amazing2013: Sometimes right from the expressions on the face of a couple, you can tell all is not well...look at their expressions in this picture...

From that pix, it's like the guy is saying, "What the fvck have i gotten myself into?"

Beti why

nnamanijanie13: Its such a pity dat ur marriage ended after 7 months Princess. May God help us in dis institution called marriage. But why is dere always irreconcilable diferences in celebrity marriages?

Just one answer to your question, "ego"

homesteady:

Source - www.thenet.ng/2013/12/breaking-news-comedienne-princess-ends-7-month-marriage/

Then let those who attended the wedding such as our big mama help them out by teaching them forgiveness and love. Why should they live the rest of their lives in bitterness and loneliness and end up in hell! Oh Princess we love you why don't be the sheep and save your home?

tpia@:


so people marry because they want to sit in front of church?

are you asking me?

Mazi_Omenuko:

Dig deeper and you will discover that it is not unconnected to sex! That which we despise actually has an unimaginable effect in both relationship and marriage.

When we preach sex, people tend to look down on us; but its always the crux of the matter.

abi she be lakiriboto""

Here's a piece from a friend Mo' i thought i should share.

Ok, could you stop the wacko Jacko moves in your mind right now and stop humming for a bit to answer this- Who sets out to build a house and doesn’t stop to first consider its cost? Seriously, who does that? Or who sets his hand to a business and doesn’t stop to consider/envisage what it would entail? No one you know right? Didn’t think so too.

To embark on a fruitful journey, planning and cost evaluation are imperative. From saving for the trip, to making reservations, to shopping and packing up for the trip, it would require good planning to actualize a fruitful and rewarding trip, most of the time. Same as wanting to write an exam….we have to prepare for it to do great in it. ‘He who fails to plan, plans to fail’; this saying ain’t a cliché…it’s the gospel truth my brethren.

So, boy meets girl, and they are really feeling each other, the sparks are there, the chemistry is very on point and amongst all other prospects around them, they have never felt anything as profound as what they feel for each other. So, they decide to take it to the next level and make it official, they become an item.

I ask again, is it ok to begin to build a house just because you desire to or have the funds for it? Is it okay to buy an expensive wristwatch on your tight budget just because you like it? Is it ok to change your major like four times, just because your interest shifts? Is it also expedient to start a relationship just because you have feelings for each other?

Emotions are powerful and can decide a person’s mood and life, same as your thoughts. While feelings can be very profound, they usually are also very fleeting and misleading. One cannot afford to base his/her decisions on feelings, that’s a danger alert right there. What happens when the feeling is gone? When you begin to see clearly because the rain is gone? I cannot help but think that perhaps if people stopped to consider the cost and evaluate the dynamics of starting a relationship before committing to it, the number of breakups, divorces and casualties would reduce.

A relationship shouldn’t be based on what you feel for that person or how you feel about the person, it should be more about what you know about the person. A relationship should be founded on a number of convictions which should be focused and based on compatibility…..can two walk together except they agree?

A friend of mine recently had some boy drama. At least five guys were all around her, seeking to date her, but she particularly was drawn to one and as they interacted she found out she really liked him…….they were just about to make it official when an incidence occurred to cause a break, boy came back asking if they could still be an item and my girl told him she’d consider it. So, she did consider it and it was leaning in the direction of her feelings for him, but thank God for the prayer radar! When dude passed through that radar, he didn’t come through. Turns out he was just a two timing scumbag who was over 30 but had the maturity of an 18-year old! Now, my friend would have eventually discovered that about him, but if she hadn’t been patient with her feelings, if she hadn’t managed her emotions, she would have suffered not only a break up, but a waste of her energy, time and resources oh and some heartache to go with it.

