kulyie: it cant be of any gain,are you not an animal.what do animals know aside food and s3x,you too good night.

at 8.34 pm,the ode is already saying goodnight,obviously planning to sleep,why wont he be poorer than church rat and start feeling edgy around successful women.laziness!

Some people are working,reading and developing their intellect,researching and this one is planning to sleep.no worry,you will be rich when governour fashola becomes the governour of anambra state

kulyie: lmao,i am a gentle dove,infact as gentle as a dove except when some bush meat ignite the anger in me,i am very peaceful o,i no be fire fire,abeg 8-)

kulyie: ok,and your point is........?

My o my!... My dear u don try joor... I 4 pity dis fellaz if dey had bin so unfortunate 2 v met u in d day coz der self-esteem 4 dey close 2 zerooo after u must v dealth with der asses.
I do admire ur tenacity girl... Keep putting dem in der ryt places n neva shy away from a challenge.
#still dey fire dem sufri sufri sha#.
Loving ur dovelike gentle part as well *winks*

Pryme-st*rr:

Lol... Ok! Just try n be a swthrt n show dem d door out in a mild manner so dey won't v any open grounds 2 throw tantrums @ u.
Hate 2 see my 1s rival turned swt friend being attacked.,*winks*

bros ds lady strong o..u wey de rage lyk fire b4 c as dem pour u cold water sotay u bcum frnd...

Na joke o #noattackme#

Babzilla:


DONT MIND THE DEMENTED BABOON
U ACT ALL ARROGANT AND DESPICABLE
AND UEXPECT PEOPLE TO BE ATTRACTED 2 U
U GOTTA BE A ROCKSTAR 2 PULL THAT OFF

Common, why call her that?
You dont know her background from adam, our past experience has a way of shaping our present and future values.

BTW, i might be wrong, what i can perceive about her is someone who has built a high and mighty wall of self defense for herself against men.

She also has a strong stereotype of men being opportunist. I also think people like her when they eventually fall in love with a man, they fall like an elephant.

kulyie: where did you see me cuddling dogs and cats orisirisi.

Anyway,i have heard (read)

I can picture you cuddling pets , abi i lie ni?

chefd'oeuvre:

bros ds lady strong o..u wey de rage lyk fire b4 c as dem pour u cold water sotay u bcum frnd...

Na joke o #noattackme#

Lol... Brosy eh!
D torii 2 long so e go hard make u understand am wella.
We v had some extremely ugly heated exchanges-she n I, but u should know wen 2 bail out wen u r supposed 2.
She's got her lyf 2 live n is completely free 2 choose her orientation without fear or favour so derz so lytl or no input i can make towards dt end... But 4 wat itz worth, i do think i understand wer she's coming from *i mean her point* so i see no need 2 stick 2 rivalry wen d air is quite condusive 4 peaceful co-existence
NO LOVE LOST afterall.
#lyf is all about learning while living#

tobezekiel: Cos guys think successful ladies tend to have attitude ish...

in addition,i was in dat shoes yrs ago, my ppl,it was hell,i mean i did house chores (including cooking),even when i got a new job,4 d first month i begged 4 transit nd feeding cuz my situation then was critical,bt after sm months i had 2 move out of d apartment,cuz i cldnt take it any more.... Dat has brought me 2 a conclussion of neva to go be wiv a woman of higher status compared to mine

iAMsuccess: in addition,i was in dat shoes yrs ago, my ppl,it was hell,i mean i did house chores (including cooking),even when i got a new job,4 d first month i begged 4 transit nd feeding cuz my situation then was critical,bt after sm months i had 2 move out of d apartment,cuz i cldnt take it any more.... Dat has brought me 2 a conclussion of neva to go be wiv a woman of higher status compared to mine

Loooooooooooolll!
*singing in swahili soprano*
1s beaten... Twice shyyyyyyy
Constantly beaten... Eternally shyyyyy

jmoore: I have no problem with independent women.

If she is not independent before I meet her. She must learn the act of financial independence by fire by force before we marry.

