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Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by pickabeau1: 12:45pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: whats the significance of the initiating party... What if she initiated the divorce due to spousal abuse or infidelity |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by coogar: 12:55pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Arial.bold: you gotta love how these deluded feminists bandy statistics. 50% of which households have females as breadwinners? how many of this 50% are single mothers? close to 2/3 of that 50% are single moms. if a single mother isn't the breadwinner, who would be? her children? by the time you narrow it down to the fact that majority of them are receiving alimony from their babydaddys & ex-husbands then the statistic is nothing to wow about! 4 Likes |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by sensaraj(f): 1:07pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: what if anything happen to me (or us) now, is the children from ex wife going to share from my property cos their dad has none |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by bukatyne(f): 1:08pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
pickabeau1: what the... impressive Thanks I am not a lady who believes she is equal to men and still have entitlement mentality. I like to earn my respect and dues because they are not lying around anywhere Like I said, I do not grasp the concept of divorce settlement 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by pickabeau1: 1:14pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
bukatyne: nice one..you have my respect with this...... maybe this your verson of feminism can really work after all.... I dont get the warped universe where the OP is from... u cheat on ur husband and yet she is paid off....?! |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by bukatyne(f): 1:42pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
pickabeau1: Sorry but I don't believe you; waters have passed under the bridge A lot of women are not feminists; opportunities more like it. It is common in our society, we try to take advantage of people who respect us or are meek I still do not grasp the reasoning that a woman should be rude because she sees herself as a man's equal Infact, sometimes when I do something wrong to my bobo, God would ask me if I would like it if he did such to me Anyways, whatever rocks each person's boat |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by pickabeau1: 1:44pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
+1 <thumbs up> bukatyne: |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Nobody: 1:48pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
FNG3:Don't mind silly Paris10, when I say Nigerian adult females are adequately protected by the law she no fit understand am. The problem is they are usually too stewpid to fight for their rights. All the UK they refer to records a high number of court cases of women wanting more from their husbands than they're willing to give and usually get as much or more than what they demand. But fools like Paris will have us believe otherwise, afterall DSTV channels 151-158 is what they live by and they think that's where the world ends. Paris10, is a clown and needs to have her brain reset. 3 Likes |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Nobody: 2:02pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
bukatyne:You may need to open a school for your people o. The ill-logic is just bleh. Nice post tho. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Naijamericana: 3:03pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
@Op Will your proposed "divorce decrees" be based on english common law or napoleonic law? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by bee444: 3:26pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
fresh_dude: Don't mind silly Paris10, when I say Nigerian adult females are adequately protected by the law she no fit understand am. The problem is they are usually too stewpid to fight for their rights. All the UK they refer to records a high number of court cases of women wanting more from their husbands than they're willing to give and usually get as much or more than what they demand. But fools like Paris will have us believe otherwise, afterall DSTV channels 151-158 is what they live by and they think that's where the world ends. Paris10, is a clown and needs to have her brain reset. Go and tell that to a Nigerian judge...you want to fight for right abi... your case will be thrown out like a javelin. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by ocelot2006(m): 3:33pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Of course he is the owner of the house!! Why the hell should a man share his hard earned estate and money with a wayward wife just because they've called it quits? Let her go back to were she came from. Or are her hands broken? Nonsense. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by ocelot2006(m): 3:34pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
coogar: Kpom! |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by bee444: 3:35pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
pickabeau1: THERE ARE ALWAYS TWO PARTIES TO EVERYTHING. Regardless of the reason for divorce, both parties must consent. A judge in almost all the abuse cases waive the consenting part and allow the divorce to go ahead. When this happens, the woman would still pay or compensate the husband if the husband counter-sue for malicious divorce or for what he is accustomed to i.e pu.ssie and the food. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by ocelot2006(m): 3:45pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Change my foot. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by pickabeau1: 4:12pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
bee444: You should direct these comments to paris10 In her world, whoever initiates divorce is the guilty party and should pay 1 Like |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by bukatyne(f): 4:28pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
OP, Have you considered that most of these women chose their men with their eyes opened? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by keswagz(m): 5:17pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
coogar:i enjoyed this story to d fullest. my pain is jst this "even if a woman is promiscuous".what nonsense? @op if u say men cheat also, i thought u want gender equality, then d woman should also kick him out and support him financially or wat do you think? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Fourwinds: 5:44pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
coogar: |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by shoboy9: 5:48pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
It is "there is neither male nor female in christ". Everyone should learn to work. If u choose to leave ur husband then leave his property for him. Go and work! Too many women are being raised to be materialistic and lazy. A worse combination to make one into a thief and a parasite i cannot imagine. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Fourwinds: 5:49pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
keswagz: i enjoyed this story to d fullest. my pain is jst this "even if a woman is promiscuous".what nonsense? @op if u say men cheat also, i thought u want gender equality, then d woman should also kick him out and support him financially or wat do you think? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Royou: 6:00pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
We are almost getting there! Marriage would soon become extinct in modern Nigeria if we still carry that notion that women should be looked after,taken care of, provided for!!!! Marriage is a union and once we bring that "The man is an ATM machine into it" it loses its meaning! Contribute in all spheres to make it work! else marriage becomes a tattoo women wear to show off and a way out of their mental poverty! Men should take care of their wives and wives should do the same its not a one-sided thing! |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Simonet: 6:11pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Trottle: Truth is, when you over empower women like this, it is the family unit that suffers. Men do not want to take responsibility for a woman who is free to cheat! That's why you have so many baby mamas, reckless divorcees, gays and lesbians in America. So many Absent Fathers! |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by freddaboh(m): 6:35pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Even if she is promiscous? Part with my hard-earned so that she can take care of a small boy her son's age? God forbid. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by paris10: 6:39pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women? The mentality that women should take care of themselves and work to provide for their wants is plausible.... that leaves us with the men.. what would these bunch be doing then? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women? Yeah, I think you need to quit talking now. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by paris10: 7:56pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
ileobatojo: So your body abhor the truth now abi? |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Nobody: 8:05pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women? What are you talking about? I agree with Sagamite on this one. *Thread unfollowed* |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by childofgod12: 8:16pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
my own husband is heartless and mean! His ppl dictates 4 him, i'm lookn 4 any oppotunity 2 get out of his life 4 good |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by coogar: 8:17pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women? 2 Likes |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by keswagz(m): 8:43pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
paris10: Just because women are now achievers and bread winners doesn't make the man less a man. A man, well, a real man should handle his business. And just because your wife works does not exclude you from providing for the family. Men are now becoming lazy and expecting their working wives to provide for the house. Same logic applies to marriage and divorce. What happens to the men of old who would do anything to protect their women?with my previous comments I have been trying to make you reason, but now it is justifiable to say you are daft and the level of daftness is beyond any solution weather medically, academically or spiritually. thank you. |
Re: Divorce And The Suffering Of The Nigerian Women! by Venchy: 8:47pm On Jan 07, 2014 |
lady gogo: i sometimes wonder what all those female legislators do with their time in the National Assembly. You wish, Female legislators such as our Nigerian 1st Lady or Oduah aviation wahala with her fraudulent mind set. ...Abeg my sister, think of another way....Government people are rouges. I think it's a serious problem in every third world or under developed country and it shouldn't be so. I hope that one day women will fight for themselves. |
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