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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Fadelex(m): 6:55pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
what d op is saying is what 80% of our girls do..... can u imagine, u met a girl not upto a month and she's like darling my hair is due or my bis has expired. most of d attackers here are nothing but hypocrites especially d female posters. the essence of relationship is to support each others physically, emotionally, financially, and so on. Y on earth will a girlfriend be performing housewife responsibility? if she's cooking for u, cleaning ur house, giving u different styles on bed and you're enjoying it knowingly she's not your wife yet, then please pay her rent knowingly you're not her husband yet. that's Y it's good for ladies not to do some stuff while courting cuz men will never get satisfied. @op, as someone says, ask for money but not for rent last bullet: if you're a lady and you're sleeping with your boyfriend and he's giving you money, you are a prostitute cuz he's inadvertently paying for your service 5 Likes |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by EmmyDe25(m): 6:55pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
[quote author=mizzocho.cinco]You still have your girlfriends asking you to do them favours after they cook, clean or spend a good time with you, i believe the same label you are stamping on me is the exact same label you should be stamping on your girlfriend Men want a woman who can prove themselves worthy before they take her to the alter, a good cook and someone who can make him a great time in bed, a good and hygienic wife and mother. why can't i have a man prove that he is a good provider before accepting to walk down the aisle for? Does this mean women have to accept whatever comes their way, whereas women have to be put through some tests before they are considered to be wife material? Food for thought[/quote @LordEmmyDe: Did you actually say you guys are four months into the relationship You really need help! |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 6:56pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!Let them play holier than thou , they are still being dumped like they do not matter! yet some of them want to appear as if they are better than others Like i said it before women can only fully support others in these matters when it comes to the other woman's downfall 3 Likes |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 7:00pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
bukatyne:you give it in exchange of the words, 'i love u' dont you? Whether its words or something tangible you still opened those legs after you got something in exchange 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Incrizz(f): 7:01pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!Interesting!! 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by GentleMimi: 7:01pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Ashaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawo! Shame on u! Tua! *spits*Hey! Come on!! I d'nt support her,but this is really........not good. I fink she is young and inexperienced,so pls be a lil harsh.You came down on her wif a bang! |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by bukatyne(f): 7:03pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Viogu: It does so also with a LovePeddler |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Stunner1(f): 7:03pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
@ OP dear u nid to pay ur bills urself except ur bf volunteers to pay ur rent.. My bf rented an apartment for me willingly n he doesnt even cme arnd often so dear let him b d one to come up wit d idea else he'll c u as being cheap n dnt mind all dz fools here insultin u as if dey r any beta mtchewwww gals tho n dey b actin holy cos itz a faceless forum abeg make una go drink gutter water cos y'all r worse |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 7:06pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
bukatyne:you still ate doing the same thing the asewo is doing. You are doing because of the words, "i love you" an asewo is doing it for the another. Tell me if you were to die today and go to heaven do you thing your act and the act of that asewo would been seen as different acts? End of the day you are both commiting the same sin for different purposes If you wanted to come and preach about dignity and self-respect i would have gladly listened if u had done it before opening your legs before marriage |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Sike(m): 7:08pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
yomalex: Get a job and pay your own bills. Dare to be different, don't be a leechBLESS YOU! @tjololade:Shet!! This is harsh. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by youngalex(m): 7:09pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
@op i advise u cut your cloth according to your size ,its totally nonsensical to get a haus without an appropriate financial plan as regards paying thé rent....with thé way ur sounding obviously u can have sex with your landlord to write off your debt......it mâles more sensé u ask for moni tout Start a small business from there u save and pays rent.....U DON'T DO A MAN FAVOUR BY HAVING SEX WITH HIM |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Acidosis(m): 7:09pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
@Op, No one is saying its bad to give... Infact, if you open a thread on Nairaland for house rent... the Charity organisation here and others will rise up to assist.. The problem is your command of words... You made it sound like a demand you must enforce and place upon your bf.. There is no right time to ask him for money.. Such rules do not exist... |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Arsenate(m): 7:10pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
SMh. and the girl is really serious. really thought it was a joke. naija gals are a lose cause. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by rhames(m): 7:12pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
