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Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by martronilla: 7:55pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
rahamAllah:it seems the battery u are using to make ur brain work has died |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by layimogaji: 7:55pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
martronilla: A Muslim man is allowed to marry a Christian Contribute ur own opinion and don't insult islam or the prophet muhammad, u spoke from ur human perspectives and not the true interpretation of the scriptures u have quoted. Islam is certainly a religion of peace. Jesus is a prophet as well as Mohammad and they both preaches Islam. U claimed to have read the bible and quran has quoted but yet u still don't understand the 2 scriptures. Go back to ur library and start again maybe u will regain ur normal senses. Here's a forum to dicuss what's ur opinion and not to discriminate ones religion. Seek Allah's forgiveness for the article u have written, only He forgives.. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by churchillfrank(m): 8:00pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
I think what muslims pratice as their religion has been altered..its not the original message that holy profect muhammed gave them...some people changed it to suit their selfish desires. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by ay0201(m): 8:00pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
sakaguchi: Well, my girlfriend is a Muslim, we have eyes gazed to the future. I'm a Christian and personally, I believe that "love conquers all". People have reservations about such relationships, I hear muslim men are allowed to marry Christians or Jews and are not compel to force their wives to change faith so long as children from that patriarchal setup we invariably be muslims.till then, I siddon dey watch! |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Nobody: 8:02pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
ay0201: till then, I siddon dey watch! A beg keep space for me make I go buy, guguru and groundnut |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by jammyunn(m): 8:15pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
SELFWORTH:bro, we aint gonna have any divorce |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by YEKEENMOSHOOD(m): 8:18pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
infact , u brought a good topic....may God give us d best spouse dat will give happiness through out our life |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by hardballripplez: 8:19pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
In Islam a Muslim man can not marry a non Muslim woman unless she is Christian or Jewish. He is not allowed to marry a non-Muslim woman believing in any religion other than these two religions. However, the Muslim woman is not allowed to marry a non-Muslim man even if he was a Christian or a Jew. The proof for this are the following verses from the Holy Quran which says: “This day (all) the good things are allowed to you; and the food of those who have been given the Book is lawful for you and your food is lawful for them; and the chaste from among the believing women and the chaste from among those who have been given the Book before you (are lawful for you); when you have given them their dowries, taking (them) in marriage, not fornicating nor taking them for paramours in secret; and whoever denies faith, his work indeed is of no account, and in the hereafter he shall be one of the losers.” (Al-Maaedah : 5) Imam al-Tabari said in his commentary on this verse: “and the chaste from among the believing women and the chaste from among those who have been given the Book before you” means, free woman among those whom have been given the book, namely the Jews and Christians who believe in what is in the Tawraat (Torah) and Injeel (Gospel), whether from among the Arabs or other people; you are permitted to marry them “when you have given them their dowries” which means, if you give to those whom you marry of your (Muslims’) chaste women and their (Jews’ and Christians’) chaste women their dowries.” - (Tafseer al-Qurtubi, 6/104) But it is not permissible for a Muslim man to marry a Magian (Zoroastrian) woman or an idol-worshipping woman, etc. The evidence for that is the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “And do not marry Al-Mushrikaat (idolatresses) till they believe (worship Allaah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress), even though she pleases you” (al-Baqarah 2:221) It is not permissible for a Muslim woman to marry a non-Muslim from any other religion, whether from among the Jews or Christians, or any other religion. It is not permissible for her to marry a Jew, a Christian, a Magian, an idol-worshipper… etc. The evidence for that is the verse in which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): “Do not marry unbelieving women (idolaters), until they believe: A slave woman who believes is better than an unbelieving woman, even though she allures you. Nor marry (your girls) to unbelievers until they believe: A man slave who believes is better than an unbeliever, even though he allures you. Unbelievers do (but) beckon you to the Fire. But Allah beckons by His Grace to the Garden (of bliss) and forgiveness, and makes His Signs clear to mankind: That they may celebrate His praise.” (al-Baqarah 2:221) The reason for this is that Islam highly regards the marital bond between the man and his wife and marital life must be based on a solid foundation. Allah Almighty says in a Quranic verse “And one of His signs is that He created mates for you from yourselves that you may find rest in them, and He put between you love and compassion; most surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect.” (Alrum : 21) When a Muslim man is married to a Christian or a Jewish woman, he is ordered by Islam to respect her religion and he is not allowed to prevent her from practicing her religious rites and he should not stop her from going to church or temple. This respectful attitude is a guarantee that protects the family from falling apart. However when a Muslim woman marries a non-Muslim, respect for her religion is not guaranteed because a Muslim believes in all the Prophets and respects Christianity and Judaism, however non-Muslims may not believe in the Prophet of Islam. By that, a Muslim woman is not guaranteed to have her freedom in practicing her religious rites and she would have to live with a man who does not respect her religion. This attitude will sooner or later cause the family to fall apart. So it is actually one rule which is to guarantee that both the husband and the wife would respect each others belief. If this rule is not guaranteed then it is better to stop a relation that would result in nothing but wrecked families. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by lincolnj88: 8:24pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
rahamAllah:survey in saudi arabia suggest that 89% of thier women are living unhappy married life.....and 92% are prone to domestic violence... Human right watch saudi arabia |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by ev4real(m): 8:25pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Joyeux: A strong fanatic christain cannot marry a strong fanatic muslim.it can only happen if one of them is not strong in his/her faith.....u have said it all...and that is d basic truth |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by bee444: 8:26pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
