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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:00pm On Nov 01, 2013
xynerise:
Poverty can twist cerebrum
No wonder! grin
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Bome01(m): 8:00pm On Nov 01, 2013
[quote author=Acidosis]

Haha... Bros na experience oo.. grin

One even seized my Hp Compaq laptop and charger years back grin grin

hahahahahahahaha.... funny memories grin grin grin grin



he he he. . . U sure say no be mizoccho b dt babe wey seize am, now is the right time to ask for what's yours. . .
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by sleekch1c(f): 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2013
DnigerianPrince:

You're a disgrace to hardworking and respectable Nigerian women.

Thank you mister perfect.....now roll over!
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by ENDTIMES: 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2013
Incrizz:
Okay.
Please could you expansiate, like in an intellectual way..? I'm interested in knowing his view point. Get..? Thanks.

An average guy can and most times gives his girlfriend money even when she has not asked but when she labels it 'rent', 'weavon', School fees' ..., that's when the issue starts and hence the flurry of comment on this thread.

If you doubt me, rephrase the topic tomorrow on nairaland as "when is it right to ask your boyfriend for money" and comments/opinions on nairaland will divide.

please like if you agree.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:01pm On Nov 01, 2013
mizzocho.cinco:
and i believe if you put your your advice into action. Stop putting yourself at risk of lung infections, u can quit smoking if you put your mind to it.
Thank you

Like I said advices are a waste of time grin but thanx for being concerned but seriously think of what i said. all the best dear wink
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Lagbaja425(m): 8:02pm On Nov 01, 2013
mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

Daft fool. Is your bf Santa Claus? You should be ashamed of yourself
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 01, 2013
sleekch1c:

And how is that fallacy? Are you among those that believe that STI's are sent from the village witches and wizards? tongue

She said MOST. Whatever happened to the numerous casual sex that people have on a daily basis? And those involving prostitutes and all that? She made it sound as if being in a committed relationship is a bad thing.


I'm not judging her anyway. The boyfriend might be cool with it. So no biggie. Whatever rocks her boat.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:03pm On Nov 01, 2013
ENDTIMES:

An average guy can and most times gives his girlfriend money even when she has not asked but when she labels it 'rent', 'weavon', School fees' ..., that's when the issue starts and hence the flurry of comment on this thread.

If you doubt me, rephrase the topic tomorrow on nairaland as "when is it right to ask your boyfriend for money" and comments/opinions on nairaland will divide.

please like if you agree.

I like your post its quite true and no i won't like it angry next time say 'don't like this post' am a rebel i would have liked it out of rebellion.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 8:04pm On Nov 01, 2013
OMO IBO: On a slightly different note. . .

I like threadstarter.
Despite the lampooning and derision she has kept her cool and is yet to insult anyone.

Good on ya ma'am

I was about to say this. Which makes me think she was probably expecting the bashing...or maybe she made up the story to prove some points.. or maybe she has strong confidence on her "rights" and beliefs...or maybe she is a spambot...or maybe....just maybe.

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by xynerise: 8:06pm On Nov 01, 2013
Idowuogbo:
No wonder! grin
Those days poverty nearly give me brain flu grin
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by GentleMimi: 8:06pm On Nov 01, 2013
Caracta:

I was about to say this. Which makes me think she was probably expecting the bashing...or maybe she made up the story to prove some points.. or maybe she has strong confidence on her "rights" and beliefs...or maybe she is a spambot...or maybe....just maybe.
Or maybe its a ''He'' not a ''she''

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 8:07pm On Nov 01, 2013
masonkz:

She said MOST. Whatever happened to the numerous casual sex that people have on a daily basis? And those involving prostitutes and all that? She made it sound as if being in a committed relationship is a bad thing.


I'm not judging her anyway. The boyfriend might be cool with it. So no biggie. Whatever rocks her boat.
those having numerous casual sex are deceiving someone else that they are in a commited relationship. Not all but quite a good number of them. We all know thats the truth of the matter
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Seun(m): 8:07pm On Nov 01, 2013
bukatyne: What is in between her legs.... wink grin lipsrsealed
babies?
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:07pm On Nov 01, 2013
Caracta:

I was about to say this. Which makes me think she was probably expecting the bashing...or maybe she made up the story to prove some points.. or maybe she has strong confidence on her "rights" and beliefs...or maybe she is a spambot...or maybe....just maybe.

That Spambot would have to have artificial intelligence i doubt that, i don't buy into the insulting of someone just because of their beliefs i feel its wrong but then again we don't live in a free world
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:07pm On Nov 01, 2013
xynerise:
Those days poverty nearly give me brain flu grin
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by DnigerianPrince: 8:09pm On Nov 01, 2013
sleekch1c:

Thank you mister perfect.....now roll over!

Oh I was addressing someone else but apparently, you're touched as well.

All I gotta tell you is that, there's dignity in labor rather than looking up to a man to pay your rent while you ain't married. You might as well go work at a brothel since sex is what you'll be giving both ways

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by xynerise: 8:09pm On Nov 01, 2013
Seun: babies?
Not without what is between your legs
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:10pm On Nov 01, 2013
DnigerianPrince:

Oh I was addressing someone else but apparently, you're touched as well.

