deols:

Lol..why do I have many people offended by the comment. I decided to look at an angle that I feel convenient to speak about. It does not mean that I support what she did. Why on earth would I support that.

I find the pictures disgusting. I detest seeing people this way and is what my comment is about.

I dont know any cheat around. so, don't expect me to be raining abuses like people who have been wrong or seen or experienced too much and are venting

deols:

who is this one? You can not think it through abi. let me help you.

The child she is pregnant with.Other children she may have had with her husband. How do you think this can affect their lives if they ever see their mother's pictures everywhere.

Do you know what the future holds and against whom this might later work. maybe the man sef.

What if someone offended by this decides to also take revenge on him and reveals his own secrets too?

I really pity that unborn child...I wonder the life he/she is going to have.

Toks2008: I have written many times.

Guys should get married because we need to but please love your wife and treat he like.

lobell:

@deols. I think you also didn't think this through. In her husbands defence he can blame it on anger, disappointment, pain, fear, disgrace, heartbreak, etc. because at this point emotions have overcome reason. Lets be honest in our judgments - I mean haven't you been angry before and said/done something you wouldn't have if you'd had/maintained a cooler head?
In the same vein, did the lady consider what she was doing (before she did it) with respect to herself (zero pride) her pregnancy (most women I know protect it with their life), her other kids with her husband (their future), her husbands status in the society (his respect from others).
Did she consider what the future (which has now manifested in the present) bodes for her, him, the other guy, her kids, we nairalanders, the country, the world etc.
Mind you this was when we were in saner climes before she decided it was ok to go ahead and damn the consequences.
Stop calling out the guy and address the real issue. Life is all about causality (cause and effect) we spend all the time addressing the effect which is am entirely wrong approach. Deal with the cause and you'd have no effect(s) to tango with. My two kobos worth!

naptu2:

Kai! Why are people attacking you?


It's simple. What the woman did is wrong and what the man did is also wrong (although you can put it down to temporary insanity or excess vexation).

lawanson44: See how ladies here are giving justification for what this who.re did..."Maybe the husband's diicckk is small"..."Maybe he's not good in bed"...Blah blah blah!!! I can never marry a Naija woman! Cheating is in their blood!!

nbright: She didn't think all this through before going to a hotel room to sleep with her lover?. If this act happen in Saudi Arabia.... What do you think will be her punishment?

deols:

As the head of his home, whatever that is wrong, whatever it is that made the woman cheat, he has a responsibility for.

dowjones: that woman is not pregnant. THATS THE STOMACH OF A HEALTHY NIGERIAN WOMAN.

naijainfogalery: Hahahahahah what do you expect from a confused man

nbright: What of if she was a "feminist"?..

Disclamer: I simply asked a question o... "feminists" pls don't crucify me

deols:



and is why the possibility of this happening in Saudi is very low..thank God for that.

Do you think a Saudi man would post a picture like this? I doubt it. He might find himself in jail for that.

philip.adesola:
No comment

deols:

I understand you. But nothing in my post says the woman is right. I think he had enough time through planning, catching them and then posting. He was not even alone with them.

He thought it through jare..he wanted to bring her to shame but he can only know the beginning of this. He cannot be sure of the consequences, even on himself.

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deols: what is this?!!!

what does the husband hope to gain by posting these pictures??

What they did is bad. What he did is bad as well.

adeabi: Those of you,women blaming the husband,that means you are/can doing/do the same thing.All of you will give account when we get to Heaven.

nbright: She didn't think all this through before going to a hotel room to sleep with her lover?. If this act happened in Saudi Arabia.... What do you think will be her punishment?

nbright: If a wife is caught cheating on her husband in Saudi or any other conservative Islamic country... What would have been the punishment?.

Amelian: The husband is not giving it to her well, and deep enough... May his dick is too small or weak to damage her centre point well.....oh lord, I no fit laugh ..... but seriously, why did she even allow unheard pleasure .... Ruin the trust in her home... Na wa