luvable sam:

U are very STU.PID....cos u are frm a certain tribe doesn't make u or ur kind superior. Am sure u ar an educated illetrate.....u really showed ur foolly on this comment......am so sure u av neva travelled past ur village,area or lagos cos u are obviously YORUBA.

I pity a man that wud consider u for a blind date talkless of marriage

Afam4eva:
I still can't find where the husband told the wife to speak Esan to the child.

Jiteshell:
what is this one trying to say? You have on point. Why don't men have boobs and vag1nas?

cayesworld: your hubby's got serious issues. . . . you dont speak his language, yet he has no qualms spekin' it to your kid shutting u out in the process. . . . wondering why his own father didn't ban him from learning and speaking yoruba (fluently sef) . . . heck i'm yoruba and my wife is as well but guess what. . . .
my lil' angel has an ibo name. . . .
while he's at it maybe your son shouldn't learn english as well. . . sorry ooo no disrespect meant

Afam4eva:
Maybe i should go to church one day and claim my right to preach on the alter. There's an extent to which your right can take you. The man has a right imposed on him either by nature or popular wisdom. The woman should not try to take that away from him just as he wouldn't take the woman's own unique rights. Can the woman claim the right to have a penis? Let her stick to what she was given and stop trying to take another person's role. And i don't know why people always see the female role as being tantamount to slavery. It's not anybody that's born to be a leader. I know a guy that says he can't be the owner of the business or even the head of a managerial position because he's talented at being a follower. It's only someone who's an oliver twist that will want to assume numerous responsibilities especially if someone is already handling some of these responsibilities.

Reference: If this are the microchips that make up Nigeria then we have no hope whatsoever. Language, tribe and tongue are a curse to this country. When you'd think cross-cultural marraiges will result in a third 'language', new ideas and the dawning of hope, pigs still prefer mud. Utter rubbish. Hope your son will not inherit this ish.

gothrones:

If indeed the man has a right imposed by nature, then he surely will not have this problem. Comparing a woman trying to claim right to having a penis to that of naming her child is absolutely nonsensical, and I am sure you know that. How can it be nature if we are arguing about it? There was a time that men were lords over women, but that time is fast coming to an end. We are not cavemen anymore and we live in a time of equality. A man does not own a child. They both do. The mere fact that the husband is helpless in this situation completely destroys your "nature" argument, for it were nature, then one cannot change it.

ileobatojo:

Good man. Now these are the caliber of men we are talking about. Thinking men worthy of 100% respect! Not all these other dime a dozen blockheads.

ileobatojo:

Good man. Now these are the caliber of men we are talking about. Thinking men worthy of 100% respect! Not all these other dime a dozen blockheads.

lady gogo: What a hilarious thread! orishirishi creatures.

Ileobatojo where have u been? You get time o.

De beauvoir you u sent me an email.

cayesworld: heck i'm yoruba and my wife is as well but guess what. . . . my lil' angel has an ibo name. . . .

Igban:

Una nor try at all.

kendraloops: I'm so so so very angry this evening. I've been having this issue with hubby for a while now, used to think he was kidding but this evening just confirmed it for me.

I'm Yoruba n he's Esan from Edo state. He speaks yoruba very very fluently even better than me, he teaches me proverbs n all sometimes sef. But anytime I speak yoruba to our baby, he gets irritated kind of n says' my son is an Esan man, stop speaking yoruba to him'.

We had a major row over it this evening again. Don't I count in the boy's life? What's the biggie in him learning how to speak yoruba?

kendraloops: I'm so so so very angry this evening. I've been having this issue with hubby for a while now, used to think he was kidding but this evening just confirmed it for me.

I'm Yoruba n he's Esan from Edo state. He speaks yoruba very very fluently even better than me, he teaches me proverbs n all sometimes sef. But anytime I speak yoruba to our baby, he gets irritated kind of n says' my son is an Esan man, stop speaking yoruba to him'.

We had a major row over it this evening again. Don't I count in the boy's life? What's the biggie in him learning how to speak yoruba?

chinjo: What I can deduce from ur comments shows that u are the domineering type of wives who has no respect for her husband's opinion. Firstly, by forcing ur husband to give ur child a yoruba name and secondly by insist on speaking yoruba to him. Esan men are proud and always want to be in charge. Disobeying him will only do you more harm than good. I am an Esan man and I grew up in Ilorin. My dad always frown at us when he hears us speaking Yoruba (AZANAMA) as against Ishan. Obedience is better than sacrifice

tintingz: So the woman doesn't have any right on the child??

luvable sam:

If u don't want a man that wud set u straight, fine....I really wonder How some people were trained....

Am so sure u are already a cross to the person u are dating even if u are a lez...

Reasoning......ZERO
Mentality...... ZERO
IQ............ ZERO
PERSONALITY...... ZERO

U need help URGENTLY

lady gogo: What a hilarious thread! orishirishi creatures.


Ileobatojo where have u been? You get time o.

De beauvoir you u sent me an email.

Chillisauce:

ileobatojo:

Abeg if the shoe fits, wear it and quit yapping.

Now out of my way so I can see better, high quality men.

luvable sam:
You are such a huge joke.....wyich "high quality Man" like u put it, wud wanna be with a Woman with Zero personality or IQ?

luvable sam:

U are very STU.PID....cos u are frm a certain tribe doesn't make u or ur kind superior. Am sure u ar an educated illetrate.....u really showed ur foolly on this comment......am so sure u av neva travelled past ur village,area or lagos cos u are obviously YORUBA.

I pity a man that wud consider u for a blind date talkless of marriage

me_for_you: Don't understand some commentators here. How can can the woman teach the child esan when she doesn't understand the language.
The man must be a bull to think that a mom is not supposed to speak her language to her child.
This calls for divorce. It's early signs of bigger quaerels of the future

deols:

Y are you so bitter? Are you so insecure and from an inferior tribe?

You are soo educated that you could not see that I wrote that in inverted comas.

You low self esteemed lot should be screened off the internet.