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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by PedroJP(m): 2:56pm On Jan 07, 2014
No. But u are not a virgin and u are planning to enjoy ur wedding night bliss.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by lilmax(m): 3:37pm On Jan 07, 2014
Wat is this one saying.......the worst part is that you are not a virgin.And you want a guy to wait for you till marriage
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:54pm On Jan 07, 2014
So cause am not a virgin I should make my punny wider by having sex everyday?. I am not a sex person sumtimes I even feel irritated after sex

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by sailormoon: 3:55pm On Jan 07, 2014
lil max: Wat is this one saying.......the worst part is that you are not a virgin.And you want a guy to wait for you till marriage
Trash

@OP
It's a personal choice
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by PedroJP(m): 6:17pm On Jan 07, 2014
mrsincredible: So cause am not a virgin I should make my punny wider by having sex everyday?. I am not a sex person sumtimes I even feel irritated after sex


Not really, but u are a sex person to b sincere with u cos ur irritation comes after the act.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by passionate88: 7:05pm On Jan 07, 2014
mrsincredible: So cause am not a virgin I should make my punny wider by having sex everyday?. I am not a sex person sumtimes I even feel irritated after sex
Dm no say make u do make e wide. My own b say, if d guy dn chop u nd u want to start ur celibacy for him head, e good. Bt if u jst meet d guy cm dey tell am say "No sex untill marriage" na that one I no like. Some guys fit gree o, sm go gree bt dey chop outside, some go dey think say u dey chop outside, sm go dey fear say ur toto dn b borehole already. The sure place wey this ur concept go work for u na Deeper Life Church or d guy na correct pastor.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 7:39pm On Jan 07, 2014
^^Must a guy be a deeper life church member or a pastor before he can control himself or want sexx after marriage? undecided
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by passionate88: 8:09pm On Jan 07, 2014
If I put say make d guy b maclatunji or imam or alfa, na u go first shout, as I pt d one wey ppl no go shout u dn dey take style attack me. Na wa to u o

tintingz: ^^Must a guy be a deeper life church member or a pastor before he can control himself or want sexx after marriage? undecided
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:23pm On Jan 07, 2014
passionate88: If I put say make d guy b maclatunji or imam or alfa, na u go first shout, as I pt d one wey ppl no go shout u dn dey take style attack me. Na wa to u o
lmao. Don't turn my thread into a religious battle o
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 8:55pm On Jan 07, 2014
passionate88: If I put say make d guy b maclatunji or imam or alfa, na u go first shout, as I pt d one wey ppl no go shout u dn dey take style attack me. Na wa to u o
Who's talking about religion thing? undecided If you don't get my post, I mean must a guy be a devoted religious person before he can abstain from sexx before marriage?

I used what you posted to ask you question, I'm a muslim doesn't mean you should be biased in your thinking.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by chichi820(f): 9:16pm On Jan 07, 2014
grin
mrsincredible: so wat if my partners don't agree with the ideal
. This is serious @ post u mean partners? How many are they? Just asking oh..smh
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by passionate88: 9:51pm On Jan 07, 2014
tintingz: Who's talking about religion thing? undecided If you don't get my post, I mean must a guy be a devoted religious person before he can abstain from sexx before marriage?

I used what you posted to ask you question, I'm a muslim doesn't mean you should be biased in your thinking.
Oga no b fight na, u no ask if d guy most be religiously devoted to be able to abstain from sex, wetin u ask na most the guy be a deeper life member or a pastor b4 him go fit abstain. The fault na from u n I bt e start from u because u no construct ur qstn well. No vex o. Nw na January.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:55pm On Jan 07, 2014
You are not a virgin and you want to wait till marriage?


Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by nairaman66(m): 11:13pm On Jan 07, 2014
mrsincredible: seems u don't understand metaphors

Neither do you have any idea about SINGULAR and PLURALS!
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 12:03am On Jan 08, 2014
passionate88: Oga no b fight na, u no ask if d guy most be religiously devoted to be able to abstain from sex, wetin u ask na most the guy be a deeper life member or a pastor b4 him go fit abstain. The fault na from u n I bt e start from u because u no construct ur qstn well. No vex o. Nw na January.
LOL, I asked base on your post. smiley
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 12:04am On Jan 08, 2014
rokiatu: You are not a virgin and you want to wait till marriage?