All I gotta tell you is that, there's dignity in labor rather than looking up to a man to pay your rent while you ain't married. You might as well go work at a brothel since sex is what you'll be giving both ways
Double gbam! tongue
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by akereconfi: 8:10pm On Nov 01, 2013
Movingcoil: i didnt care to finish reading ur post or the comments to say my mind cos i need to shout it out raw and unbiased.
1. U ar a fool.
2.you are number 7
3. Where is ur dignity.
4.
5. You are number 1.
6. You are number 2.
7.
8. Don't u have shame and respect for ur parents.
9. Do u actually mean u want to live like married couples with ur mere boyfriend.
10. Number 4 and number 7 means same thing.
11. Are u now a less privileged looking for alms.
12. Answer number 9.
13. Number 7 means u ar nothing if answer to number 9 is 'yes'
14. So a yes to number 9 means u an unmarried young girl with ur brain power and reasoning capacity is considering staying with a boy that u arent sure will marry you, meaning na ira ikpu every time as if una don marry
15. So u guys wouldn't be lacking condom in ur house ie if number 9 is a yes.
16. Nawa 4 some girls oooo.
17. Start from number 1 again and remind me when you reach number 18 to write more cos i wan go wash my boxers.

oboy see analysis.............................
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 01, 2013
mizzocho.cinco:
those having numerous casual sex are deceiving someone else that they are in a commited relationship. Not all but quite a good number of them. We all know thats the truth of the matter

Ok. I see your point. I do hope you're committed to him, and vice versa smiley

All the best.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by iropelebe(m): 8:11pm On Nov 01, 2013
mizzocho.cinco:
No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people
If he has the money and it won't affect him he can pay your house rent there's no big deal in that. Just stay true to him and be faithful.
Men do more for women they cherish,they go as far as buying lands,cars and houses.
You can find a time he is in a good mood then ask him for anything,if he cna afford it,he will do for you,if he loves you he will do anything for you. Don't mind all these broke boys writing rubbish,don't mind the girls calling you names as well,they are unlucky girls and they are used to meeting broke boys.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by DnigerianPrince: 8:13pm On Nov 01, 2013
ENDTIMES:

An average guy can and most times gives his girlfriend money even when she has not asked but when she labels it 'rent', 'weavon', School fees' ..., that's when the issue starts and hence the flurry of comment on this thread.

If you doubt me, rephrase the topic tomorrow on nairaland as "when is it right to ask your boyfriend for money" and comments/opinions on nairaland will divide.

please like if you agree.

By asking for money you're referring to daily upkeep? If that's the case then I must live in caveman island to not reason along that line. This is totally wrong, any self respecting woman will work for her money and not depend on a man to survive other than being married.

Or are there no self respecting women again? I believe that's not true because I know a few. Will not raise my daughter to ask a man she ain't married to for money

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:17pm On Nov 01, 2013
iropelebe:
If he has the money and it won't affect him he can pay your house rent there's no big deal in that. Just stay true to him and be faithful.
Men do more for women they cherish,they go as far as buying lands,cars and houses.
You can find a time he is in a good mood then ask him for anything,if he cna afford it,he will do for you,if he loves you he will do anything for you. Don't mind all these broke boys writing rubbish,don't mind the girls calling you names as well,they are unlucky girls and they are used to meeting broke boys.
Unlucky my azz! Bia, make I gist u... Na 2013 we dey..Na when u ask, u get nada!(Maga don scarce) grin grin when u don't ask(dats if u rolling with responsible and generous bobos o)na confirm showers of blessing.D ones u no see sef wan empty account. Na2day? Abegi! tongue
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:17pm On Nov 01, 2013
iropelebe:
If he has the money and it won't affect him he can pay your house rent there's no big deal in that. Just stay true to him and be faithful.
Men do more for women they cherish,they go as far as buying lands,cars and houses.
You can find a time he is in a good mood then ask him for anything,if he cna afford it,he will do for you,if he loves you he will do anything for you. Don't mind all these broke boys writing rubbish,don't mind the girls calling you names as well,they are unlucky girls and they are used to meeting broke boys.

No one is talking about the financial capacity here but that decision after just 4 months, i think you are giving bad advice. do you start thinking of cohabitation after 4 months. or is this the new dating rule because i haven't been updated

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by fyneboi79(m): 8:18pm On Nov 01, 2013
druid06:

So I.D when would I be able to have a private contact with you. I don't mid you cooking and cleaning for me. I think I can afford your rent. wink
gringrin she fit poison ‎u o!
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:20pm On Nov 01, 2013
fyneboi79: gringrin she fit poison ‎u o!
Jalosi tongue
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Caracta(f): 8:20pm On Nov 01, 2013
GentleMimi:
Or maybe its a ''He'' not a ''she''

This too. I feel "she" is a guy grin
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by mizzochocinco: 8:20pm On Nov 01, 2013
People will curse and cast others down, forgetting they commit the same iniquities. You cannot possibly preach to another person about ways of living, morals and value that they do not uphold themselves.
•Some men will call you a sluuut, yet he loses sleep at night robbing or scamming another person. He will preach to you about dignity and self-respect forgetting that there is no dignity in what he does for a living, neither that its say anything positive about what he values.
•Some women will call you a prostitute, yet they sleep with the different men countless time in exchange for love and affection, which its not given by a true heart. They lets their delusions blind them, yet they can tell you what is wrong in your life from A to Z.
•Most human beings are quick to label and degrade other human beings, not because they do not do the same thing, but because they feel their purpose or reason for them doing the exact same thing is much more dignified and justfiable.

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Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:21pm On Nov 01, 2013
When he catches u being intimate with his friend. grin grin

Weyrey!! angry angry
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 01, 2013
but wait can u truly know someone after 4 months, i used to think i do but some stuffs i am just knowing about my ex even after 3 years.
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Nov 01, 2013
Na wa. Wahala dey grin
Re: The Right Time To Ask My Boyfriend For Rent Money? by Idowuogbo(f): 8:22pm On Nov 01, 2013
^^^Story story o! Story!!!! Won so pe won so pa e! Last nite! grin

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