xynerise: You want to take another wife because your wife is taking your position as the man of the house? Mr. Man you should be ashamed of yourself. Since you have found out, what you need to do is to find stop her from having access to your business account until you both find solution to her extravagant spending.

Born 2be Rich:

How is the wife taking the OP position as the man of the house i hope you didnt write this to get likes from the female folks here on nairaland..BTW the OP stated it clearly that he is the one that opened the shop for the wife but isnt happy with the way it is being run financially by giving the money meant for the business to her family members without his consent..and if she continues like this it will affect their present family financially at the moment..

xynerise:

Okpuzu01: I am saying dat she shuld nt give her people money but I must be informed. Wotever I do for my mum, I let her know about it. We still have along way to go. Kids are coming, house rents n feedings are there. She has brothers who v grown to work to support their parents bt wnt work. They all believe in asking for money from her. I opened d business for her. Without my consent, she took money from it to pay her parents house rent.

Born 2be Rich:

Please explain how the wife is the man of the house in this situation like you said earlier?

Okpuzu01: I am happily married with one kid. I am thinking of taking another wife.

xynerise:
As a husband, what would you do when your wife offends you? You marry another wife?

Born 2be Rich:


So this statement/allegation makes the OP wife the man of the house?..Do you know that people( both men and women inclusive) can make silly mistakes because they cant handle their emotions...Because the OP here cant handle his emotion in the right manner the woman automatically becomes the man of the house...i would advise you talk sense to the OP on the issue of taking another wife than supporting sides.

Okpuzu01: I am happily married with one kid. My problem is that, my in laws v been mounting pressure on my wife for money. She gives money to them without my consent. I opened up a business wich eventually collapsed as a result of my wife giving her parents money from the business. Her whole families are depending on her to survive. I v seen that we can't make any meaningful progress in life if things continue the way they are. I v talked to my wife severally and yet, she is not ready to change. I am thinking of taking another wife.

fruityjojo: Why don't u tell her this same thing u have told us in exactly d same words!
Btw cos of dis u want 2 take a new wife! Chisoos! I don dey fear Men! Pls there must be other issues bothering u right?

click2cbn: I must marry "a Last born"

bloglover: This is a serious issue....please if u are not married, dont comment. We need married and experienced couples to profer solutions biko.

Okpuzu01: I am happily married with one kid. My problem is that, my in laws v been mounting pressure on my wife for money. She gives money to them without my consent. I opened up a business wich eventually collapsed as a result of my wife giving her parents money from the business. Her whole families are depending on her to survive. I v seen that we can't make any meaningful progress in life if things continue the way they are. I v talked to my wife severally and yet, she is not ready to change. I am thinking of taking another wife.