the population ratio of adult males to adult females is approx. 1:1

so i don't think she'll find it hard getting another manzy

It is very possible, maybe not best friends but very close friends.

I think that opposites can be best friends. I have a best friend that is female. She has known me for years and carries all my secrets. I also have a best friend that is male. It helps that he's known me his entire life and that he's my brother.

my best friends have also been girls and i love them for their openess and sincerety.

Men I've tried it a lotta times but we always end up having sex n 4 me I'ld rather have guys as pals so I wont fall into temptation

Men I've tried it a lotta times but we always end up having sex n 4 me I'ld rather have guys as pals so I wont fall into temptation

that is the fact of the whole matter its almost impossible,hw do u expect to put a spoon of honey in your mouth and not lick it, aleast a little, girls r honey meant to be licked not 2b friends, God has made it natural for us to be strongly attracted to the opposite sex, so u can't help it.although ladies i think have a little more self control than guys,so naturally they would say they could be just friends, to me its like a fish saying it wants to be just friends with a hungry cat, the cat will denately agree though ,his intentions would be hidden for the time being, u get my drift!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nosa am happy u feel me cos 4 real like u said it aint easy at all, ps tell the house oo

I've always find the opposite sex as my best friends, cos male friends seems to be more secretive and aint ready to share what they have, but tlk about female they end up f**kin.

To me opposite-sex can be friends without sex, i don't know about you!


BB

Well it's cool but then you gotta be able to hold urself.
There can be a bit of a problem cos' most times opposite sex best friends
end up sexually attracted to eachother and it ain't cool for mr. boyfriend
or miss gurlfriend to be shoved aside. I'm a witness to this situation.
So holla if u need advice. Cheers,

i think its very possible for a guy and a girl to be best friends.there musn't really b strings attatched.

Absolutely, they can be Best Friends
i have male friends, who are very close to me
but the thing is
people love to talk
when they see u hanging out
or walking with a guy
to them, the two of u are dating

Who says it isnt possible to best friend with the opposite sex?
As for me my bestfriend is a gal and we like each other very much that every body thinks there are strings attached.
Talking about the sexual thing, Yes at the early stage of our friendship the were lots of times we both lost control that we went into deep kisses that we almost made love but later on we outgrew that and nothing happened henceforth.Though we still kiss till now but not more than friendship kiss.,, You know!

definitely
i'm sure diddy knws

@sewensky
does she have a guy she's dating? 'cos if I were her guy, I'll put u in a wheelchair for at least a few months for kissing my girl. Get real boy, u're kissing and u call that being best friends! please, which planet are u from! r u sure u're ok? I've got several female friends. very good friends and i'm talking about really drop dead gorgeous ladies but i ain't gonna kiss any of them if i don't intend to go all the way. hell no!
I live by one rule: u don't have to touch everything u like, u can just admire it and let it go, once in a while.

Yeah my bestfriend is a male we use to go out but then we stopped sha, Sha sha I think one of the reasons why were bestfriends is because his always there to listen to me and ish, I feel so comfortable with him.But I'm not inlove with him like that sha.

you can have all the friends you want before u get married. but once u do opposite sex friendships end

Shawn Bee,
I'm just a normal human being like you are,and i must tell you i am serious about it.
We are confortable with each other,even her boyfriend is comfortable with it too.Common man we are of matured minds.

sewensky

stop fooling urself, now u know the only reason y nothing came of it is because SHE STOPPED IT NOT U. now ofcourse there are ways to go around that such as involving ur little get to gethers with a little alcohol. look with enough whisky and gin u too will copulate u can bet on that. so mon wat ever friendship u have with this girl, she is teh only force that has stopped u too from yelling each others names , u get the drift.

Please my sis, enlighten the kid. matured minds indeed. Look, I'm a guy and I'm sure your mind ain't half as matured as mine. I promise u if u carry on at the same pace with her, one day go be one day. been there, done that.
I still repeat, if i were her guy, I'll put u in a wheelchair for some months, at least

yES IS THE ANSWER. i HAVE MANY GOOD FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX, NO STRINGS ATTACHED.

Nice thread great question.

to me o personally guys are best friends and there hasnt been any strings attached.
all the female friends have had always end me up in trouble or messes so since then av sticked to my guy fellas and we have been good together.
my lover knows about this and has never raised a brow about it

Yeah you can be best friends with the opposite sex with no strings attached and ve got one like dat and we are really close and i share my problems with him and he is been helpful i dont even fancy aving girls as my best friends cos they are sometin else sometimes

Yes they can.
Two of my BFF are Male. We have known each other for well over 15 yrs and have been inseparable.
I would trust them with my life, wished I could say likewise for my female counterparts, who seems to be only interested in gossip, bad-mouthing and jealousy.
One of my male BFF wife is having a difficult time understanding why her husband's best friend happens to be a female, however, I believe with time as her level of maturity grows she would.

yeah i will love 2 ve a bsetfriend whos a boy but most of ma bestfriends r girls i guees it eaiser 2 talk 2 a gal i guess but i might give dat a go no biggie

my best friend is a chick and if i could do that why cant anyone? we tell ourselves every detail of our lives like our problems, sex with our hubbies, families, joys. we hang out too. and everybody is cool and happy about it. of course at the beginnin emotions started creeping in so we had to tell ourselves the truth. IT AINT GON' WORK!. so we are always there for eachother.

yeah it happens

Absolutely not possible. The body chemistry of both a man and a woman are pole apart and entirely opposite, so they are needed to compliment each other. Cases are bound of a woman creating a divide between best of male friends and vise versa. The grand design is for us to bond sexually. Anything other than that is deception on the part of the individuals. Man be true to thyself!!!

Ouote of ToyM28

And i can assure nybody who cares 2 know, that there is no sexual tention between us. We are just cool frnds.

I should add here that you can only speak for yourself O!!!

sure they can, as long as there's no physical attraction

what girl to girl friendship is the best
u guys can paint each others nails
bake sugarplum pies
gossip about other girls and guys
sleep in hte same bed with out worrying about getting jumped
take showers together with out gettin jumped
and chances are ur girls friends are better cooks as well
girls will hold ur hair up when u are puking after a long nite at the club
tell u, honey u aer not that fat, even though u look like a baboon
comfort u when u are sad
and watch out for cops for u while u slash his tires, break his windshield and poor sand down his gasoline tank
Last but not least, u can always share their clothes so in reallity u have three to four combined wardrobes.

the only thing a guy friend is good for is paying for the bills when u guys all go out to eat. getting a guys point of view when u need advice about a man u looooooooove, and last not but least change ur tires. See when u get a male friend they only have limited warranty. and sometimes they are sold to u broken, and confused. clearly they were in teh friend ship aisle, but somehow they want to end up in the boyfriend aisle, so u toss them into the 3 for 1 discount bin because that is where they all end up anyway.

My best friend of 2 years is a guy, tall dark and attractive, there was a time we hardly spend d day without each other, he is well known by my family but never for once did we intend to have sex, in fact we never kissed!, he gave me a peck once, but it felt awkward, though he is getting married next month, i know i wud miss him, but i am very happy for him. I used to think being wit a guy was all bout sex , but this guy proved me wrong, i think he is one in a million .now i know u cn find a true friend in a guy.