sara j:

Thats my situation, my husband hasen't touched me since last May. Just take your mind off by getting another hobby. There is no point in cheating on your husband. Its not worth the guilty conscience. Sex isn't everything. Maybe I wasn't good in it in the first place so I shouldn't be doing it anyway. My husband goes outside to have sex. I try not to let it get to me though, I occupy my mind with other things.

you're living in a boarding house not a marriage. Get help ASAP.

JustGood:

Its better to find out the reason rather than allow the ones who have lost all to mislead you. The guy might even be going through some difficult things that you dont know about.

He could be thinking too much about things like finances. He could be having problems motivating himself for sex. He could be seeing you in a different light. If you have been having constant quarrels, it is possible for him to get turned off.

Find out the reason first and dont jump the gun by doing what some people would have you do here without knowing what the situation on ground is. The first few years of my marriage- there were times when I would go for as long as 2 weeks without making love with my wife whenever we had an argument. I just got turned off after every argument. These things can happen so dont let anyone mislead you here.

be sure you know what you're doing before doing anything!

good talk, @ poster, don't listen to divorce advise, it has come to that extend, talk with ur man he will flow with u.

If Your Husband Doesn't Touch You Again What Will You Do?

Ans - First it's not fair for any man on earth to neglect his wife. how dare you suffer your wife of sex (if that is what the poster means) it's totally unfair , well as for me i think the woman should just do whatever she likes , Honestly ,

That happened to me, when pregnant he rarely would come near, only came near me again me 3 months after having baby despite lots of asking. Since marrying only about 6 times. No sex now since new year, I have begged in the past and still he says no, I gave up.

Rape the living daylight out of him

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Touch yourself

The bible teaches us that the wife's body is not her own and neither is rhe husband's body his own. They each belong one 2 the other. The bible says to not defraud each other in this respect and to only abstain from sex during fasting and prayer by consent of both and then to come together again quickly LEST YE BE TEMPTED. No spouse should hurt the other this way. It matters not whether u r good at it or not. A loving spouse will teach you. Pray; seek God and godly counsel. Do not return evil with evil. If he will not tell you what is going on, ask God. He surely will reveal it.

I also know a man who refused to have sex with his wife after marriage. She got pregnant before the wedding and he really did not want to marry. After the wedding he refused sex with her but had sex with any other woman who would let him.

na wa

Omolola1:

Rape the living daylight out of him

2Legit:

Touch yourself

If you need the thing that bad, while he is sleeping, use his thing to help yourself, at least, na your husband

Na wa o, sara_j and bridget, what kind of marriage do you guys have? No sex for months and you're under the same roof? Hmmm.

Anyway, @ poster, talk to him and give him a chance to table his grievances if he has any. If dat dont work, then involve someone mature and neutral, like your pastor.

If after all this no change, then God help you, cos a sexless marriage is NOT easy!

Hesperus:

Na wa o, sara_j and bridget, what kind of marriage do you guys have? No sex for months and you're under the same roof? Hmmm.

Anyway, @ poster, talk to him and give him a chance to table his grievances if he has any. If dat dont work, then involve someone mature and neutral, like your pastor.

If after all this no change, then God help you, cos a sexless marriage is NOT easy!

So what will you tell the pastor, that your husband aint shagging you no more?

It’s very serious when a married man refuses to have sex with his wife. It's usually a sign that he's harbouring a big grudge against his wife and probably thinks he can punish her by denying her. Some of the reasons could be:

1. She’s denied him sex several times before when he really wanted it ‘badly’ and he wants to retaliate.
2. She does not really satisfy him in bed (frequency and quality), so why bother when she’s not willing to change or he not willing to accept things the way they are? Some ladies are just like logs in bed and are not adventurous.
3. He’s getting it regularly from another source.
4. Having other problems: emotional, health, financial, etc
5. No longer in love or emotionally connected to his wife, but just living like roommates.

It’s usually best to attack it early. Allowing it linger for over a week could spell permanent trouble. If he won’t cooperate, pester him and don’t let him sleep all night until you get some or get him to talk about why he’s no interested. It’s really so easy to arouse a man if you touch the right spot(s). No matter how much he pretends that he’s not interested.

Fhemmmy:

So what will you tell the pastor, that your husband aint shagging you no more?

Doesnt necessarily have to be a pastor, but someone who can give counselling advice.
Of course you tell that you aint shagging no more. At that point, there is no need for modesty again, na solution to the problem you de find! Abi husband and wife shagging na sin?

2Legit:

Touch yourself

Ummmmm. . . .