Ofcos why can't she wait? undecided

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by oyinbogirl(f): 2:03am On Jan 08, 2014
passionate88: u b whitey na, u no go understand our girls wit their mentality and u no go understand our guys wit our mentality also. Different culture, different orientation.

please gist me then how we are different smiley

OP, go for it, I respect your decision Shows you got self control
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:31am On Jan 08, 2014
tintingz: Ofcos why can't she wait? undecided
One problem she wud have is a situation where maybe she hasn't had sex with the guy, and she told him no sex till marriage but after the guy has waited till dat last day, he discovers dat she had popped it long ago, and is giving him 90day rule...lol'''dat's when u wud know d true definition of hell in marriage.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:48am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
One problem she wud have is a situation where maybe she hasn't had sex with the guy, and she told him no sex till marriage but after the guy has waited till dat last day, he discovers dat she had popped it long ago, and is giving him 90day rule...lol'''dat's when u wud know d true definition of hell in marriage.
I won't lie to him that I am a virgin just that I don't want sex b4 marriage if a gal doesn't have sex for long her virginal bcomes tight like a virgin's own
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 9:50am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
One problem she wud have is a situation where maybe she hasn't had sex with the guy, and she told him no sex till marriage but after the guy has waited till dat last day, he discovers dat she had popped it long ago, and is giving him 90day rule...lol'''dat's when u wud know d true definition of hell in marriage.
Simple, the girl should be honest and just tell him she's not a virgin but want no sexx until after marriage, there are many guys that will respect her decision. There are many mistake reason or past experience how some girls lost their virginity I think the OP opened a thread about that.

You are not a virgin doesn't mean you can't keep yourself till after marriage, you are not a virgin doesn't mean a girl should sleep with her boyfriend just to satisfy his desire, she own her body and she should make her decision/choice for herself.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 9:56am On Jan 08, 2014
tintingz: Simple, the girl should be honest and just tell him she's not a virgin but want no sexx until after marriage, there are many guys that will respect her decision. There are many mistake reason or past experience how some girls lost their virginity I think the OP opened a thread about that.

You are not a virgin doesn't mean you can't keep yourself till after marriage, you are not a virgin doesn't mean a girl should sleep with her boyfriend just to satisfy his desire, she own her body and she should make her decision/choice for herself.
mr man, please mind the way u run ur mouth is it everywhere u must talk about that thread I opened. Why don't u go on ait and announce it? Can't u respect me for once? U used that same thread to make fun of me its enuff abeg I know I am not a saint . Thread that has ended like 2weeks agao
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by skydeep(f): 9:58am On Jan 08, 2014
What are you guys saying? Someone can be deflowered without her consent like rap'e, under the influence of alcohol et al. So if she chose not to have sex again until marriage, how is that a big deal?

So because the hymen has been broken she can go on having sex like its normal? Come on guys, a rap'ed victim still has a virtue.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:20am On Jan 08, 2014
skydeep: What are you guys saying? Someone can be deflowered without her consent like rap'e, under the influence of alcohol et al. So if she chose not to have sex again until marriage, how is that a big deal?

So because the hymen has been broken she can go on having sex like its normal? Come on guys, a rap'ed victim still has a virtue.
Dats gud, but one other things gals needs to know is that let's hope she's saying the truth, we guys know ourselves, if a guy has dated u, he must surely tell his friends, if really u re a rape victim or u re pretending to be one pray dat u don't have sth to hide, coz the truth wud come out by itself.
Der is dz gal I used to date, I wanted to marry her she gave me dz no sex till marriage talk too...lol''' a friend of mine just saw me with the gal one day like dat, I didn't ask d guy anything o, d guy just came and told me that, oboy u want collect ur own?...I was like how, he just laughed, told me her name " d name he told me was one of d gals name dat only very few ppl knew"...and he walked away, and said oboi no worry nd he just laughed and walked away(dat guy is a flirt), I started disturbing him, and he told me dat he dated d gal some years ago, and he banged her dat year so many times...lol.
I just went home when I saw her I played along, bang tried my best, banged her then when am done I asked her if she knew d guy, she refused to say anything, I just told her its over.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by skydeep(f): 10:26am On Jan 08, 2014
^Pathetic grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by FoxyFlow(m): 10:29am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
Dats gud, but one other things gals needs to know is that let's hope she's saying the truth, we guys know ourselves, if a guy has dated u, he must surely tell his friends, if really u re a rape victim or u re pretending to be one pray dat u don't have sth to hide, coz the truth wud come out by itself.
Der is dz gal I used to date, I wanted to marry her she gave me dz no sex till marriage talk too...lol''' a friend of mine just saw me with the gal one day like dat, I didn't ask d guy anything o, d guy just came and told me that, oboy u want collect ur own?...I was like how, he just laughed, told me her name " d name he told me was one of d gals name dat only very few ppl knew"...and he walked away, and said oboi no worry nd he just laughed and walked away(dat guy is a flirt), I started disturbing him, and he told me dat he dated d gal some years ago, and he banged her dat year so many times...lol.
I just went home when I saw her I played along, bang tried my best, banged her then when am done I asked her if she knew d guy, she refused to say anything, I just told her its over.

