DECOtech: Hey!!! ...he has not asked him to hit his wife back. Or are u saying he shld brood in hunger? ...what's ur point exactly?

kensto: I was having an argument with my wife over an issue which she was at fault. I angryly left the house to cool temper. I later came back and asked for my food ,she ignored me. I went to the kitchen to take my food, opened the pot to take the food. She came from where she was staying walked to the kitchen and closed the pot and then slapped me saying "how dare you touch my pot". I just stood there for some minutes wondering what i would do to her. Please tell me what to do.

kolidave: . It his wrong for the wife to be d sole provider in a family,very wrong. Its d husbands duty and right to provide and takia of his family. The instance he stops doing that he looses respect both from the wife and people around him. Now I'm not saying he has the right to do so wen he's the one providing buh that respect should be there and the moment the wife disagrees to respect him even wen he's d sole provider then the wife should get ready for watever consequences she mite get from the husband

Ngokafor:



...what to do??...simply start crying,go down on your knees and beg for mercy while promising to be a good boy next time.

alex1612: Cool urself down, if possible laugh over it. Whenever she stop her aggression let her know that you refused to reply her slap because of the love and respect you have for her. Ask her, Where is your own respect and love from her? Let her realize you are to protect her not endanger her life by fighting. Tell her sweet words and bring her back to that lovely woman you married. Latter if not immediately, she will apologize to you. You will get things resolve easily if you are the responsible type.

bukatyne:

I wanted to say next time, he returns fire for fire but I don't want to encourage violence!

Lol at Ogun

Nashville:

I have realised something. Some Nigerian women like to know their limits. So a wife starts insulting her husband, and if he does nothing, she starts threathening him, and if he does nothing, he begins to push him; and if he still does nothing, she slaps him and if he does nothing, she will beat him with belt.

That is why I said the man should quickly set the boundary for her. He should make her realise that the slap will never be tolerated and he will just allow it this time because he believes it is a mistake. So the boundary has been clearly defined and she will never try it again, the consequences may be severe.

everyday: I will beat the shit out of her

squaddy: ...C'mon people, no woman on planet earth would go that far over a minor issue as her hubby going to her "most holy pot"...she may claim onwership of the pot and rain abuses or even go as far as making sure he does not eat but to slap him? Nah I don't think so...tell us another lie OP

bukatyne:

This is the problem.

If a wife can't assist her hubby on his perceived 'duties', what is her usefulness?

Freiburger: I have never been slapped by any woman, So i cant really tell how my adrenaline will react to that.

Amaaskia:


Hitting her back isn't gonna settle the issue but worsen it.
You're a man, you don't hit a woman- no matter what. What if you hit her and she collapses?
You can't compare the strength of a man to that of a woman!

Instead of slapping her back, ignore her and walk away. That makes you a real man.

Do you know ignoring me is worse than beating me?


Seriously, NL has too many cavemen!

Ngokafor:



...what to do??...simply start crying,go down on your knees and beg for mercy while promising to be a good boy next time.

kolidave: yeah it matters. Cos if he's the one that drops d money for soup and food in the house she won't have the nerve and courage to slap him and call it her pot cos she obviously knows where the money is coming from. And if he's the bread winner like I said she'll give him that respect and wouldn't lay a finger on the sole provider of the house.....

packman: [size=20pt]HA........

HMMM....... I DON'T KNOW WHAT I WOULD DO SHA..........

BECAUSE AM NOT YET MARRIED NI.....

BUT LETS WAITS AND SEE WHEN I AM MARRIED........

I WOULD POST TO YOU THEN WHAT I WOULD DO..... [/size]

skipo smith007: na swear I for swear for u bros, but anyway, I go live u for once,,,na fucking rubbish..nd am nt gonna retaliate, which av programmed myself not too, like u said...but I swear it am gonna deny her of MILLION TIN, to make ny revenge, if she like, she should go after anoda man, neva my business, but u know now, ladies hate been treated this way at home.....that's my view though....

kolidave: Lmaoooo. Ur wife na d breadwinner be dat. U can ave ur say and retaliate wen u become d breadwinner once again

kolidave: thank God u said ASSIST. Assist is different from being in charge.
Assist can be wife will clothe d children and husband will pay fees bills and food. Buh wen the wife does everything is utterly wrong.

kensto: I was having an argument with my wife over an issue which she was at fault. I angryly left the house to cool temper. I later came back and asked for my food ,she ignored me. I went to the kitchen to take my food, opened the pot to take the food. She came from where she was staying walked to the kitchen and closed the pot and then slapped me saying "how dare you touch my pot". I just stood there for some minutes wondering what i would do to her. Please tell me what to do.