Dear all,

What is your opinion or how do you feel about the females being the bread winner or the financial support or provider towards her BF/Husband/Family like lets say FOREVER?

Can you accept it or you think it should be like the olden days?

You can say anything you want , just feel free but pleaseeee. . . no insults on each other. Thank you. 

There is nuthing wrong with helping your partner BUT it shouldnt be a reason 2 be insulting the person, as in disrespecting the person.

I would not have a problem supporting my husband if he loss his job and needed temporary help but with that comes some strings.

There are certain women that just cant handle the power and will treat those under her like children. Well i am one of those women, that if given the power i will boss my husband and i know my husband is not going for that, so it is best he stay employed.

Now a B/F no way am i going to support him if he does not have a job. For me that privilege only comes with a ring.

personally i as raised where the man was the breadwinner. But i wouldn't mind to you know be the one who at the time is supporting us. But i don't want to be the breadwinner of the family all the time. I guess i rather see the man do it. instead of me

iice:

Nah, i'd rather we share. We both chip in either way.

And what if your bf/husband is broke?

totally fine by me gentleman or not

i dont agree that my girl has to support me otherwise she would rule me over and she would be boss! NO WAY!

Scorpionn, am starting to get suspicious of you. . . . I hope you are not the cause of the conflicts among the Nairalanders. . . . . You were suppose tot end it here and meet me up on facebook isn't it?

iice:

I'd support him but not on a permanent basis

But what if this is based on permanent?

If I made the majority of the money in the relationship and therefore provided the financial support, I would expect you to support the relationship in other ways. You would have to do the cooking, cleaning, babysitting, home repairs, whatever. Just other things to let me know that you value me and not making me feel that your are just around to use me.

Also, unless there is a disability you should be able to find a job. I'm not saying that you have to be the Manager or Vice-President of a company, but just some type of honest job that let's me know that you are not lazy. You need to be getting out of the bed in the morning and getting ready to go somewhere, just like I do.

If you are lazy and broke - I'm out of there.

gabrywyl:

But what if this is based on permanent?

Kai! na swear? He'll definitely get himself a job somehow or some source of income.

onyeka_ng:

Kai! na swear? He'll definitely get himself a job somehow or some source of income.

Abi o. got no time for slackers.