Complete this story na... What now happened? grin grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:35am On Jan 08, 2014
Foxy_Flow:

Complete this story na... What now happened? grin grin
...LoL... One thing u need to know is dat any gurl dat has d guts to tell u she wants u guys to wait till marriage b4 sex, u shud have d guts to ask her if she's a virgin, if she has d guts to tell u no, ask her how come''' if she lies its on her head.
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:38am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
Dats gud, but one other things gals needs to know is that let's hope she's saying the truth, we guys know ourselves, if a guy has dated u, he must surely tell his friends, if really u re a rape victim or u re pretending to be one pray dat u don't have sth to hide, coz the truth wud come out by itself.
Der is dz gal I used to date, I wanted to marry her she gave me dz no sex till marriage talk too...lol''' a friend of mine just saw me with the gal one day like dat, I didn't ask d guy anything o, d guy just came and told me that, oboy u want collect ur own?...I was like how, he just laughed, told me her name " d name he told me was one of d gals name dat only very few ppl knew"...and he walked away, and said oboi no worry nd he just laughed and walked away(dat guy is a flirt), I started disturbing him, and he told me dat he dated d gal some years ago, and he banged her dat year so many times...lol.
I just went home when I saw her I played along, bang tried my best, banged her then when am done I asked her if she knew d guy, she refused to say anything, I just told her its over.
my dear people change. mayb ur friend dint date her for love some gals fall mistakenly for players without knowing doesn't mean she's the type that sleeps around
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by FoxyFlow(m): 10:38am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
...LoL... One thing u need to know is dat any gurl dat has d guts to tell u he wants u guys to wait till marriage b4 sex, u shud have d guts to ask her if she's a virgin, if she has d guts to tell u no, ask her how come''' if she lie its on her head.

No oo... You are preaching to me instead of completing the story.

Anyway, I believe you are married now. Congrats.

That babe fall hands. Kai, I no dey pity that kind person wo, will do worse to her..

I have a story to that effect sha grin grin
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Nobody: 10:40am On Jan 08, 2014
lygn19:
...LoL... One thing u need to know is dat any gurl dat has d guts to tell u she wants u guys to wait till marriage b4 sex, u shud have d guts to ask her if she's a virgin, if she has d guts to tell u no, ask her how come''' if she lies its on her head.
so even if she's not a victim of sex an says she doesn't want to have sex b4 marriage is still a wrong ideal
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by tintingz(m): 10:40am On Jan 08, 2014
mrsincredible: mr man, please mind the way u run ur mouth is it everywhere u must talk about that thread I opened. Why don't u go on ait and announce it? Can't u respect me for once? U used that same thread to make fun of me its enuff abeg I know I am not a saint . Thread that has ended like 2weeks agao
I don't use that thread to make fun of you, sorry if it seems like that to you. I'm only trying to give out a point, as you can read in my post I didn't give the content of that thread. I'm sorry smiley

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Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Spencerpnf(m): 10:40am On Jan 08, 2014
lets leave sentiments here....Emotion is natural .....if u can control it den hold on to it, if u cant den go ahead and dy/dx
Re: Is Sex Necessary In A Relationship? by Spencerpnf(m): 10:41am On Jan 08, 2014
lets leave sentiments here....Emotion is natural .....if u can control it den hold on to it, if u cant den go ahead and dy/dx

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