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What Is Attraction by cruworld(m): 11:48am On Jul 01, 2008
Before you read further, I’d like you to take a minute and think about what the word ATTRACTION means to you.

By the way, I’m talking about the romantic concept of ATTRACTION… not gravitational attractions, etc.

If you can, WRITE DOWN exactly what you think the word ATTRACTION means. The process of writing down your thoughts helps you to organize them (I recommend that you also keep a journal of your experiences as you improve in attracting women of your life). There are no right or wrong answers here, so think about it for a few minutes…

ACTUALLY WRITE YOUR THOUGHTS DOWN.







OK, did you do that? Nice.

So what did you come up with?

A lot of guys seem to think that ATTRACTION is when one person wants what another person has.

Some think of ATTRACTION as the result of being good-looking or otherwise “attractive.” In fact, I think a LOT of people confuse ATTRACTION with “attractive.”

When I think of the concept of ATTRACTION, I think of it primarily as an EMOTION. It seems to me that it’s more a COMBINATION of powerful emotions that come together to form a very, very special new SUPER-emotion.

However you think about it, there is a process that happens that keeps men and women getting together to have sex…

You are reading this right now, which is a miracle.

Think of the thousands upon thousands of generations of ancestors that you have had… and think about the fact that NOT ONE OF THEM DIED A VIRGIN.

And not one of them died in childhood.

And then think about the fact that you beat out about five hundred MILLION other sperm-racers to get to the egg first.

You are the result of, and represent, probably the most amazing process I have ever heard of.

One of the parts of this process that fascinates me is how each pair of your ancestors decided to get together with THAT PARTICULAR PERSON at THAT PARTICULAR TIME.

I know that some people will be upset that I’m talking about this whole concept in such an analytical, detached way… women in particular seem to love the fantasy of two people being “soul mates” and “knowing that your special someone is out there” and “it just happening.”

If you’re one of those people, stop reading now! lol…

After working on this area of my own personal life for a few years, and trying all kinds of techniques, it finally dawned on me that ATTRACTION WAS BASICALLY EVERYTHING. Remember, the process of attracting women is not a tough job. Don’t complicate it.

If a woman / female feels ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else really matters.

Looks, age, nationality, wealth, religion, personal loss, peer pressure from friends and family… none of it matters in the attract women process.

On the other hand, if a women DOESN’T feel ATTRACTION for a man, then nothing else matters in that case either!

You can’t “talk” a woman into feeling ATTRACTION, any more than you can “talk” a person who hasn’t eaten for three days out of feeling hungry.

I mean, if you really wanted to be fancy, you could learn to be a hypnotist and talk them into it that way…

But I’ll tell you a little secret: Even THAT isn’t the best way to do things! (I actually know several people who use this method of hypnotizing women… and I haven’t met one yet who could use this technique alone to get women… there’s ALWAYS something else going on.)

What I’m trying to say is that one day it hit me like a ton of bricks that ATTRACTION IS THE KEY TO EVERYTHING WITH WOMEN!

If you don’t know what it is or how to create it attractions, you’ll wander around trying different techniques… and probably never land on something that works consistently.

And once I realized this, all kinds of things that didn’t make sense before INSTANTLY made sense to me.

All of a sudden I realized why women dated abusive jerks… ATTRACTION.

I realized why women dated men who were clearly using them and cheating on them… ATTRACTION.

And I also saw the FLIP SIDE!

I realized why women pass up guys who are honest, stable, attractive, and wonderful for losers… ATTRACTIONS.

Think of ATTRACTION like a drug (which it really is). If a woman is under the influence of it, then she’s gone. She’ll do anything to get more. One of the things that most fascinates me is the “language” that triggers attraction inside of women. I call it “Sexual Communication” and you can learn all about it from Double Your Dating.

If she’s NOT under the influence, then YOU’RE gone. Nothing you do will matter if she doesn’t feel it when you are not able to attract women you want.

If you doubt what I’m saying, ask the next 10 SUPER HOT women you see what they think of this. Read this newsletter to them, and watch their reactions. You’ll see.

OK, now that you’ve heard a little bit more of my personal perspective, I’d like you to look back into your life and think about all those situations with women that made no sense at all…

Think about the women that you treated wonderfully that passed you up for the jerks… and think about all the women “friends” you had… the ones who told you about how mean and inconsiderate their boyfriends were… while you looked at them thinking “I would kill my own mother for just one date with you.”

Is it all making sense now?

THEY DIDN’T FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU!

YOU WERE BEING A “NICE GUY” AND PROBABLY A WUSSY BOY, AND YOU HAD NO IDEA THAT IT WAS HAVING THE EXACT OPPOSITE EFFECT OF WHAT YOU WANTED! AND WORSE YET, THERE WASN’T A DAMN THING YOU COULD DO ABOUT IT!

It’s harsh to think about, but it’s true. (By the way, if you don’t do something to learn how to make women feel ATTRACTION, then most likely, this is going to keep happening to you for the rest of your life.)

I have to point out one more thing. As I mentioned earlier, I think a lot of guys confuse the idea of being “attractive” with the emotion called ATTRACTION.

You can make a woman feel an INCREDIBLE ATTRACTION, even though you’re not what most people would think of as “attractive.” Of course, you have to know how to attract women …

The point is that if you’re not tall, handsome, and dashing, you can LEARN how to make women / female feel this wonderful emotion called ATTRACTION.

It’s a skill. It’s taken me YEARS to be able to even talk about this stuff in simple terms like this that makes sense, and it’s taken me the same time to figure out how a regular guy like you or I can make women who we used to think of as “out of our league,” feel ATTRACTION for us.



THIS IS NOT WRITTEN BY ME I PHOTOCOPY IT, LOL  grin
Re: What Is Attraction by galatico(m): 12:07pm On Jul 01, 2008
The Defination of Attraction is

The force by which one object attracts another

An entertainment that is offered to the public

The quality of arousing interest; being attractive or something that attracts

A characteristic that provides pleasure and attracts

An entertainer who attracts large audiences
Re: What Is Attraction by iice(f): 5:42pm On Jul 01, 2008
Nice, but i think you should be lecturing people on the difference between attraction and love as apparently some people have no idea they are different.
Re: What Is Attraction by Pataki: 6:32pm On Jul 01, 2008
@ Poster,
I hardly read verbiages as you have copied and pasted it.

@ Topic,

A feeling of sharing something mutual with another person or thing.
Re: What Is Attraction by CH3COO(m): 6:35pm On Jul 01, 2008
Pataki:

@ Poster,
I hardly read verbiages as you have copied and pasted it.

@ Topic,

A feeling of sharing something mutual with another person or thing.
Lol
Re: What Is Attraction by Mesmerize(f): 6:36pm On Jul 01, 2008
studentetc:

put me to sleep
LOL! I agree grin

@post
attraction:
1. The act or capability of attracting.
2. The quality of attracting; charm.
3.
a. A feature or characteristic that attracts.
b. A person, place, thing, or event that is intended to attract: The main attraction was a Charlie Chaplin film.
4.
a. The electric or magnetic force exerted by oppositely charged particles, tending to draw or hold the particles together.
b. The gravitational force exerted by one body on another.

grin grin grin grin grin Pick whichever one you like tongue

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