Lovexme:

That's the belief of those in the 60s. Responsibilities are meant to be shared, and that includes finance, cooking, and even shopping for groceries. Yes! Groceries

pro01: Women need to understand that most men do not rate them by their level of success or accomplishment.

If I want to indulge my libidinous cravings, I go for a voluptuous and sexy chick. If I want a relationship or marriage, I go for a level-headed, well-behaved, sensible, and God-fearing woman. In either case, her so-called "success" or "financial independence" has nothing to do with it. Only a lazy gigolo or broke-ass mofo would be impressed by a woman's financial success. A financially stable man needs a woman for other reasons. In most cases her success/wealth is a distraction rather than an advantage.

In terms of desirability, only men are judged by their wealth and financial status; women are mostly judged by their beauty, deportment, and personality. It's as simple as that.

bigx: Which guys?

Mr Aboki:


I was raised to operate differently..


My money should be enough to spoil my wife.. Her money should be enough for her to buy me gifts in appreciation..




#OldSchoolNiggas..

victorD3:


It has to do with the attitude that comes with a woman acchieving fame and success.

tobezekiel: still nt all women. and the ones that do.. ermm, I wont totally blame them. whn a woman is financially independent and too soft she might or will be taken for granted by male opportunist.

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me
2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.
3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.
4. i cannot give up my independence for nada
5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated
6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages
7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc
8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc
9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to
10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

Nduxzy: You are definitely going to wake up one day very old bearing grandma without no kinds and the only that comes to you mind will be I WISHED i buried my ego

Dumkele_1: @raymondenyi...u sound so bitter. with dis attitude u have put up here,only a short sighted lady will be willing to put up with it......I think I will blame the African men who do not know how to appreciate women. if u appreciate and encourage all women(successful or not),I can assure u that they will give u d respect u deserve 100%.....to be Frank ,what d lady said is quite true.....ur grammar hmmmm.........lastly u had no right to tell d lady to shut up and kindly show ladies some luv cos without them we all won't be here...peace

wasak:

1. they are not confident, they are arrogant, I may have to say this. there was a time my pops went broke and mom was d 1 feeding d family, she maintained the fact that she was in control and till date she cares to tell whoever is ready to listen (She's a good person but She's still a woman)
there are several other situations I've personally witnessed.
2. No one restricts a lady from buying things for herself, the only problem is when she starts buying for the. man, when she starts feeding the home, I tell u, any man in such a situation will turn houseboy unless he knows how to play his card with women. a man may feed. his wife. for. 10 years without having to mention it to a third party, but if. a woman does Same for a day, all her friends would know!!!
3. it's a general thing for women to Look down on people below. them in social status, the beautiful ones Look down on the less beautiful, the wealthy ones Look down on the average ones, the intelligent ones look down on the less intelligent! y do u think most women want to appear flashy? it's not necessarily to attract men, in most cases they do so to diss their fellow women....
as a man... I know my Bleep.ing onions, once beaten, shy till eternity!!!
if u c a humble woman praise her parents...

felzylix:
Nice one boo, r u married? If no m sure u nt planning on dat in d nearest future, cos no MAN 'hmmm' i repeat no MAN wld eva dream of wife-ing som1 as arrogant as u... The wife material in u is nt even enuf 2 sow a G-string

wasak:

1. they are not confident, they are arrogant, I may have to say this. there was a time my pops went broke and mom was d 1 feeding d family, she maintained the fact that she was in control and till date she cares to tell whoever is ready to listen (She's a good person but She's still a woman)
there are several other situations I've personally witnessed.
2. No one restricts a lady from buying things for herself, the only problem is when she starts buying for the. man, when she starts feeding the home, I tell u, any man in such a situation will turn houseboy unless he knows how to play his card with women. a man may feed. his wife. for. 10 years without having to mention it to a third party, but if. a woman does Same for a day, all her friends would know!!!
3. it's a general thing for women to Look down on people below. them in social status, the beautiful ones Look down on the less beautiful, the wealthy ones Look down on the average ones, the intelligent ones look down on the less intelligent! y do u think most women want to appear flashy? it's not necessarily to attract men, in most cases they do so to diss their fellow women....
as a man... I know my Bleep.ing onions, once beaten, shy till eternity!!!
if u c a humble woman praise her parents...

heymaykher:
then get ready to remain single for lyf.....

kulyie: 1.Ego will never let me

kulyie: 2.i cannot stand any man telling me what to do,where to go,what to wear,when not to go out,when not to party, who to talk to,who not to talk to,infact,i cant take it.

kulyie: 3.two egoistic people cannot live under the same roof.[/color]
3. Well.....

