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Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:03pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
rhowly:nope,i am not aggresive,my personality stays with me but my attitude depends on individuals.there are some individuals i am very mild,soft and feminine with and there are some groups of people,especially some categories of men i have to be aggressive,sometimes arrogant and assertive with.depends on the approach you give me or bring my way ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Malakh: 7:04pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
tensor777:he can't do nothing about it except there's a divine intervention who will cast that spirit of rebellion from her, my book says who can make what is crooked straight? Nobody.... leopards dont change their spots, they'll pretend to change but it'll manifest one way or the other |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:09pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Pryme-st*rr:hahahahahahaha urhobo or ijebu ke? Areeeyyyyy ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by rhames(m): 7:18pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
What a lot of people dont understand about these career women is that they are the easiest set of people to manage anywhere in the world. The qualifications or experience may be intimidating, but only if the woman is of good character. Professional women like people of sound thinking around them all the time and not people who will take their career away from them. We men in Africa have an attitude/culture problem with women of stature: we are afraid of them and will not like them as spouses.There is basically nothing wrong with the career women. Just like every man, they want sound minds around them. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Prymestrr(m): 7:22pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: hahahahahahaha urhobo or ijebu ke? AreeeyyyyyHahahahahahahahahaha Hmmmmmm... Girl u be 1 strange lass o! I'm really hyping u sha. Hope 2 see more of ur fire in n around NL. #cheers# |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by EziAsh: 7:24pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I would say personally men do not have a problem with a woman success in so far as she keeps cleaning,taking care of the children,bringing money and handing it over to him let him have sex when ever they want. Immediately they think that she may not do all this they keep away. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Pryme-st*rr:lmao,i am a gentle dove,infact as gentle as a dove except when some bush meat ignite the anger in me,i am very peaceful o,i no be fire fire,abeg ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:30pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: when i say you are mentally underdeveloped,you will start your blind arguement or ranting.who have you seen or heard of that developed high bp because of typing.whao! Nice write up(Claps):.. LOL. So you know how to diss out invectives as these? I hope you are this bold in real life. You will go far but not too far before you FDD. Relax, I'm not mentally naive as you wrote just a bit brainy, I picked holes in what you wrote about yourself and not what I made up about you.But its good you make friends and not enemies on such a forum this.I respect your opinion as your Opinion-I take nothing away from that but it doesn't change anything about you nay myself.Besides, a scholar does not make noise, only empty barrels do. kulyie: lmao,i am a gentle dove,infact as gentle as a dove except when some bush meat ignite the anger in me,i am very peaceful o,i no be fire ire,abeg Ayoolla: whao! Nice write up(Claps):.. LOL. So you know how to diss out invectives as these? I hope you are this bold in real life. You will go far but not too far before you FDD. Relax, I'm not mentally naive as you wrote just a bit brainy, I picked holes in what you wrote about yourself and not what I made up about you.But its good you make friends and not enemies on such a forum as this.I respect your opinion as your Opinion-I take nothing away from that but it doesn't change anything about you nay myself.Besides, a scholar does not make noise, only empty barrels do. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:38pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Ayoolla: whao! Nice write up(Claps):.. LOL. So you know how to diss out invectives as these? I hope you are this bold in real life. You will go far but not too far before you FDD. Relax, I'm not mentally naive as you wrote just a bit brainy, I picked holes in what you wrote about yourself and not what I made up about you.But its good you make friends and not enemies on such a forum this.I respect your opinion as your Opinion-I take nothing away from that but it doesn't change anything about you nay myself.Besides, a scholar does not make noise, only empty barrels do.ok,and your point is........? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by eROCK247(m): 7:49pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
wasak:most sensible post so far! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 7:51pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Knowledge9000: I am going to cmment as though she were an ugly whatever you called her! Meanwhile smh I think it is a beautiful thing that an ugly babe can have a choice of being single these days...she can go on vacations, spend her money, adopt a child, etc...if especially lucky she can have a few male friends who dont judge her choices and take care of her, like her for her (Meanwhile, she may be single cos no one wants her ugly whatever face, lol) Imagine being ugly, with an inferiority complex about not having a guy, and being poor to boot! Why such a woman would be suicidal or something! So in my opinion ugly, successful and confident rocks here, cos here is one person who has refused to let her lack of "looks" define her! Or you want her permanently cowed- ugly, poor and begging men to want her? This for some reason makes you stronger? I think you said the ugly thing here, and it saddens me more that people liked your post....cos frankly, your post reeks of hate and a form of complex, I dunno which now! (I see