I’m just saying dear people do not let your feelings and emotions decide your actions and decisions, let us try to manage our emotions and act based on what we know and not how we feel. To wanna be starting a relationship, I’m not saying your feelings don’t matter, of course they do! I would never go out with a guy I don’t have feelings for, what I mean though is that the feelings aren’t enough to even start. Back it up with a number of convictions, how compatible are you on many levels? Does he/she complement you well? We should make our decisions because of what we know rather than what we feel…..don’t just start out and see how it goes, if the foundation be faulty, I tell you ain’t building nothing, it would all crumble in due time, don’t build your house without counting its cost.

Give it time, time heals all diseases. Let your feelings and emotions pass through a lot of radars to see if it develops into something more substantial, see if it’s stable, see if it stands, see if you are not deluded. Time will reveal a lot to you. Now, I know there’s only so much you could get to know about a person, but the message is to know just about enough that you need to know to be convinced. It’s relative and that’s where values come to play- talk for another day. I also know that by giving it time, it doesn’t mean the relationship would work out, but the difference is that when you are not controlled by your emotions, you can make rational decisions. Even if the relationship doesn’t work out perhaps for some issues or reasons, you would have had a fruitful and enjoyable time together and can end it amicably. Save yourself some heartache baby, don’t start something only to end it 3 months later, oh that happens, and Ido know some. You feeling the boy/girl? Cool, take it easy and take him/her through a lot of radars. If he/she comes through, then you are good to go. Hey! It’s just my opinion…….


Muchos lovos!

This is one good reason not to buy Aso Ebi
I rarely buy them.

Feminism, the greatest cause of modern day divorces. Princess may be jovial but she is not humble! What kind of irreconcilable differences will make a woman to start disagreeing with her husband two weeks after wedding? I keep saying it . Men beware of Nigerian feminists. Woman who will mouth equality only when it suits their purpose. They don't have any humility. They want to take all the decisions and you must concur to prove that you love and value them. When it comes to finances they will never take equal responsibility. FAKE FEMINISTS!

It is a very big pity and I saw the signs after her saga with the pastor of the church where she was not allowed to sit at the front of the church with her short irresponsible gown she was wearing. Instead of being ashamed, she rather went to twitter to rant about the matter. She will only be successful in marriage with a man she can convert to a foot mat. And what an ugly creature! Men Beware of Women Like Princess. Please take charge of your relationships from the beginning and if the lady is a feminist leave her alone. Generally feminists end up as Lesbians or Never married women.

amazing2013: Sometimes right from the expressions on the face of a couple, you can tell all is not well...look at their expressions in this picture...

See me see mind-reader o!

I just finished watching the marriage video and l was shocked that throughout the video, the lady was smiling .......while the husband looked like he was forced or under duress, in the marriage process!

Not even a single smile!

Am like WTF, this is supposed to be you happiest day! Why do you look so glum and sad?

One of the "funny guests" said: We expect more jokes from her now that she is married..... more "marital jokes"!

Jeez, l am like, enu'aye le'ebo! This people get "wicked mouth"!

Now that her marriage turned out to be a joke ... a "marital joke", l say "Never invite that particular guy to your wedding".
You have been warned.

BTW: The look on the lady's face in that picture is saying something along the lines of: Would you say it louder now (l dooooo) before l give you one dirty slap!


But seriously, marriage requires understanding, severe commitment and a lot of tolerance.
Not for unserious folks.

Lastpage!

ladies its difficult to be fat and keep a husband. If you try, you only suffer in silence. EAT RESPONSIBLY. Every man has fantasy.

Mazi_Omenuko:

Dig deeper and you will discover that it is not unconnected to sex! That which we despise actually has an unimaginable effect in both relationship and marriage.

When we preach sex, people tend to look down on us; but its always the crux of the matter.

mazii !!!! Lolzzz

ironheart: ladies its difficult to be fat and keep a husband. If you try, you only suffer in silence. EAT RESPONSIBLY. Every man has fantasy .

I am surprised you wrote that bolded part after sounding as if it is a disease to be BIG, Bold and Beautiful. Certainly, every man has a choice, fantasy... For one man's sumptuous meal is another man's poisonous deal. :p .