Toyosi answer now

dayokanu:

Toyosi answer now

Ahhhhh!!!!. . . .if that happens then i say the marriage is over naa . . .abi what else!

here too?
lmao

Toyosi, I dnt think mr man can stand one day without touching you, do you know how horney aunty broda dayo is?

HeatFusion:

here too?
lmao

Toyosi, I dnt think mr man can stand one day without touching you, do you know how horney aunty broda dayo is?

Wetin u sef come find for this side, gbeborun yin ti fe ma poju sha. . . .

U sef nko, Ms. too hot to resist. . . .abeg e kuro lo no jare!!

ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh igi ti bu!!!

Emi ni mo di gbeborun? ye ye ye!!! You know what, no "birthday parry" for you

Yeeeeee!! e pkele ma, ema bi nu ma, it wnt happen again

Ms. too hot? Atleast if you want to talk to me, put the mirror down first. Even Dayo can testify

Oda e mabinu ooo. . . . . . . .i so take it back, it was a slip of tongue. . . .

Ahhhhh. . .i wan partay o . . . .B T W hope ur B day hasn't gone by oo. . . .

Pls let us know when s we can u know naaa. . . . .rock it like never before

LOL, you berra be sorry. I was going to go crazy on you and dayo.

see as I dey up u 2 progress, u no evil fit say thank you. hmmm?

When big things start popping, you'll rem. me

It's in 2 days,baby, beep beep! I can feel it. . . .the shedding of a suffix. ahhhhh

If you "wanna parry", bring a dat. bing dayo



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HeatFusion:

LOL, you berra be sorry. I was going to go crazy on you and dayo.

see as I dey up u 2 progress, u no evil fit say thank you. hmmm?

When big things start popping, you'll rem. me

It's in 2 days,baby, beep beep! I can feel it. . . .the shedding of a suffix. ahhhhh

If you "wanna parry", bring a dat. bing dayo
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Ahhhhh. . . i don die oo ., . . . . .thank God i asked u sef, abegi make the count down begin oo, so im thinking Saturday. . . . . Yes??

No guyz allowed oo, naahh all gurlz only, we go partay like rock stars jare, all night long, imma put on ma dancing shoes for real,

PS. I know u've been looking forward to the bai-day parry for a long time!!

I will supply the Bouncers Bancers for the get together getz togedaz. . . . . .u know say naa bigs gess go full that side. . . .

TOYOSI20:

Ahhhhh. . . i don die oo ., . . . . .thank God i asked u sef, abegi make the count down begin oo, so im thinking Saturday. . . . . Yes??

No guyz allowed oo, naahh all gurlz only, we go partay like rock stars jare, all night long, imma put on ma dancing shoes for real,

PS. I know u've been looking forward to the bai-day parry for a long time!!

I will supply the Bouncers Bancers for the get together getz togedaz. . . . . .u know say naa bigs gess go full that side. . . .

LOL!! Yes baby, the count down begins. . . .less than 48hrs and it'd be legit!!!!!!!

Parry full of girls only, what's the fun if one can't add spice (guys) to it?

Don't worry I got that covered, I already asked dayo to be the bouncer Nothing on but g-sting

let the lady search herself may be she has done something wrong
let her be vigilant enough to know what is going on with his husband
pray to God for help and love to always win her husband lest he goes out and find
sugar mum,husband snatcher
next day let her prepare dish that he likes

HeatFusion:

LOL!! Yes baby, the count down begins. . . .less than 48hrs and it'd be legit!!!!!!!

Parry full of girls only, what's the fun if one can't add spice (guys) to it?

Don't worry I got that covered, I already asked dayo to be the bouncer Nothing on but g-sting

U know what u are most def. right , like thingz need to be spiced up jare, bring 'em all out too. . . . . . .

ROFLMGBO @ Ma bro in G- strings . . .i think im ginne die o!!

LOL, am definitely bring them out.
Oya, come out

Debosky
4Play
tumfulu
dayokanu
sillyboy
chamotex
etc,

come and shake what ur mama gave u I'd prolly get yabbed for this

Abeg, leave dayo, na only my eyes go see that one heehe

U ain't serious oo, YABBED ke?? They should be glad they are invited jare, i mean its going to be on and popping

Cute, Classy, and sophisticated gurls, who know what time it is . . . .

like what else can be better, abegi, I'm really looking forward to za partay oo, for real!!!

Toyosi babe mi ,

heafusion, I hope you are not bringing SimiBrazil and blissfuly there oh,

Na just Toyosi me I go face