it's all about Muslims today! OK, I'm available.... Maybe the question should sound like this "Is it good for a woman to marry a man?" This is an hypothetical question that doesn't need your answer! Why don't you just go ahead and marry a human being rather than putting religion as the title of the man? Religion is a cankerworm that deprives us of our God given love and freedom. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by heartmatters(f): 8:28pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
@martronilla, I'm not going to say much but one thing I want people to pray about is not to be misled by the quran or bible or by the words of our preachers, learn to read your holy books on ur own. The bible permits a believer to marry an un believer (1 corinthian 7, 12-14), guess you've not come across that b4 gave your opinion. Okay bye |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Mccullum: 8:29pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
It is not possible at all when both were devoted christian or muslim but in situation that both are weak in their faiths or one out of the two weaker in his/her faith the other can exploit it which would enhance the possibility. |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by abduldope(m): 8:33pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Lilimax: A moslem girl can get married to a Christian so long as she is ready to 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Chartey(m): 8:33pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
hafees: I am sure this will generate another hate spitting debates- somebody have started with calling muslims terrorists or i cannot marry a muslim low IQ statementsBut you know your wife was never a Christian? Christianity is not by your name or birth. It's 100% un-Christian to marry a non-Christian, so someone who does that wasn't a Christian from the very beginning. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Mintayo(m): 8:34pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Kingsleyinfo:you have said it all. No Bible believing christain will ever try it. Christainity is not a religio where you marry someone to convert him/her,when you are not a converter. There is a Spirit in every born again christain that will not allow that. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by omiobo: 8:34pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Though I don't encourage it but it is a matter of choice. I'm into it and I've seen anything that is wrong with it. |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Olufonade: 8:37pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
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Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by soulglo: 8:37pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Chartey: So other Christians that sin were never Christians to begin with |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Chartey(m): 8:38pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Idrismusty97: My father is a muslim,my mum a Christian. No one ever bother me for a religion so i choose Christianity. People that are taking religion too seriously are the people destroying our country.Jesus never said he came to bring a religion in the bible.This days we are fighting for our gods instead of our gods to fight for us.Now that you are a Christian and you uphold the Holy Scriptures of God, haven't you found out that the Bible condemns marrying unbelievers(those who don't believe Jesus is the Son of God and that he died for our sins) ? |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by lincolnj88: 8:39pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
heartmatters: @martronilla, I'm not going to say much but one thing I want people to pray about is not to be misled by the quran or bible or by the words of our preachers, learn to read your holy books on ur own. The bible permits a believer to marry an un believer (1 corinthian 7, 12-14), guess you've not come across that b4 gave your opinion. Okay byedescribe ur self in 3 letter words ...Ram....ewu.....cow........pig.....rat......cat.....bat The scripture u refered to is talking about those that are already marrief before they repented, and here is saying that they should not divorce themselves because divorce is not allowed in d bible...... Abt that my insult I insulted u earlier I am sorry pls forgive me or blow up urself with a bomb close to a church as it is written in D koran... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Mintayo(m): 8:40pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
heartmatters: @martronilla, I'm not going to say much but one thing I want people to pray about is not to be misled by the quran or bible or by the words of our preachers, learn to read your holy books on ur own. The bible permits a believer to marry an un believer (1 corinthian 7, 12-14), guess you've not come across that b4 gave your opinion. Okay byeYou are misintrpreting that verses. |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Dewze(m): 8:40pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Bello ladan: Its unacceptable because d muslms belive in Jesus Muslims do not believe in Jesus. Muslims believe 'there was' a Jesus. Christians believe in a Jesus. The Children of God believe in Christ the living son of the God. |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Mccullum: 8:41pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
Inspite of the fact that I'm a muslim's man while I've encountered challenges to get woman from my religion as christians mostly were my ex girl friends and I resist by formulating strategies and prayer eventually I found my fiance from Islam as our nikkai is coming up by Dec. 14th 2013. because I don't wife & mother of my unborn children not to be from my faith which could cause relutancy when it come to cooking during the holy month of ramadan. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by tintingz(m): 8:49pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
anochuko01:keep deceiving yourself |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by olufemi26(m): 8:51pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
toaspromo: IT IS UNISLAMIC EVEN THE QURAN STIPULATE THAT MUSLIM SHOULD MARRY MUSLIMA NON MUSLIM SHOULD MARRY NON MUSLIMS ADULTERER SHOULD MARRY ADULTERESS AND SO ON But why shouting?? |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by anochuko01(m): 8:55pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
tintingz: keep deceiving yourselfis dat all u'll say? Anyway, i love you also, and my spirit is praying for you... |
Re: Is It Good For A Muslim Lady To Marry A Christian by Chartey(m): 8:57pm On Nov 29, 2013 |
soul_glo:Unfortunately my brother, the answer to your question is YES. A person's Christianity starts when he gets saved from a life of sin, not when he's born into a Christian family unlike Islam. If he doesn't get that experience in his lifetime, he never lived as a Christian even if his/her name was Peter or Mary. NB: 'He' as used above is for both male and female. 1 Like |
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