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Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Prymestrr(m): 1:44pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: hellooooo,who needs anyone's sympathy.the way you think is very funny,who and what the hell makes you think i need anyone's sympathy.smhSympathy Who would be so stupid as 2 sympathize with u?... After all d repugnant rubbish u v bin spewing on dis thread Serious minded fellaz *men or women* do not invest der precious tym in peeps lyk u cos u r d perfect example of BAD INVESTMENT... #in my own words# DISASTROUS INVESTMENT! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
@OP, you forgot to put 'Nigerian women' in the title. All the bad bad tins for dis life, na their hand e full. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by lucarella: 1:45pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
ogugua88: Women who are successful and financially independent intimidate some men for at least a few reasons: Every lady wants a jeep. When you ask why, they say, 'So I can be looking down on other cars'. (My mom inclusive). It's mere arrogance, nothing more! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 1:49pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I remember dating one of these so called "successful" ladies years back. She was working in a major oil firm, while my hustle wasn't blessed yet. I wasn't in anyway intimidated, as par correct Edo boy, but trust me, I still gat cuts from the blade of her deadly tongue. Today the story is different, her per annum means nothing to me, business is good now. Saw her at the airport recently, she looked all smoked out, lonely but still proud. Most women are flippant, but the successful ones come with extra dose of poison. Few brothers can handle the pain, so we leave them lonely. 4 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Mantiza(m): 1:49pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
@lynpetra...Damn it,some men are confused beings.They agitate for self -dependent women only to run away when they are successful.IMO,such men are less than cowards. @op,sweety how have you been??Don't worry I wud be a wealthy and submissive wifey.The only problem is if you buy me d latest Toyota ride,I wud retaliate by buying you the latest Range Rover?? ... You made a point but BAD BABE on ur choice of ride |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 1:50pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
simpleseyi:why dont you give any of your relations to him mr gigolo.smh.lmao |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by chessguru1(m): 1:50pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
peterjero: Its simple "cowardice" men are cowards they are afraid and can't take charge they shud go and learn from Urhobo men, they can tame any woman on earth even the likes of Margaret Thatcher. They shud be able to earn the respect so that the women can be submissive.You mean by use of slaps and punches Not all men are cavemen na. Btw, uroboh girls are one of the most aggressive girls in this country. While serving, I witnessed an ss1 girl pull out a cutlass on an ss3 boy almost twice her height. There is a difference btw aggressiveness, and independence bro |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by cheche98(f): 1:53pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
tobezekiel: still nt all women. and the ones that do.. ermm, I wont totally blame them. whn a woman is financially independent and too soft she might or will be taken for granted by male opportunist.Exactly!!!! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mikeuz(m): 1:53pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
BoboYekini: @OP, you forgot to put 'Nigerian women' in the title. All the bad bad tins for dis life, na their hand e full. Taaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhh Show or tell me how many non - nigerian men are married to women more successful and more famous than them and I will tell you Nigeria men married to women more successful and famous than them. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Catalyst101: I remember dating one of these so called "successful" ladies years back. She was working in a major oil firm, while my hustle wasn't blessed yet. I wasn't in anyway intimidated, as par correct Edo boy, but trust me, I still gat cuts from the blade of her deadly tongue. Today the story is different, her per annum means nothing to me, business is good now. Saw her at the airport recently, she looked all smoked out, lonely but still proud. U are blessed mehn. I swear,for just that single reason,I always think twice b4 I ask any lady for a favor. If no be say me sef gallant on a very good day,my chic 4 carry horse dey ride 4 ma back but thank God 4 His mercies. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by agwo2july: 1:54pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I think it depends on the guy, for me I don't think I have problem with that, she can act as a motivating factor while u as a man shold press on to be real man. I beg did u have somebody like that for me? If u r, like my post, let us Nigerians guys grow up from pride and learn to love |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Lordlexyy: 1:55pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: you remind me of this song this deeper lifers usually sing in our former neighbourhoodKind of like you. You sound better and more mature this time. You share every bit of my attributes, but being slightly emotional as a woman is commendable. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by abuchisimon(m): 1:55pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
dats our ish guys bt in d long run we start being doubleminded abt d lady's affairs be it businesswise and pleasurewise.u guys knw wat i mean dats our ish guys bt in d long run we start being doubleminded abt d lady's affairs be it businesswise and pleasurewise.u guys knw wat i mean |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by vislabraye(m): 1:56pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
