obo_man:

Good handwriting ke, in dis digital age of computers and electronic pens?

Una still dey do love letters ni?

Sermwell: Nice post though! But personally I will love it if my woman is "bosomly" endowed! I just don't know why but in as much as I will love my woman to posses most of the qualities above, if she is "dried up" in the front, then we have to start afresh!...I love bobby no be small!

obo_man: What do I find irresistible in women? I will divide it into two categories; Physical and personalities

PERSONALITIES

1) Cleverness; The beauty of being with a clever girl is that you gonna argue less and agree more with each other... Although, it takes a clever guy to appreciate dis quality.

2) A selfless woman; A hate greed and self-centredness. I love a woman that is or will be committed to some forms of social development.

3) A soft woman; Yes, women have to be independent, but not without some vulnerability. She should cry when she feels like, laugh when she feels like and shouldn't be afraid of expressing her emotions. All dem '' I don't need no man'' women be turn off for me o. I just want a woman that is strong when she has to and shows vulnerability when she has to....

4) Fashion; She dresses in a classy and tidy way..... Classy is the new sexy for me..lol

5) Wellbeing conscious.. She looks after herself, goes to gym and eats healthily... I'm a sucker for gym women...


Physical...

Nice smile, nice teeth, big boobs ( not too massive o), big ass ( not too big o) and a cool figure 8 with pretty face. Nice skin 2,,,,,, ..

You see I'm not fussy...lol.. Any skin complexion will do me....

Nancyij37:
Independent Woman: Men don’t like seeing women depend on them, they like those know what they want in life, have their own carriers and hobbies, as the family will be build by both efforts. This as well gives the man hope that even in his absent that his  (children) is safe and can be taken care of. This makes marriage very strong.

Eze Promoe: Most definitely. But you shouldn't expect any woman to have all these qualities in one body. Abi na Virgin Mary?

Abu Dhabi Group: What more shall it profit a man , if his woman has all these but isn't endowed with " Mercy Johnson's" type of boobs or " Omotola' s kinda. ASS " ? Work done will be = 0 .

lexxwiz: Flirty> There’s nothing like a woman that can flirt back. We know that in order to attract a woman we have to flirt. Sadly, often times they don’t flirt back but…when they do…it’s absolutely amazing. Flirting back puts you in a very strong WOMANLY position, not only are getting in control but also you are acting like a woman. A womanly woman is absolutely infatuating for any man on this planet. Simple things like curling your lips or biting them slightly, raising your eyebrows when you make a smart remark, jiggling at our jokes, being genuinely interested in what we say, these sort of things. I find this attractive too really, @Op you'r just too uptight.. Loosen up!!!

Nancyij37: Every lady should be aware of those things men find irresistible in a woman, what they appreciate and what they don’t like. Thou is very difficult to find out what men think and wants because each individuals has its own understanding of how thing work. We have done series of research to find out those thing men find irresistible in a woman. They are:

Independent Woman: [/b]Men don’t like seeing women depend on them, they like those know what they want in life, have their own carriers and hobbies, as the family will be build by both efforts. This as well gives the man hope that even in his absent that his  (children) is safe and can be taken care of. This makes marriage very strong..

[b]Best Friend: Men want their wife to be their best friend, some one they can trust, complain to and share concerns with. Any marriage where couples don’t share issue together is always compromise and always have problem in the short run.

Sweet and Beauty: Yes, This one is general with every man, they always want their wife to look beautiful, but in some extent they want sweet caring wife that can love and take good care of them, they also love a good sense of humor. If you don’t know how to handle problem with a bif smile, go and learn it.

Pressure Lady: Men don’t want to be pressured to do anything, they love pressure free woman, who will not always nag them, Every w=man should give the husband some privacy, so it will be great if don’t call or regularly send him message, chats, pings or call every minute and hour, its so bored.

Sexy: [/b]Men love their women to be sexy not trashy. This is one of the main thing that attract them to women. Every women have their best part of the body that they like and love most.. so highlight your best physical asset because that your selling point and also learn how to dress like a lady.

[b]Well mannered woman: Nothing embarrasses men the most than that of their wife… go learn some simple ethics. Appreciate you man, encourage him to do more, show him unconditional love and support.

Your Reasoning: The most thing a man can appreciate from the wife is her reasoning, Try as much as possible to contribute ideas..Ask your husband questions and contribute your idea, as your idea may be the upliftment you are looking for.

Sagamite:

Extremely good list.

Just a bit of a modification on this.

I think many men actually like a woman to depend on them. What they don't like is a woman to be a leech on them and also have an "entitlement mentality".

Most responsible men love to take care of their woman and help solve their girl's problems when it arises. It makes them feel relevant, dependable, masculine and intelligent.

It is part of the head of the household mentality.

There is an evolutionary urge to take care of that smaller, cute, emotional and vulnerable being.

Tgirl4real:
Awww...

Sweet!!!

Godson201333: Yeah you are right.....Alot of ladies out there want to get something from their man by all means and thats a big turn off.
I do not want a lady depending on me,That is another turn off for me.

Edusouls: Yes its a very precise post pointing out these qualites real men and not immature boys really like to see in their women, but nowadays women re getting more inferior by the days, with very depriciating reason and value, if we can at least find a woman with 45% of these attitiudes we then patch up..which is hard nowdays.

firstolalekan: ok. I have all that yet...