Studentet:

So is courtship supposed to find out if u can live with him or her, or if u should dump him or her?

no, its meant to be a dress rehearsal for eventual marriage. By the time you get to that stage you shld be talking of a lifetime together not thinking of a breakup

So david,

if you get to that stage, and you spot things which may not have showed up before, will you still be dress rehearsing, fixing tings up or considering break up?

Fixing things up, breaking up at that stage is not an option. You have to approach relationships with the mindset that your spouse wont be perfect but with love and patience you can overcome anything together.

So in essence, you would take anything dished at you? is that what you saying?