look here sweet heart, if u gonna date a guy for the sake of dating and friendship , do that. But when u date a guy for you to sink him even if he is richer than central, is a complete put off. Real guys dont date dependent ladies. When you start showing your true color to that man, he will soon get tired and speed off. Work hard to pay your own bills, even with menial jobs anywhere u can get it. All the best. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 7:12pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
@OP, nah...i'm not here to judge you. Some of us here have done worse things. There is no perfect person. Threads like yours get me angry but then we all are not the same. Be independent. That way nobody would wake up one morning and start calling you names. Live your life as if you don't have a boyfriend to support you. There are girls out there who live fine without the support of a man or parents. If your boyfriend loves you enough, he would support you if he is able to, without you asking for a penny. Let him know you are not a liability. Prove to him that you are not a bed mate. Be independent. It doesn't kill. 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by sleekch1c(f): 7:12pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: Where have you been? I missed you and want to give you a hug right now. Nne eh,I tire. Have been arnd (in ghost mode of course) dayokanu: Good for them,but if another lady thinks she needs financial help from her bf and believes she deserves it dayokanu:,it isn't a good reason to hurl insults at her. I think they can express their opinion without being condescending or feeling their morals are much more sound than hers. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 7:13pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Im shocked that its the self-righteous people who are making giving money for a worthy course sound much worse than them having sex before marriage. The world we live in |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:14pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
freecocoa: NL sha, this is the worst place to meet real and honest people, see how all the girls are now behaving as if they've never asked their bfs for money when they even go as far as asking for money to buy 'meatpie'.Bia, Nne don't p!ss me off abeg! How u go ask guy make he pay ur rent? No b u dey pay rent b4 u jam d guy? So bcus u dey b@ng d bobo he must drop bar she? Wot nonsense! Deres no difference Btwn d op and dose gals in Allen na 4 Likes |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by kacci(m): 7:15pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
anytime u notice say d guy wan (CUM) because afta d cum u av 2 pay ur rent urself |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by dayokanu(m): 7:16pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: Whats this worthy cause that you need money for? |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:16pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
GentleMimi:A lil harsh ko a lil brown ni! I resemble persin wey dey marinade meat wiv butter? |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by dayokanu(m): 7:18pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
sleekch1c: Good for them,but if another lady thinks she needs financial help from her bf and believes she deserves it,it isn't a good reason to hurl insults at her. I think they can express their opinion without being condescending or feeling their morals are much more sound than hers. Trading sex for money is prostitution and many people frown at it. Just like if someone comes and say can he take money from another persons pocket without their knowledge ppl would hurl insults at him |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Bome01(m): 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco:Na ur Papa? Mtchewww! I pity ladies nowadays with dia gold-digging habits. . . Many go reach 45 yrs or more dem go still dey find husband! |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Idowuogbo:sister please tell me how many of them u did monkey style for in bed after telling you, i love u, u are beautiful, i want to spend the rest of my life with you. Yet right now they are now somewhere in their houses married or engaged to another women? So when you banged his bobo, was it for a worthy cause? 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nonywendy(m): 7:19pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco:monkey dey work baboon dey chop. Wen wld gurls stop seeing guys as atm machine? Yet dey complain guys are afta dia body. If u want to reserve ur body for ur future husband, den allow d young man to reserve his money for his future wife. 4 Likes |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by MrBravo(m): 7:20pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Oun lo bi e ni? Na e born you 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 7:20pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
kacci: anytime u notice say d guy wan (CUM) because afta d cum u av 2 pay ur rent urself Ok this got me cracking OP, try this, I promise you he'll dish out that money faster than you can blink. |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by maxw726gmailc: 7:21pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Acidosis(m): 7:21pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: If you can answer this question... I'll support you on this. "Why should your boyfriend pay your rent?" |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 7:21pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
sleekch1c: All of you attacking the poster, keep quiet!!!Excuuuuse me! It's gals like u supporting nonsensical dat'll end up with an abusive husband. 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by bukatyne(f): 7:24pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
mizzocho.cinco: I sorry, I can't help you 1 Like |
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Danhumprey: 7:24pm On Nov 01, 2013 |
Please,you guys should take it easy on her ooo. The insults and the harsh comments so far directed at her is more than enough for her to commit suicide. |
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