the point in being ugly and yet being confident enough to say, "marriage would enslave me too, none of that"... You should be proud of this confidence and not hate, lol) If you dont say or at least feel sorry about your nonsense post (imo)...then you really need help! Mxm!!! Btw, you will NOT see this face, so deal with it 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by rhowly(m): 7:55pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: nope,i am not aggresive,my personality stays with me but my attitude depends on individuals.there are some individuals i am very mild,soft and feminine with and there are some groups of people,especially some categories of men i have to be aggressive,sometimes arrogant and assertive with.depends on the approach you give me or bring my wayObviously...still it does speak a lot about your maturity if you understand every dart doesn't require another. But then again maybe it just me. Cheers |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Victosin09(f): 8:12pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
godjohnson: DuhhRightly said sir....our feminist is 'wonderful' 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by cnsprince(m): 8:21pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Financially independent women tend to lord it over their less well-to-do men-friends. Men love to be in-charge. So, anything on the contrary leads to break-up. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by EMEzzy(m): 8:27pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
wogor@paradise:you are getting me wrong read well before commenting I meant men have ego not women.. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:42pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
rhowly:well,maybe ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by kgr8mike(m): 8:44pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house. It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman = Proverbs 21:9 & 19 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by emiye(m): 8:50pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
@OP The fear of not getting respect and submission from the rich lady. The value a woman attaches to " care " from her spouse is the same a man attaches to "respect and submission" from his spouse. @kulyie, you need a good man, Loneliness has a way of creeping strongly in to ones life as you get firmly rooted careerwise, abi for how long will you continue to cuddle Dogs and cats ? Be subtle a little, and that man will come , who you will handover your ego to for keeps. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:51pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
ogugua88: BELIEVE ME I HAVE DATED BOTH THE ARROGANT AND THE CONFIDENT ALL WORKING LADIES WHO R COMFORTABLE (I WONT TERM THEM SUCCESSFUL SHA ) HONESTLY ITS NO ACCIDENT WHEN U SEE A WORKING WOMAN WHO IS SINGLE IF SHE IS NICE I SWEAR WHY WONT MEN WANT TO MARRY SUCH ONLY A MAD MAN WILL SEE GOOD THING AND IGNORE |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by plaetton: 8:52pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons: Yes, It has a lot to do with the male ego. But the male ego is not an aberration. It is a natural part of being a male. All the qualities that drive these women to success are hardly the qualities that men look for in a life-long companion. This is particularly true in Non-Western societies, and also to some degree in western societies. The difference is that in Western societies, some men opt to play second fiddle until they get fed up and then bolt for a more feminine companion. So, whether traditional or western society, men still prefer femininity to the aggressive , hard-driving and career-driven women. The African man would rather avoid casting his life-long lot with this type of woman, whereas, the western man would do so, but keeps a feminine and submissive mistress, or makes a break for divorce after only a short period of time. Such a woman might be fun, dynamic, and a go-getter, but would hardly fit the domestic profile of the average African man. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Jman06(m): 8:54pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
One major problem career ladies have in Nigeria is that they always want to date up i.e they seek men who are higher in financial status than them,but in most cases 99.9% of such men are already taken by runs babes and younger girls who are usually ready to submit to the man.So the career lady joins in the competition for the few available rich men,unfortunately most times she loses out to younger girls during the dating game because age is always not in her favor and she is too 'wise' to submit to the man.Another factor is that Nigerian career ladies always consider the not so rich or struggling guy who is making passes at them as gold diggers who is only interested in their monies,even when the guy is genuinely in love with them.So she treats him with so much arrogance and disdain( i.e If at all she gives him a chance) that the guy would have no option than to run for dear life.Any career lady who's humble is an invaluable gift from God and any man who is lucky to find such should grab her with both hands. 5 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
milychocs:abi o.moreover the elders say beauty is in the EYES OF THE BEHOLDER,so na him know wetin e dey see ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by temi4fash(m): 9:02pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me are u sure u ready to get married ![]() from dis ur post it seems to me you have a very bad mentality abt marriage... |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by MEILYN(m): 9:04pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
hehehe ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 9:06pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
emiye: @OP The fear of not getting respect and submission from the rich lady.where did you see me cuddling dogs and cats ![]() Anyway,i have heard (read) |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 9:07pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
temi4fash:for the first question,NO,as for the second whatever your opinion is..... |
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