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Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by akhis: 7:46pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... I never bothered reading it except to check for the sex of the writer and behold, "F". So i know what to expect from the write up 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by specialguest(f): 7:55pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
The only trait of immaturity displayed by married men that i know of is the ugly desire to constantly"go after single ladies". It is almost like a curse these days, you see married men having affairs with their students, secretaries, wive's friends, nanny, infact even the gate man's wife. Haba oga! 3 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Rejoice5000(f): 7:59pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
[quote author=davades]Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since then ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by chessguru1(m): 8:04pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
deols:No biggy..I'd J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊S̤̥̈̊τ̲̣̣̥ take the new car keys again..the car can't stay in my compound. She can park it in thy kingdom come, but not in my compound 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by passionate88: 8:05pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Rejoice5000: Anumanu Bush goat.hahahahaha. E dey pain u?. Y u carry am for head na?. Satan baptise u in illuminati's name. |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Geophem(m): 8:12pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Stormborn: I dont need to worry cus my wife will be the happiest and most fulfilled woman and i will make her that. She will always want to be near me all the time.i will love her and her onlymumu, d thread is for married men 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by passionate88: 8:15pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Ngokafor: ..this rejection of food is something i never saw my dad do so am not used to it and it's kind of unsettling thinking about it..but if i may ask, is there no other way men can register their anger other than rejecting their wives food?...it's not fair at all after the suffering.Some women also deny their husband punny at nite to register their displeasure on a particular issue. They might use d guise that they are tired or their down below hurts. So I heard/read somewhere 3 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Deytorlha(f): 8:17pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
My husband does 1,2 n 4.D most painful part is no 4.I do tell him dat he needs to gow up.I op he reads dis n change for Ǧ̩̥Ơ̴̴͡.̮Ơ̴̴̴͡D. |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by drnoel: 8:26pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... Listen to ursef, do u want him 2 beat her? If he can't beat her like the child she is, then he has to protest one way or anoda. I met a thread on facebook where one man went on booty strike, gave his wife sharia cos he was angry with her. hafi:Ho2 right u are but sometimes a woman needs 2 hear it more than once. The more u tell her the more it sinks in2 her head abi. hafi:Funny enof, women issue more threats than men but who am I 2 say so. Let me jut do like I didnt see this one b4 my wife sees it and begins trouble at home. hafi:Now this is childish and agree but I see more women doing this than men. Men only report if he has told her over and over and she is being stubborn about it. hafi:This one will not be my portion or portion of anyone I sabi 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Bigmadam1(f): 8:30pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
browncool: A woman who knows how to be soft spoken to her husband and sometimes apologies even when she is not wrong goes a long way to make a marriage unique and I believe no sane man will issue such treats to a well mannered wifeTins go bad most times wen we kip quiet or b soft spoken. D men feels mch abt der ego. 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Ngokafor(f): 8:30pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
passionate88: Some women also deny their husband punny at nite to register their displeasure on a particular issue. They might use d guise that they are tired or their down below hurts. So I heard/read somewhere ..but it's not the same thing na...it's almost physically and emotionally impossible for a woman to want to get down if she's upset,no matter how hard she tries.. ... i believe her husband shoud take out time to coax and get in her in the mood first.. |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Edoblakky(m): 8:43pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
OP, I think your post should have read 'Reaction of Men to Annoying Behaviours of Their Wives'. For me, if my wife annoys me, I do 1 - refuse to eat! I don't believe in shouting at women or beating them. My reaction is to refuse her food. And when I do this which is very rare, she knows I'm really offended and she apologises. This is not childish, its a matured way to resolve conflict. 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Sike(m): 8:47pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Dhurmynick: reallyCorrect! |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 8:47pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
The only immaturity 99.9% of married men are guilty of is: chasing other women! But then, I sometimes don't blame them cos men are naturally polygamous beings, even though today women don't want to accept that natural imperfection in men due to christianity and modern civilization and the fight for gender-equality ![]() The only way to stop your husband from desiring to sleep with other women or chasing single girls is to make sure that he is in constant relationship with God! Aside the special grace of God and total submission to the word of God and fear of God, no man, I repeat, no man can marry and live forever with one woman without cheating on her! Take it or leave it...u can listen to what u want to hear or believe what people say to appear too holy, it won't stop me from being honest to the best of my knowledge. |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
