two to make the baby but it takes the decision of one to end it.

That's why you shouldn't be bitter when it is argued that men are, on average, physically stronger than women and consequently deserve peculiar jobs over women?

Physically stronger, yes; peculiar jobs, no(unless it's gigolo), Now, tell me one thing a man can do that a woman can't do?

[b]It takes the action of two to make the baby but it takes the decision of one to end it.[/b]

Are you that pissed over it?

Not pissed just being frank .

RedHotChic:


Physically stronger, yes; peculiar jobs, no(unless it's gigolo), Now, tell me one thing a man can do that a woman can't do?

Pee standing up without pissing all over yourself, no? lol

I'm sorry if I'm being a bit of a pissant here; just remember, i'm working with what you give me.

Pee standing up without pissing all over yourself, no? lol

Hissssssssssss, as if it counts,

RedHotChic:


Physically stronger, yes; peculiar jobs, no(unless it's gigolo), Now, tell me one thing a man can do that a woman can't do?

RedHotChic:

Hissssssssssss, as if it counts,

Lol, you asked for only one thing and I provided one. If you want another one, only men can donate sperm _{unless there is one hell of a freak of a woman out there that I haven't heard about}.

Lol, you asked for only one thing and I provided one. If you want another one, only men can donate sperm unless there is one hell of a freak of a woman out there that I haven't heard about

Another hissssssss for you.

CH3COO:

Speaking of pains . . . how many men undergo broken-di*k surgery from thrusting during intercourse. Not that I have researched it, but I do know it would be painful. Hip replacement surgery from trying different positions . . . freak accidents during workouts to build up stamina for intercourse cause pains too don't you know. And all this while all most of you do is lay there and watch the feature presentation unravel before your eyes.

How many men then?
Are you not also enjoying it? As if your only having sex for her benefit. What joy is there in going through hours of torturous labour?

@post

The parents will have to compromise. If the man wants the child but the woman doesn't then the man should have evry right to take care of the child alone. If the women is willing she will give birth to the child for the man. If not then too bad! Be careful who you give your sperm to because you don't know what she'll do with it. Men crying they want the child then when the child is growing they behave as if they have amnesia sef.

Last time i checked, both Man and Woman supplied the chromosomes to make a child.

X from the Mother

X or Y from the Father.

Of course He has Rights!!!

Last time i checked, both Man and Woman supplied the chromosomes to make a child.

X from the Mother

X or Y from the Father.

Of course He has Rights!!!

Of course he has rights but not until the baby is born. if you think about it from the x and x/y chromosomes, he should have rights to his property but even if you make a law that will enable him have rights from conception, what will happen to women who doesnt want a pregnancy because of the changes it'll bring to their body or because they dont want to be single mothers? Don't you know that some guys may use pregnancy as a form of punishment on a woman? I'm prolife tho.

Pregnancy as a form of punishment

How do i get pregnant without knowing??

im yet to tackle that issue!

if i dont want a child, it will never be conceived
talk more of trying to kill it!

RedHotChic:

Of course he has rights but not until the baby is born. if you think about it from the x and x/y chromosomes, he should have rights to his property but even if you make a law that will enable him have rights from conception, what will happen to women who doesnt want a pregnancy because of the changes it'll bring to their body or because they don't want to be single mothers? Don't you know that some guys may use pregnancy as a form of punishment on a woman? I'm prolife tho.

There are necessary measures a woman can take to avoid conceiving. If she can't take the brunt of being a single mother, she should please do us a favor by taking the pills or preferably tie her womb!!!!!!!!

Pregnancy as a form of punishment

How do i get pregnant without knowing??

im yet to tackle that issue!

if i don't want a child, it will never be conceived
talk more of trying to kill it!

That'll be you but some chics get pregnant by being careless for a second besides a man can also sweet talk you into the pregnancy deal only to back out after you test positive to pregnancy.

There are necessary measures a woman can take to avoid conceiving. If she can't take the brunt of being a single mother, she should please do us a favor by taking the pills or preferably tie her womb!!!!!!!!

Look at this scenario:

Yves: sweetheart, i think it's time to have a baby

Eve: Why don't we get married first?

Yves: We'll definitely do that but that wouldn't stop us from getting pregnant

Eve: okay

2 months later:

Eve: Honey, I'm pregnant

Yves: Thats such a good news

1 week after:

eve: why come home so late honey?

Yves: what are you insinuating? that I'm cheating?

eve: No, it's just that I need to know where you are.

Yves: what? Are you my mother? in fact, I'm done with you and all i want now is my baby. Give birth to my baby and send me the portion of my bills. To your tent o' Israel.


From the scenario above, what if Eve is not ready to be a single mother but has been hoodwinked into it, what do you expect her to do since she cannot even abort the baby(at least legally) because the man seriously want the child and has 50% equity shares on the pregnancy?

RedHotChic:

Eve: Why don't we get married first?

Yves: We'll definitely do that but that wouldn't stop us from getting pregnant

Eve: okay

I'd like to think girls are so much smarter than this now.

Who still falls for such things?

@RedHot

i cant believe for one second

that your scenario exists or takes place this days!

I'd like to think girls are so much smarter than this now.

Who still falls for such things?

Well, if they are that smart, why the upsurge of single mothers that still say: He told me he loves me and oh my God, he pulled on me,
90% of single mothers did not become one by careful planning, in most cases, they became pregnant to appease a man, lure him into marriage, b/c he wants it so badly but has no money for the wedding now and the greatest of them all is because she's in loooooooooooooooVE.