I would want my wife to be successful. Look @ it this way, if you have sisters, wouldn't U want them to be successful ? But the fact is that, a lot of successful women have developed some masculine characteristics such as; aggression, assertiveness etc which are needed for the survival in the corporate world. Their feminine xteristics such as tenderness and empathy have been suppressed. Of course, there are some who can find the right balance. A woman who can still play her role irrespective of her success is a crown. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by jdula: 1:56pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
As for me jst as our borthers (Ajima) P square said u must chop my money................. I feel incharge wen der eat my money, n I deserve 2 b incharge. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by simpleseyi: 1:58pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: why dont you give any of your relations to him mr gigolo.smh.lmao Yeah! I have given my cousin's dog to him, the dog is up to the task. But, you did not address the issues I pointed out. Sorry my sister, don't mind those bad guys, they are giving us bad names. Learn from Dora Akuyili and Ngozi Okonjo-Iwella, they are successful and happily married and never learn from Stella Oduah and Arunnah Oteh, they are looters and divorced. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
mikeuz:if you want to preach,i am sure you know where to go and or register in a pastoral trainning institute or whatever it is called,i am the wrongest person to be giving long boring sermons to.moreover, it is my decision,i have made my decisions,i am woman enough to face ANYTHING that comes after it,all that is my buisness to deal with and they are the back of my palm,so why are you telling me tales by moonlight. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:02pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
simpleseyi:and what is the issue mr seyi? |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by slightlyMad(f): 2:03pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: it is your momsi you are referring to not me dont mind that mofo jare, upload ur pix to shame the boi o jare 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by mrsolutionm(m): 2:03pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Women are self centered,ego ist and ego maniac am talking from experiences I had and still having wit my mum since I lost my dad,he willed some properties to us including her, as my mum is the second wife of my dad I personally fought in court,police stations, went 2 cell severally and even had fisticuffs wit my half brothers 2 reclaim those properties to cut d long story short I succeeded,today she refuse paying for my siblings and my school fees,as the man of the house I personally handed collection of those properties rent to her, women could be heartless. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:03pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Raymondenyi:dem don do you strong thing ba? Calm down.* Gives him cold water* Pele, it is well with you. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by MattMelty: 2:04pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
Guys do not run frm them 'cos they r financially independent, bt because they hv attitude problem & lack d basic qualities the men admire & long to see in the woman they hv long drmt to be their wife. To me, if they r virtuous, this wldn't b a topic; besides men thz days don't want women dat will become a liability to them |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:04pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
BoboYekini: @OP, you forgot to put 'Nigerian women' in the title. All the bad bad tins for dis life, na their hand e full. Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwww |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by chessguru1(m): 2:05pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
My final submission I love independent women. Maybe because my mum exemplifies it to the fullest. The only trick in living with a successful woman, is for you not to be an unsuccessful man! She can earn as much as oprah, but you J̶̲̥̅̊u̶̲̥̅̊S̤̥̈̊τ̲̣̣̥ make sure you have what takes you out in the morning, and brings you back. Its when you have nothing you get the bad side of successful women. And I really can't blame them. I don't see anything wrong with a man with ambition marrying a woman with purpose and Drive. Its their type that pulls the man and his children through a burning fire instead of abandoning ship. Most importantly, you know from the very onset that she loves you for you, and not your money. #cheers to all the independent ladys in the world |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by njameso: 2:07pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
NA ASUU 00HH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:07pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
chess guru: My final submission You are a real man, leave this boys here arguing otherwise. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by simpleseyi: 2:09pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
kulyie: and what is the issue mr seyi? Give your life to Christ and stop planning to be the husband like Dame imPatience Jonathan. |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Nobody: 2:10pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
slightlyMad:i dont need to upload my picture to prov a point.people that know me know me and people who dont,dont! Can he even stand where i am.i cant blame him much,nigbati nairaland tikeran mero |
Re: Why Do Guys Run From Successful And Financially Independent Women? by Ask4delaw(m): 2:12pm On Nov 15, 2013 |
They tend to be proud,arrogant and disrespectful.dats all.and no man wants to marry a lady dat will treat him like a shit. |
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