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| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by rossete2020(f): 6:52am On Jan 08, 2014 |
pls leave d house 4 gud nd dont let ur sis no about it. U can jst tink of anoda reason to tel her y u need leave or dont u av parents or anoda relative u can b wit. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 6:56am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Telling your sister is the only way to show that you disapprove of her husband's advances. But be ready to leave their house after telling your sister because he will hate you and possibly frame you for something as pay back. If you can't afford to leave their house right now, then express to him how disappointed you are at his actions and intentions. Explain to him that you love your sister and that you want her marriage with him to succeed, that sleeping with him will ultimately destroy their marriage - an outcome that will be a gross violation of your own conscience (assuming you truly detest his sexually advances). I would also text him a summary of all you discuss with him regarding the issue to serve as digital evidence, in case he flips the story and actually tells your sister, down the line, that you initiated the move. Make sure that all his texts and the ones you send to him are saved on your phone, while also ensuring the safety of that phone, as he can grab your phone and intentionally immerse it in water so as to destroy it and to get rid of the evidence. His actions clearly suggests someone who's obsessed with your body. Again, the best thing would be to disappear from his daily view (leave) but if that is not feasible, try and cover up your body as much as you can when he's around. Be polite to him but show a very mature presence. Talk about geeky/nerdy stuff with him (it's ok to initiate really dry conversations like politics, boko haram, terrorism around the world etc.), that way he begins to experience your intelligence and mature mind. In the presence of your sister, his wife, you can even suggest that they need a "hidden security camera system" in the house! If your sister asks why, say that because its some cool tech stuff to have around and that you've been checking some out online. You want him to see your mature, intelligent, responsible, and smart side, not just the sexy or sexual object that your body portray's to him presently. Otherwise, being rude, jumping, running away or acting out or shouting when he touches or attempts to touch you, or is around you, would only turn him on the more, as such behaviors are childish and funny, and could come-off as freaky, or as games that require perseverance on his part. You're in a difficult situation, do doubt. But if you abhor his advances, know that you can fend him off by asserting yourself as mature and intelligent. If everything fails (and even if he stops), then (still) inform your sister ASAP and also get your family involved. My real concern is that you sister faces a high risk of contracting a disease from a promiscuous and highly-sexed husband. Good luck! 1 Like |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by otokx(m): 7:07am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Story Story. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by elebua: 7:11am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: Ever since I step my foot in my sis house, the husband have been disturbing my life, first he sent me message and I taught it was a joke just last night he purposely touch my breast when I was in the kitchen cooking and I became so angry that I refuse 2 eat and my sis ask me why I'm that angry, I couldn't utter a word because he was staring at me.If you are sure that you do not want to create problem in that house like you claimed, then pack your load and get out now. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by NAJALYN: 7:11am On Jan 08, 2014 |
My dr give the dude the embarrassment of his life by showing those love notes of his to your sistrer & the dude will be forced to back off. Stupid man. SUEGBE. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Sike(m): 7:15am On Jan 08, 2014 |
oluswaggz: Hmmmm, I guess u cosd it urself, this is what happenedhahahaha |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by adellam16(f): 7:22am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: I have the right 2 speak any language I wish to. Adiok mkpo uno fienso why did you bother speaking d english at d first place? U can't even speak d english language? Stick to ya local dialect nd stop giving us migraine. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Mercyu1(f): 7:25am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Do u hv any friends or relatives around?If u do,I suggest u luk 4 any excuse 2 giv ur sis so dt u can go nd stay wit them 2moro n go bck 2 ur sis house any day she ll be bck.It is risky 2 saty wit him alone in d house cos I dnt think u r of age 2 handle him if he becomes abusive. Then wen u get bck,take ur tym 2 talk 2 dis man tellin him how disappointed u r wit him,dt wat he ask 4 is a taboo nd dt it goes 2 show he has no single respect 4 ur sis nd ur family in general.End it by warning him dt if he continues,u r going 2 tel ur sis.But make sure u keep does mssgs as evidence in case he wants 2 play smart.Also ensure u dress decently in d house. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by adellam16(f): 7:26am On Jan 08, 2014 |
POPE II: your blackmail is useless, Change your ways, period.if u had regards for ur female folks u wouldn't generaliize,dats my point. Stop saying nigerian women, say most nigerian women. Who u be too? R u God? Abeg park well. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by c4sam(m): 7:26am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Op U̶̲̥̅̊ get time Oº°˚˚°ºo. U̶̲̥̅̊ kwn what 2 do, if U̶̲̥̅̊ expect everybody here 2 side U̶̲̥̅̊, U̶̲̥̅̊ A̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̥ε̲̣̣̣̥ on long tin ℓ̊ repeat long tin. U̶̲̥̅̊ kwn not everybody here dia brain ȋ̝̊̅§ functioning well. So U̶̲̥̅̊ mustn't reply everybody expect U̶̲̥̅̊ 2 be like them. Shikena. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Pretyangel25(f): 7:36am On Jan 08, 2014 |
