Hearing no and saying no is almost the same thing.if you have said no to a lady before, am sure you have then you know no big deal. just walk up to any lady you like tell her how you feel and if she say no,well it is expected just move on and remember there are many ladies in the world don't fall in love.

You'll be suprised how many guys out there are in this very situation due to the stereotypic attitude of Nigerian Ladies...... They make mountains out of moles of guys asking them out

uj_sizzle: Try viewing asking a woman out like going to the market to buy some wares. You haggle with the seller, and hope to get what you want. If you don't, you walk away and try someone else.
If the seller seem a bit interested in your price, you two can find a middle ground(price floor) and both get what you want.

Women don't bite, but the rejection could sting for a while. But you don't particularly have a choice than to move on and try again So best of luck getting your girl, but pls try someone slightly older who won't be an emotional vampire.






Don't worry, by the time you hit 50 the fear of remaining a bachelor will give you overnight confidence

@bolded, marriage is overrated

@the rest, who knew? I always thought it was a "I like you, you like me, let's have an orobo" thing. I didn't know na a na-ekwe the ahia onu like dat o!

Ihedinobi:
@bolded, marriage is overrated

@the rest, who knew? I always thought it was a "I like you, you like me, let's have an orobo" thing. I didn't know na a na-ekwe the ahia onu like dat o!

ihedinobi na wetin dey ur heart be dat abi Go try am nah. Na LovePeddler u go dey pick anyhow

Maturity matters.

nkwachiabel: ihedinobi na wetin dey ur heart be dat abi Go try am nah. Na LovePeddler u go dey pick anyhow

Say wetin happen? Umu nwa don finish for office and school? Na wa to you o!

joechima: I am a 29year old serving corps member batch A but still does not know how to approach and ask a lady out,presently asking a 18year old out and already feeling like a loser.pls what's the way out no insults pls

Why cant i just stop laffn at you..

U mean at 29??, jeez, dis was what we did at 13 upwards

Op, are u Ugly? Are u Short? Do u stutter??...if you combine any two of these illqualities then ure on a long thing...
But theres always a way out with ladies.....and dats Money.
make enuff of it and u'll see it do tha talking.

Ihedinobi:
Say wetin happen? Umu nwa don finish for office and school? Na wa to you o!

dem full ground nah. I guess u r in a better poosition 2 advise dis guy

Op, forget that small girl.
Begin with a nairaland babe!

[b]op is LADYOPHOBIC[b]

nkwachiabel: dem full ground nah. I guess u r in a better poosition 2 advise dis guy

How I wan advise person wey wan marry? Marriage is overrated

Hope.At.Hand:



Why cant i just stop laffn at you..

U mean at 29??, jeez, dis was what we did at 13 upwards

Op, are u Ugly? Are u Short? Do u stutter??...if you combine any two of these illqualities then ure on a long thing...
But theres always a way out with ladies.....and dats Money.
make enuff of it and u'll see it do tha talking.

Bro, who intentionally chooses not to have money? (if u knw wat i mean)

booqee: all you need is to grow more balls. You're only scared of been rejected of which its a normal thing for every guy. And pls don't try those silly toasting lines. You can just become friends..and then take it from there,

but wait! 29year old u say?? Omg be quick bourit joor!

If he tries the frend approach, its u gals dat will sharply frend zone. and mek him your galfrend.

Hmm! If u know wot i know, u go lyk mi ooo... *I reserve my comments

Bross! Start fu*king ash*wo, i swear confidence go come

felzylix: Bross! Start fu*king ash*wo, i swear confidence go come

Yeah, and when you get AIDS, just blame this guy.

joechima: I am a 29year old serving corps member batch A but still does not know how to approach and ask a lady out,presently asking a 18year old out and already feeling like a loser.pls what's the way out no insults pls

Dude you need to work on your ego, make more friends with bloated egos and ask womanisers how they do it. Stop being shy

Aii bros deres sumthn u shud knw rejection wud akwayz com once in a while, all women cnt say yes to U..but its up to U to move on nd not hide in d shadow of shyness... Some women myt say No cos dey ve a bf, dey re not ready, dey dnt like U or somthn else, If na 'No' on to d nextone bruh

E no hard.