Dannylux: Fat chicks aren't so lucky with marriage. learn to eat responsibly.

Please stop showing your stupidity and ignorance on a public forum. You think eating large quantities of food makes you fat. Go and learn about hormones, food allergies, epigenetics etc.

I pity all them fools that diet to lose weight and kill themselves with exercise. The weight loss industry is a muti billion dollar industry, and they love themselves repeat customers like the fools that go from one diet to another to lose weight.

shadrach77: HOW THEY MET:

“I Love Everything about Him!” Read Comedienne Princess Dammy & Her Beau Adeshola Jeremiah’s Love Story
Posted on Tuesday, May 21st, 2013 at 1:34 PM
By Damilare Aiki

Princess Dammy & Adeshola Jeremiah - May 2013 - BellaNaija02

Nigerian comedienne Princess Dammy and her Yoruba movie producer/director beau Adeshola Jeremiah tied the knot on Wednesday 8th May 2013 at the Balmoral Hall, Oregun, Lagos.

On her wedding day, Princess Dammy arrived with her father in a grey satin dress, accentuated with blue sequins by Frank Oshodi while her Mr rocked a bespoke navy suit by Mudi.

In the latest issue of City People, the ace comic act gushes about her love story; from how they met to prepping for the grand wedding day. Check it out!

On what attracted her to Adeshola Jeremiah
Well he is a quiet person and if not for the fact that I am into entertainment, I also like my privacy, I don’t like unnecessary show-off. If I go somewhere and they don’t recognize me, that is very okay by me, I just love to be myself.

How They Met
He saw me when I went for their program in Odunfa Cancus (A Yoruba Theatre Group). I went because of a friend of mine Latifat, who was also trained there. She was in UNILAG and my junior in Theatre Arts. So I went there and that was where he saw me and that was like so many years ago in 2005.

Every time I visit my friend, because they are always together, he will see me there, he couldn’t approach me, not because of my status but the fact that anytime I come I will just play with everyone for like 5 to 10 minutes and just zoom off. And I play and smile with everyone but I don’t give that chance that I am easily approachable in order not to draw unnecessary attention.

Things Were Different This Time…
Then in 2008, he was shooting his own movie, I also went there to see a friend of mine, he saw me again and went to meet that friend of mine, he told her he wanted to meet me that he would want me to play a role in the movie.

My friend discouraged him saying if he should meet me, it will look like they didn’t plan themselves well. That same year, he was with that my friend when I came to visit and he told her “I really want to marry Princess” (laughs) and my friend started laughing and she told him it’s not possible.

He kept on pestering her and told her why don’t you tell her first and lets hear what she says, she (Latifat) now said I don’t think I can tell her, Princess is my very close friend and I can’t tell her that because Princess doesn’t have time for men now and she has said it’s her work for now. But he continued disturbing her to tell me, so that day we were watching a TV program and I love cooking so she saw a dish and said this dish is very nice how I wish I could eat it now and I said oh you want me to stand up and go prepare this food, so when I went to the kitchen.

She later came into the kitchen and said she wanted to tell me something, and I said what is it, she said this person likes me and wants to marry me, so I just started laughing, it was very funny, she felt embarrassed and went back to the sitting room, I asked her why won’t I be embarrassed, when the person told you, why didn’t you just tell him Princess won’t agree and she said that’s exactly what she told the person but the person insisted.

I told her to give the person my number, and when he called I was just laughing, he asked “what’s funny”, I said nothing, he now said “well he is Latifat’s friend” and I said yes I know that, and I started bombarding him with questions just to discourage him, so he won’t call again.

So when his credit got finished, he called back again. I said this one I have been asking him many questions na wa o but its okay do I have more questions to ask? and I said yes o and started asking him more questions, I asked him questions again till 11:30 PM, he ran out of credit again and called back, and I am like where are you getting all the money for this credit, he just said “don’t worry I will call you back”, when he called back again he asked if I had more questions and I said no because it was already past midnight and we have talking since past 6.