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The major reason why most prefer to marry or date women who are financially below them is to boost their egos.The man wants a woman that will constantly stroke his ego to reassure him he is needed and a decision-maker so he doesn’t feel emasculated.

on point bro

Cos any little misunderstandin wil result to insult on de man.secondly if dey divorce de woman has noting to loose.thirdly de man wil not receive de amount of respects he wants from his wife yea de woman wil be too egoism

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

u should forever remain single.

iahmed: u should forever remain single.

OR BETTER YET SHE SHOULD LIVE ON AN ISLAND ALONE

Pryme-st*rr:

Sympathy Who would be so stupid as 2 sympathize with u?... After all d repugnant rubbish u v bin spewing on dis thread
Serious minded fellaz *men or women* do not invest der precious tym in peeps lyk u cos u r d perfect example of BAD INVESTMENT... #in my own words# DISASTROUS INVESTMENT!

Bad to d core..smh

iahmed: u should forever remain single.

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iahmed: u should forever remain single.

[quote author=kulyie]1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life mi ght be app then am very sure u are single and if u dont fine tune yourself u may end up so.

kulyie: she is where your great grand parents have never been before

Madam Kulyie don sleep, abi she don go her witch meeting?

Am sure soon,people like you will start going to night vigils and prayer houses in search of husband when they discover that remaining single is no longer as trendy as you have been decieved to believe. My dear be wise,no woman had ever been happy remaining single. All na pretence.

Contactman: Am sure soon,people like you will start going to night vigils and prayer houses in search of husband when they discover that remaining single is no longer as trendy as you have been decieved to believe. My dear be wise,no woman had ever been happy remaining single. All na pretence.

let that be my buisness.see painment o

Contactman: [b][/b][i][/i]

i am,thank you

Babzilla:
OR BETTER YET SHE SHOULD LIVE ON AN ISLAND ALONE

while you need to move to the cave.see as body dey pepper you for another person matter

pele,no worry,e go better

[color=#990000][/color]Because they go angry easily...

dabossman: I think some of these financially successful ladies need to maybe change or broaden their circle of friends.

I noticed a trend recently which sort of formed this opinion. I realized that a number of financially independent ladies who finally got married after waiting almost endlessly, got married to guys they knew from many years before; probably in secondary school or university, or in the neighbourhood they grew up in. These are guys who knew them before they started earning the fat salaries. Guys who know their true person and not some perceived diva status. In some cases, even when the guy is obviously earning less than they are, it didn't pose a problem because the guy knows where they are coming from and appreciates and respects the fact that they've made something positive of their lives over time. The really key in these cases being accessibility because there was an existing relationship.

So maybe these ladies need to get outside of their usual circle of friends who hangout at only the poshest of locations and mingle more with people who are not necessarily in your "social status". Let these people get to know the real you. It won't de-rep you or cheapen you.

This also applies to guys who say there are no good girls out there. There are, you are just not searching in the right crowd.

My guy, your post makes a lot of sense. Infact, too much sense.

on a serious note though, i strongly believe this kulyie of lady works for Seun. I mean who spends the whole day replying every single post on the internet? . Kulyie I put it to you that you are either a nairaland worker or your life must really be miserable

Arsenate: on a serious note though, i strongly believe this kulyie of lady works for Seun. I mean who spends the whole day replying every single post on the internet? . Kulyie I put it to you that you are either a nairaland worker or your life must really be miserable

your opinion



which you are entiltled to anyway

Pryme-st*rr:

Lol... Brosy eh!
D torii 2 long so e go hard make u understand am wella.
We v had some extremely ugly heated exchanges-she n I, but u should know wen 2 bail out wen u r supposed 2.
She's got her lyf 2 live n is completely free 2 choose her orientation without fear or favour so derz so lytl or no input i can make towards dt end... But 4 wat itz worth, i do think i understand wer she's coming from *i mean her point* so i see no need 2 stick 2 rivalry wen d air is quite condusive 4 peaceful co-existence
NO LOVE LOST afterall.
#lyf is all about learning while living#

abi o.thats nigerians for you.

If you dont agree with their school of thoght,they start personality attacks and act as if they are the only ones that know how to hurl insults.

Like she has said,i am equally here to learn new things and broaden my horizon except for some few bush meats that throw useless tantrums

emiye:

I can picture you cuddling pets , abi i lie ni?

in your dreams.

The elders say,it is what you are capable of doing when there are no eyes around you that you think others are doing