Tips: wen approachn a lady. be confident as ladies detect ur lack of confidence very easily so be man with a ton of self-
confidence and a take-control attitude in life dey luv it..

plus If you begin to believe that a woman is unique,
this will give her power over you. (No disrespect to women)

now d last straw: What do U ve, is it money, physique,or personality... if u dnt ve moni to attract d ladies, or Phisuque..den u re left wit ur character..be a funny niccur, dnt b boring..just think outside d bos wheb havin a conversation.put sum smile in d chicks face...this works 95% most times. wat u waiting for go get dem gals

so its up to U Signed Drnairaluv bye

ogugua88:

An 18-year-old is a teenage adult. How many teenagers are ready for relationships with adults?

Even though age is just a number, I see no reason as to why an adult would be chasing a teenager (unless he's like 22 and she's 18). If it was my sister, I would tell him to steer clear of the OP... and you. Maybe the age gap and the fact that he's old and she's fresh is the reason he's feeling somehow and running to Nairaland for advice.

wait o!
Idowuog is 17yrs 4mnths 2dy.does it satisfy ur question!

Obviously u show a very dislike for distinct age gap!

blink182: Dude you need to work on your ego, make more friends with bloated egos and ask womanisers how they do it. Stop being shy

the police wil arrest u if follow this ad.

ogugua88: Leave the child and look for a woman.

18 isn't a child.... Why should he look for a woman when obviously he's just starting... He should start from scratch..

joechima: The problem I have is the fear of rejection and how do I continue or handle those feelings there after and most ladies refuse to say Yes or NO which I barely understand their decision

Like someone earlier said... Show some cash they will accept you (though I don't like it).. But never you go for a matured woman (you can go there later but for now... Stick with 18-24).. Learn the ropes.. Or better still just fashy girls untill you are ready to settle down.

Yomieluv: Work on yourself,as in build yourself,you will definitely see a lady that would approach you,and like you for whom you are.. Just be real.

Nigerian girl approach a man?, good Lawd!. I must be dreaming..

nbright: Like someone earlier said... Show some cash they will accept you (though I don't like it).. But never you go for a matured woman (you can go there later but for now... Stick with 18-24).. Learn the ropes.. Or better still just fashy girls untill you are ready to settle down.

if u folow cash techniq u wil becom a 'Mugu'

baralatie:
wait o!
Idowuog is 17yrs 4mnths 2dy.does it satisfy ur question!

Obviously u show a very dislike for distinct age gap!

I don't have a dislike for age gaps. I have a dislike for a grown man chasing a student. If she was 28 and he was 39, then I'd see no problem.

ogugua88:

I don't have a dislike for age gaps. I have a dislike for a grown man chasing a student. If she was 28 and he was 39, then I'd see no problem.

okay!i totaly see what u ar saying and where u ar coming 4rm.(u prefer her to av at least an educatn,experience & empowrmt b4 coming to choices lik dez)
understood!

Now this is where u women CONFUSE me!
are you saying at age 18yr a lady should not be intimately involved?

blink182: : Dude you need to work on your ego, make more friends with bloated egos and ask womanisers how they do it. Stop being shy

baralatie:
the police wil arrest u if follow this ad.

What a reply......

what does it mean to take a girl out? Jst occured to me, i dont even know what it mean.

joechima: I am a 29year old serving corps member batch A but still does not know how to approach and ask a lady out,presently asking a 18year old out and already feeling like a loser.pls what's the way out no insults pls

u need confidence bro,and if d confidence no gree com jst go buy 1 bottle of chelsea dry gin and sip am, i swearb after dat u go fit approach miss world

Be confident! Kpatakpata she says NO!

Spineless old corper....just 18year old thing is giving you headache

Take a little of Nigerian local gin.
Ur eyes becomes red
U no longer smile
U go to her n speak d shit in ur mide without stoping.
D next tyn she u, were z ur hus.
She start loving U die. Ok