[quote author=kulyie]4. i cannot give up my independence for nada

kulyie: 5. After studying the regemented lifestyle of many african married women,e.g wake up as early as 4am,tidy the house,cook for mr husband,get the kids ready for school,prepare for work,come back home, take the kids back from school,prepare supper for mr husband,wash etc,i cannot live such a life.i refuse to let circumstances dictate the kind of life i live especially when such sacrificial life might be appreciated or might not even be appreciated

kulyie: 6.mrs wife always comes last in the list of priority in many marriages

kulyie: 7.i dont have to be distracted by any man did this and that nonsense,inlaw craps etc

kulyie: 8.no need hoping,wishing or praying no one cheats etc

kulyie: 9.share my salary with nobody except the people i choose to

kulyie: 10. Live my life for nobody since no one is looking up to me or waiting for me to do this and that for him.

Rickybel: Hmmmmm I'll give a robust reply to your post in due course

wasak:
if u are a female I really sympathize with u in advance!
what exactly is civilization? the ever rising divorce rate advanced countries or the fast disappearing institution of marriage?
every ship needs a captain.. two captains can't mount a ship..u can't change the universal order of things, it is undeniable that every society has members who have separate roles, it is only when these roles are discharged effectively that a society attains equilibrium.

good luck!

Dumkele_1: @raymondenyi...u sound so bitter. with dis attitude u have put up here,only a short sighted lady will be willing to put up with it......I think I will blame the African men who do not know how to appreciate women. if u appreciate and encourage all women(successful or not),I can assure u that they will give u d respect u deserve 100%.....to be Frank ,what d lady said is quite true.....ur grammar hmmmm.........lastly u had no right to tell d lady to shut up and kindly show ladies some luv cos without them we all won't be here...peace

crackhaus:
Ama! Ama! Ama!
Wetin we do you? No love?

Dumkele_1: @raymondenyi...u sound so bitter. with dis attitude u have put up here,only a short sighted lady will be willing to put up with it......I think I will blame the African men who do not know how to appreciate women. if u appreciate and encourage all women(successful or not),I can assure u that they will give u d respect u deserve 100%.....to be Frank ,what d lady said is quite true.....ur grammar hmmmm.........lastly u had no right to tell d lady to shut up and kindly show ladies some luv cos without them we all won't be here...peace

E.M.Ezzy:
i think especially in this part of the planet most women do have attitude problems if they are financially indepenent dont you think

kulyie: sympathize with yourself first for being so mentally shallow.


Secondly,i will not be the first or last independent unmarried woman,there are millions of women who share my school of thought and there are also millions who do not,if it makes you angry,you can get me arrested,thank you...

Raymondenyi:
Will u shut up n don't write what u know nothing about;
D ladies that achieve such firm n re not mingled with disgusting attitudes! Don't tek timme @ all to get married... It is the once with attitude! Moreover over 98% of them got attitudes, so what do u expect... When stable, they quickly place people they believe re below them! Behave anyhow to them! N always will wanna shw class.. How do u expect such attitudinal being to get mmarried? ( Generally we all know ladies re very greedy n self-centered beings, little 1da, why 2 ladies can't leave in a room 2geda) then imagine d type dat is stable, wat will u expect..,

With d experiences I hv 4rm ladies; I could do things 2x for my male friends, before I consider doing it 1ce for a lady!!!

*wicked set of beings** mtcheeeeeeewww!!!

chess guru:
Its very obvious that you are a lesbian. If not officially, deep down you are. Only opportunity and condition will bring it out

@op,sweety how have you been??Don't worry I wud be a wealthy and submissive wifey.The only problem is if you buy me d latest Toyota ride,I wud retaliate by buying you the latest Range Rover??