xtervaganza: the only he goat isyour drunk irresponsible father that ccan't provide for you so bad that you're waiting on your already burdened and pregnant sister for ur project moneyit is ur useless father, ur ashawo mother, ur useless nd gud 4 nothing siblings that are dirty rat. Das how ur own ashawo mother Bleep her brother inlaw. U re so so irresponsible dat u open dat dirty mouth of urs nd insult people anyhow. Ame neke asime tutu |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Pretyangel25(f): 7:44am On Jan 08, 2014 |
xtervaganza: no mind the foolish girl Jarefoolish man what's ur problem? I can see how useless u really are. I think have respected u enough but since u don't deserve the respect I will insult you. Anohfia |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by bikerboy1(m): 7:47am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: u re right I guess I have 2 tell my sis about it keep on guesssing. you guess this, you guess that, today na wednesday ooo...... the thing go soon happen |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by c4sam(m): 7:53am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: foolish man what's ur problem? I can see how useless u really are. I think have respected u enough but since u don't deserve the respect I will insult you. Anohfiamust U̶̲̥̅̊ insult everybody back? ℓ̊ begin 2 suspect U̶̲̥̅̊ too. U̶̲̥̅̊ re nt clean too. U̶̲̥̅̊ beta repent Oº°˚˚°ºo |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by xavier047: 7:54am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: is you that is olodo/dump head.Still displaying your immaturity, he just told you the stark truth or you rather want him to garnish it with spice. You want NL advice on a matter you obviously know the answer and still want to select responses that will come. If your brain is as pretty as your name, deal with the stark truth |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by AskProf: 7:58am On Jan 08, 2014 |
InvertedHammer: Please Advice Her by Pretyangel25(f): 9:22pm On Jan 03  |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by hunkydory(m): 8:06am On Jan 08, 2014 |
As if it will never come,wednesday is here.So i just wanna know:are you still in the house and has your sister travelled?update us. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Lekan155: 8:22am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Chai!!!! See insult this cold early Wednesday'::::: anyway what's your decision? Pretyangel |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 8:25am On Jan 08, 2014 |
benardemma: Tell him that if he try disturb you again that you will tell here wife.and wait for the reply from him.That won't work ma, he will see it as an empty treat..... |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 8:30am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Don't guess anything just leave d house for now since ur sister is not around.... Den if d idiot still keep disturbing u after ur sister return den only den will u report him. n tell her dats d reason u left d house wen she travelled. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by cheezypeachy(f): 8:31am On Jan 08, 2014 |
there is no need to think much. give the man a serious warning and stay clear It's your sister we are talking about remember! |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 8:33am On Jan 08, 2014 |
simply_me: Do the needful. Fu ck him.While will ur advice come first? Pretty angel don't take d advice oh |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Jaggiey: 8:37am On Jan 08, 2014 |
RUN VERY FAR AND FAST! YOUR LIFE AND DESTINY MAY BE ON THE LINE!! |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 8:39am On Jan 08, 2014 |
cheezypeachy: there is no need to think much. give the man a serious warning and stay clear It's your sister we are talking about remember!Thanks for reminding it's like she is forgetting it's her sister.... |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by iroza(f): 9:03am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Call ur sis and tell her, if she is ur sis she will know how to handle the matter. Before the man will spoil ur name to ur sis, making it look as if u are the one seducing him. In most case the man might rape u one day and everybody will blame u for not talking or leaving the house. Take care of this problem b4 the problem take care of u. Remember that u are at the receiving end, protect urself. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Pretyangel25(f): 9:26am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Lekan155: Chai!!!! See insult this cold early Wednesday'::::: anyway what's your decision? Pretyangelgud morning, have left the house this morning |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by puppy2k(m): 9:29am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Na wa oo |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 9:41am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: I'm not living there with her, I only went 4 a visit but will soon go back Ok nah, you have over-stayed your welcome. Just go and stop this useless thread. Smh.. Disturbing us when that is not even your home but make sure you expose the man before you go.. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 9:42am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: gud morning, have left the house this morning So where are you going to now? My hauz dey shaa.. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nosu(m): 9:46am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Pretyangel25: gud morning, have left the house this morning Gud to know, If u hv yielded u would hv brought disgrace to ur sisterand the entire family of urs and the man in his mind would be feeling like a champion |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 08, 2014 |
Joel.: ha ha ha, ho ho ho. I laugh in Gordon's voice.. |
| Re: Pleas Help!!! My Sister Husband Is Asking Me Out by Nobody: 9:50am On Jan 08, 2014 |
RedBenson: You saw his name Poliz and you wonder why. Those are the ilks that man our highways and live by extortion.. |
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