Friend to Fiance
That was it! We later became friends and got very close, then he said he wanted to marry me and even told me many things about myself. I was quite surprised and wondered how he got to know all about me. That was how we started and things continued but we just decided to keep everything low key. At first I felt it was low key and if he disappionts me, it won’t hurt too much, but when everything became too serious that was how everything went then we started meeting our families and I discovered that some people he knew, were also the same people I know.

Princess Dammy & Adeshola Jeremiah - May 2013 - BellaNaija01

On her sudden wedding announcement
Yes we have been planning it but because my sister was getting married on February 14th, we just felt that hers is the reigning wedding and they were the latest couple, so we concentrated more on hers and also we were trying to avoid the news reaching the press.

So I think 3 weeks or about a month to our wedding, we had already done the introduction and that was when we now started distributing the invitations, because we said if we give people the IVs earlier, news will go around. My husband started distributing his cards a month to the wedding but I started 2 and a half weeks to the wedding because I just said everybody will hear.

On not wanting to publicize her Wedding
The thing is, that’s the kind of person I am. I am just there, I just believe I am like every other Nigerian and even though my work has exposed me and made me to be seen or perceived as a celebrity, my partner is not a public person like that and we just didn’t want too much noise.

Even the day I sent text messages to some of my friends, the next day I started reading so many stories on the internet, and you can imagine that people wrote on the internet that Princess is getting married because she was pregnant and now she is trying to get one guy to marry her.

It was even my husband who saw it and called my attention to it. He was lying on the couch and just laughing and I was like, what’s funny and who are you chatting with?, he just said there is something they wrote on the internet and I said what, he just said it’s on Facebook, they said you are pregnant, and I said don’t mind them but I just felt bad because people sometimes naturally find it difficult to be happy for others.

Even now that I am married, I pray to have kids but you can’t start spreading rumours that somebody is getting married because they are pregnant. You don’t have an insight nor information about them, you can’t reach those people so you just write anything you want. But anyway I didn’t let that bother me, I just kept it to myself. Even when I was rehearsing for my show because we had two different dance routines and it was difficult, so I didn’t even have time to dwell on that.

On what she loves most about him
I love everything about him and he is very understanding. He understands the essence of us being on earth which is just to worship God and he is God fearing.

That’s the first thing I noticed about him and I was even surprised. I have always said If I had choice, I will marry a musician but then which musician can I now marry (laughs). He is very God fearing and at least we are not perfect but if you are God fearing, you will always know when you are doing something wrong.

Princess Dammy also speaks on her humble beginnings in the Nigerian comedy industry, her inspiration for jokes and changing from a course in Engineering to Theatre Arts in the University of Lagos. For more details on Princess Dammy’s interview, pick up the new issue of City People Weekly.

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If this is the true story then where did things go wrong?

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To me, all these divorcees are just dignified prostitu.tes... the man pays their bride-price fucck fucck money which wld guarantee him sex wit the lady for an agreed period, when the fucckin time elapses they now divorce

I feel you. The men that pay the fucck fucck money are even worse than the dignified prostitu.tes. Them be serious undignified men wwhore. Tufiakwa.

Homguy: The dream of most gurls is to eat and not get fat! What do you do when you are born with fat genes? Frankly, her size is not unconnected to this divorce.

Thank God. One semi literate person.

ULQUIORRA: dude i have been following ur comments. U are just a sex maniac who thinks that everything starts and ends with sex.U need GOD in ur life

Here comes the myopic negative mindset most nairalanders have!

Btw, you may want to stop following me and my comments.

Hmmm who for no end dis kind marriage,see dt small guy n dt big fatty fatty.abeg

balispecial: chai! Mr Mazi it's all about sex sha.....bt wat if dat's nt cause? only God knows since she didnt say exact cause 4 d break up

Nope! God gave us common sense to discern things. What is the 'irreconcilable' differences that has no remedy and crushed the union within 7 months?

