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Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by tammie24: 3:25pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
wasak:I'm a woman and i agree with u! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Pattey(m): 3:25pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me You know, that's why a lotta people now say marriage is not compulsory Oh & btw, being baby mamas is now trending. . . I'm sure you'll find that a perfect fit. Cheers! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by luckman20(m): 3:27pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
A man needs at least one thing to impress a woman. If the woman is financially independent, nigga tends to run when the woman's got everything he'll use to impress |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by InvertedHammer: 3:28pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Akalia: Another point is that some of such ladies act miss independent,they don't need a man.some of them ve bent sexual oreintation....Asikwana na asim!!! Hahaha! The question is: Who is running away from who? Are guys running away from "independent"(relative term by the way) women OR the so-called independent women are the ones running away from guys. With the harsh economic reality of Nigeria, everyone is on gold-digging expedition..men and women. A financially secure woman is looking for a man who can complement her effort. A successful man is looking for his better half. Independent and successful are like two captains in a ship. Something is going to give. So successful men look for decent women who can zip their mouth . The usually pompous and arrogant independent women turn around and blame men for their predicament when their biological clock's battery is at critical level. Honestly, I have not met any financially independent woman in Nigeria. Don't let those flashy cars fool you. The closer you get, the more they want to siphon what is left in your account. May be to their mates, they are financially independent because they have house, car(s), business. But if you look close enough, you will see that they are leeching off of some man somewhere. Do you really believe that Linda Ikeji, et al. are financially independent in the real sense of it? Come on! By the way, I still think marriage for a typical Nigerian woman is mostly an ego thing. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:29pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
nbright: Congrats... I am truely happy for you..thanks love,she says hiiii aunty too many bitter,frustrated,resentful and dirty peeps around here jare |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:31pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Pattey:smiling |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by tayoxx(m): 3:32pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Its simply bcoz she would want to control the husband....I no of sum1 who was a bankmanager but lost his job..today the wife shouts on him simply bcoz she's thebread winner of the fam...although not all girls are desame sha |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by tundebj(m): 3:33pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let media seem to b some frustration some where. Ar u sur all is well? It wl help if u just let go. U realy deserve a beter life 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Prymestrr(m): 3:34pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: thanks love,she says hiiii auntyLol... Ah ah! Ease up. 2 much bad blood running in ur viens na... Abeg help me tell d baby say Uncle dey greet am 2 joor |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Doyensky: 3:39pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Bcoz d tendency to be proud is alwayz der, d oda partner myt feel threatened xpecially wen d guy isnt as financially bouyant as she is. Though nt all of dem sha. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Pryme-st*rr:lollllzzzzzzz she's dragging phone with me o.anyway,i am saying hiii on her behalf and hoped you're calm now |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by InvertedHammer: 3:40pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
tundebj: dia seem to b some frustration some where. Ar u sur all is well? It wl help if u just let go. U realy deserve a beter life LOL. People that did all she ranted about ended up here: [img]http://4.bp..com/-l_19DoU6vPc/US4tiypCIFI/AAAAAAAAflk/VYkylPPBrWA/s400/church+poster+3.jpg[/img] 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by jidexboy(m): 3:41pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
It depends on the level of understanding, of both of them. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by nbright: 3:42pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
BoboYekini: @OP, you forgot to put 'Nigerian women' in the title. All the bad bad tins for dis life, na their hand e full.Your sister(s) from Mozambique? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:42pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
tundebj: dia seem to b some frustration some where. Ar u sur all is well? It wl help if u just let go. U realy deserve a beter lifei am happy with my life na,shoooo,wetin happen. Anyway back to topic about guys avoiding independent women your take? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Prymestrr(m): 3:46pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: lollllzzzzzzz she's dragging phone with me o.anyway,i am saying hiii on her behalf and hoped you're calm nowLol... Girl, i was born calm so no beef... Itz a free world. @tymz d only rule is dt der r no rules. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by nbright: 3:47pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
chess guru:My mom is an Urhobo woman... She's very quiet... I take after her.. Not all Urhobo are aggressive... Don't generalize, it's very wrong. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
InvertedHammer:are you referring to buisness men impersonating as pastors. :p 8-) |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mystical10: 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Dumkele_1: @raymondenyi...u sound so bitter. with dis attitude u have put up here,only a short sighted lady will be willing to put up with it......I think I will blame the African men who do not know how to appreciate women. if u appreciate and encourage all women(successful or not),I can assure u that they will give u d respect u deserve 100%.....to be Frank ,what d lady said is quite true.....ur grammar hmmmm.........lastly u had no right to tell d lady to shut up and kindly show ladies some luv cos without them we all won't be here...peacewoman rapa |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Prymestrr(m): 3:58pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: are you referring to buisness men impersonating as pastors.Lol! Godhouse intl. Plc... Incorporated n quoted public liability company... Strictly 4 profit! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by nbright: 4:00pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
simpleseyi:If you are what you preached (born again), you wouldn't distort someones name even if you don't like them.. Do you practice what you preach?. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by SwitnessA(m): 4:01pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons:Dis is lovely dear. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mystical10: 4:03pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
wasak:you have said it all |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by FrankieG: 4:05pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
In moi opinion i thinks its because men ar control freaks n they feel they cant ve absolute control in d r/ship |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mystical10: 4:06pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
lynpetra: Damn it,some men are confused beings.They agitate for self -dependent women only to run away when they are successful.IMO,such men are less than cowards.haaa. See scam o. Money doubler.lolz |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by nbright: 4:08pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
cheche98: coz she aint feeling the man he said he is anymore!!!! In her eyes she only sees a ******.btw she's got the money,fame and her problem solved to her credit. He's basically not doing anyfin for her. There's absolutely no void to fill in her life coz she's a man. SHE IS IN CHARGE. Lol the sweetest part is offering him money(men that tag women "gold diggers". Everyone is a man as long as being "independent "is concerned.So you meant to say that women only respect men because the men gives them money?... This is serious |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by eremich: 4:08pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Every man on earth wants to be the boss |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mystical10: 4:13pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: 1.Ego will never let mei hv seen ur type, atlast u will look for someone like majak fashk the regeman to marry, and u will do all this bla bla bla u re saying. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by nbright: 4:15pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
mitchyy: Mehnnn. i'm totally confused on this issue. I work hard to earn a lot so i can support my siblings. Does that mean i should drop all that or i should hide my earnings from every guy i come across? I've met some guys who love the fact that i'm independent while others are standing by the door because they are scared i'll be proud.Are you proud?. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 4:17pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
So many people on the thread busy attacking kulyie because she said she doesn't want to live a life of 'submission' under a man I admire your fighting spirit, @kulyie. I have to hand it to you, you have so much resilience; eight pages and you are still responding to them. One thing you should realize though is that majority of African men were raised to believe that all women must be under a man after marriage so when you say that you do not want to be spend your life being a controlled slave, they get angry and say all sorts of nonsense to make you rethink your decision because you are rebelling against their stereotypical superior position and they don't want you to succeed in doing that. No one wants to lose a priviledged position so they will resist you if you try to take it from them. Men want to see to it that all women remain under them, and remain subdued, subjugated etc. That's what they like to see and that is what they are trying to enforce; male superiority. My advice to you is to do whatever works best for you, if having kids without marriage is what suits you then go for it. Not everyone can handle the baggage that comes with marriage anyway so do what makes you happy Forget what the people who are trying to keep women from rising are writing. Forget their nonsense about how single successful women are lonely and depressed etc. That is just a means they employ to make women believe that they need live lives of submission under men in order to be fulfilled. I wish you the best 2 Likes |
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