I am not married but if I get married tomorrow and my husband rejects my food for any reason,omo I fit die oo |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by stitcheD(m): 8:59pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
pc guru:Thought you were a spam bot |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
u smoke weed for dat number one!!!!a man does not eat in a home were dere is fire...he's not happy@dat moment,so y shud he eat d food??but wer d man go take f-up na wen e nor eat for str8 3days.....dats shud b d imaturity in him.....i dnt eat in my house wen i had issues wit my parents....i jst cant eat wit anger na.....d food no go sweet,,,i go wait til d next day wen my mind don calm down....even my dad too...he jst cant eat...and its d duty of d wife to pampam him d next day to eat...dats true love.......wild smilesss....... |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by vivaciousvivi(f): 9:13pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
agwo2july: Op is like u r a woman who engaged in offending ur husband and come up here with ur write up on how he react to ur misbehavior? U need to repent, respect and make ur husband happy if not one day, d man will surprise u. Just an advise woman Na wa for people o! Someone, out of the goodness of teir heart posts something to advice those among us who may distill it and find it useful. N u just came to turn it around and even accuse the poster!? Na real wa. 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 9:23pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
davades: Only yesterday she received my first slap...ladies can annoying at times. We never talk since thenpls let's give this guy a standing ovation He has successfulyy delivered his first slap. ![]() |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by emmog25: 9:29pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
@OP I beg to disagree with some points here: 1. When a man reject his wife's food, it's a way of protesting in other to get an apology from the woman..(Trust some women now "very egoistic" ) 2. Some women forget the man is the head by nothing given Him the chance to Play his lead role..they don't want the man to even have a say... You must always go with their own opinion. The rest depends on the couple's character. hafi: Got this as a broadcast, would love to know those for the women folks...... |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by dollydolly(f): 9:31pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Op u forgot to add " always ranting that you want to kill him at any slightest misunderstanding" n" telling u to walk infront of him cos u might be at the back exchanging greeyings with men". |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 9:32pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Yea give yourself a very nice excuse to go and get AiDS,gonorhea etc Give yourself a very nature-approved reason to cause problems for your poor wife and bring ridicule to her and your matrimonial bed. Yea break her heart and hurt her feelings (that's if she even has feelings.cos I'm sure the way men hurt when their wives cheat,the women are made of stone and feel nothing when you do. Yea nature made it so. Cos he created one Adam and three Eves Pathetic. if you marry someone like me with that kind of mindset,you've got big problems on your hands. DailyNews: The only immaturity 99.9% of married men are guilty of is: chasing other women! |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by armyofone(m): 9:34pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
I think we should make it clear to each other before marriage that he/she will not eat for X days when there is argument. That way you know to cook for yourself. It saves on the food rejection/wastage/anger for not eating etc deols: |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by 2rutalk(m): 9:37pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Smh,not bad anyway |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 9:47pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
I am sure many ladies here in support of these post and even adding more are either single or married with self issues that probably leads to such reaction from there husband. Wen ur husbnd does not eat ur food, dere'z no way u will b comfortbl... Fact! |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by olawumia(m): 10:02pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Can some pls tell my fellow Nigerians that severally differs from several ? Severally means Separately .@Op |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by kraftyiyk: 10:34pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
HOW ABOUT THE IMATURITIES OF MARRIED WOMEN? |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by HARDDON: 10:42pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
Ngokafor: and you dont think it is spiritually, physically and emotionally impossible for him to eat ha food at such moments? as with everything else, the manner of presentation matters a lot. ofcos, wise married ones, use diverse ways to say they are sorry. and if the wify is subtle enuf to remorsefully present the food, most men would mos def eat. but if on the other hand she pops up and roars your name with :'YOUR FOOD IS ON THE TABLE'. bliv me, no man wano die that young. strife with your wify is childish, reporting her to who ever is silly, always wano Lord it over her shows insecurity 1 Like |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by mobi5592: 10:44pm On Nov 04, 2013 |
DICKtator: So what are signs of immaturity in women?. 10,000 Likes |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by GatJokez(f): 12:07am On Nov 05, 2013 |
Like the mom said in the movie "My Big Fat Greek Wedding," the man might be the head of the household, but the woman is the neck which decides which way the head turns. Lol lol lol ![]() |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 12:21am On Nov 05, 2013 |
deols: Being angry is not normal, when its caused by external factor. Thank you! |
Re: Traits Of Immaturity Displayed By Men In Marriage. by Nobody: 12:40am On Nov 05, 2013 |
Ngokafor: How will I have sex with my wife when I am angry? It won't even cross my mind... |
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