Maybe its because she can't cook, or she can't wash, or he snores at night

Trust me, its sex!

Are they not reach d compromise b4 getting merried....wht a pity after a lot of money bin on d occasion just after 7month may God help us in dis institution called Wedding

Are they not reach d compromise b4 getting merried....wht a pity after a lot of money bin spend on d occasion day just after 7month may God help us in dis institution called Wedding

I feel so sad for her,but it don't matter how many times we fall,its how we get up that matters.cheer up princess.

Shame on both of them.

I think these celebreties are just bunch of uncontrolable individuals without brain, because the industry is morally weak as only those who fall into same category of waywardness fluck together.

Will Princess and the guy tell us that they never courted? No.These individuals don't have manners hence I see no reason why they just use them as role models. These companies must stop using 95% of these celebrities as role models unless the likes of Olu Jacobs and few of them that fall into the remaining 5%. 97% of these so called female celebrities are not marriageable materials as those who marry them tend to die in silence. They all have no characters as most of them are just not good inwardly as their outlook portray them.

Marriage is all about maturity of minds by two individuals, having the fear of God . 95% of all these celebreties are bunch of wayward individuals when you truly look into their private lives hence when they come together as married couples, they cannot tolorate each other.

Princess went announcing on TV how she found her rib, threw a big wedding and after 7 months, an irreconcilable difference now forces them to break up. Same with Akindele who made so much noise of having to go into marriage with a married man with her two eyes open, only for the marriage to crash because of irreconcilable difference. In fact, this word " IRRECONCILABLE" don suffer indeed.

Celebrity apart,how many marriages last these days? The trend now is divorce,d celebrities probs are only lauded. The question now is what's the hope of single guys like us

I think these celebreties are just bunch of uncontrolable individuals without brain, because the industry is morally weak as only those who fall into same category of waywardness fluck together.

Will Princess and the guy never courted? No.These individuals don't have manners hence I see no reason why they just use them as role models. These companies must stop using 95% of these celebrities as role models unless the likes of Olu Jacobs and few of them that fall into the remaining 5%. 97% of these so called female celebrities are not marriageable materials as those who marry them tend to die in silence. They all have no characters as most of them are just not good inwardly as their outlook portray them.

Marriage is all about maturity of minds by two individuals, having the fear of God . 95% of all these celebreties are bunch of wayward individuals when you truly look into their private lives hence when they come together as married couples, they cannot tolorate each other.

Princess went announcing on TV how she found her rib, threw a big wedding and after 7 months, an irreconcilable difference now forces them to break up. Same with Akindele who made so much noise of having to go into marriage with a married man with her two eyes open, only for the marriage to crash because of irreconcilable difference. In fact, this word " IRRECONCILABLE" don suffer indeed.


I do not pity any of them EVEN this so called Princess because she went into the marriage with her two eyes opened and should not come out here to start talking as if it was the man that messed up. I have no singe respect for 97% of these female celebs. Al my life, I have my respect for Olu Jacobs and his wife and if these companies needs role models, they should use people like them and not celebs like even Tu face who keep manufacturing children with his tools as a production company from different women.

If we talk about Long courtship some people will say its old school
If they had courted for long, they would have know each other better and would probably still be together.

Them no try at all....7months
They just decided to embarss their families....

From the above story
How can you claim to like everything about someone.

Mazi_Omenuko:

Dig deeper and you will discover that it is not unconnected to sex! That which we despise actually has an unimaginable effect in both relationship and marriage.

When we preach sex, people tend to look down on us; but its always the crux of the matter.

BS!

Even blackberry battery strong pass ur marriage.

Hmmm..

andyanders: 97% of these so called female celebrities are not marriageable materials as those who marry them tend to die in silence..

Just curious, what percentage of the so called male celebrities are not marriageable materials.