lygn19:
...LoL... One thing u need to know is dat any gurl dat has d guts to tell u she wants u guys to wait till marriage b4 sex, u shud have d guts to ask her if she's a virgin, if she has d guts to tell u no, ask her how come''' if she lies its on her head.

tintingz: I don't use that thread to make fun of you, sorry if it seems like that to you. I'm only trying to give out a point, as you can read in my post I didn't give the content of that thread. I'm sorry

tintingz: And how did you came into conclusion that she sleeps around? She might be inlove with your friend in the past then and your friend played her. What if you are married to her and your friend came and told you this what will you do?

You action is not different from your flirty friend.

mrsincredible: and u think pple won't go nd dig up the thread?. So u can't prove ur point without exposing sum1

azzin. Very wicked approach

tintingz: And how did you came into conclusion that she sleeps around? She might be inlove with your friend in the past then and your friend played her. What if you are married to her and your friend came and told you this what will you do?

Your action is not different from your flirty friend.

lygn19:
If am married to her and ma friend tells me that, I wud do d same, after all we leave in a modern world, d word divorce still exists.
Do to others as u want them to do unto u, If u knw u re not a virgin tell me, at least I wud know where my own limits stops, not after some other guy has finished using u not once not twice, u wud now start telling me no sex till marriage, then later I find out, I wud just kill u.

lygn19:
If am married to her and ma friend tells me that, I wud do d same, after all we leave in a modern world, d word divorce still exists.
Do to others as u want them to do unto u, If u knw u re not a virgin tell me, at least I wud know where my own limits stops, not after some other guy has finished using u not once not twice, u wud now start telling me no sex till marriage, then later I find out, I wud just kill u.

oyinbogirl:

please gist me then how we are different

OP, go for it, I respect your decision Shows you got self control

mrsincredible: I won't lie to him that I am a virgin just that I don't want sex b4 marriage if a gal doesn't have sex for long her virginal bcomes tight like a virgin's own

lygn19:
Dats gud, but one other things gals needs to know is that let's hope she's saying the truth, we guys know ourselves, if a guy has dated u, he must surely tell his friends, if really u re a rape victim or u re pretending to be one pray dat u don't have sth to hide, coz the truth wud come out by itself.
Der is dz gal I used to date, I wanted to marry her she gave me dz no sex till marriage talk too...lol''' a friend of mine just saw me with the gal one day like dat, I didn't ask d guy anything o, d guy just came and told me that, oboy u want collect ur own?...I was like how, he just laughed, told me her name " d name he told me was one of d gals name dat only very few ppl knew"...and he walked away, and said oboi no worry nd he just laughed and walked away(dat guy is a flirt), I started disturbing him, and he told me dat he dated d gal some years ago, and he banged her dat year so many times...lol.
I just went home when I saw her I played along, bang tried my best, banged her then when am done I asked her if she knew d guy, she refused to say anything, I just told her its over.

passionate88: guy u for no bang her, u for jst end d relationship

lygn19:
Na me for loose nw.

passionate88: u for jst b d bigger man nd walk out.

lygn19:
If I hadn't done that, I wud hv felt heart broken, but that helped me pass the burden to her instead, coz it was all her fault.

passionate88: guy it wasn't her fault, she didn't lie abt her virginity, u accepted d "no sex till after marriage" thing, you later break ur agreement.

lygn19:
That's not it, what got me angry was that she was telling me the "no sex till marriage shit", when she was already a borehole... Dats not d kinda person I wanna spend d rest of ma life with bro.

mrsincredible: dude u r wrong just admit it. So cos she had a relationship with ur friend she's now a borehole abi? U shldnt have slept wit her cos now u are less of a man

lygn19:
D only reason y I did dat was that I felt betrayed, not loved, and stu'pid...
Normally I used to be a bad guy, but imagine some gurl that I was thinking wasn't like others, that I was even thinking is one virgin dat doesn't even know what "a D*ck" looks like trynna play me...lol
If I didn't do that I wudda hated her for life, everytime I see her I wud just be feeling like running her over with my car,,, but since I did it,anytime I see her, I just get excited.
I get excited coz I got my payback, for her wasting my time and her trying to f00l me.

Confirmed

One of the reason you did it was because you are a "bad guy"

tintingz: Confirmed

One of the reason you did it was because you are a "bad guy"

Maureen90: I have never had sex before cos i wont my weddng night t be special but i have been tempted many Times to have sex bt i dnt bt my decisions has cost me pain

mrsincredible: sorry dear its 21st century pple don't appreciate virgins again

mrsincredible: sorry dear its 21st century pple don't appreciate virgins again

mrsincredible: sorry dear its 21st century pple don't appreciate virgins again

Henry praise: Is money neccessary in a relationship?

If u don't want s*x till wedding night don't want/ ask for money till wedding night.

mrsincredible: I am planing on not having sex till I marry, I am not a virgin but I want to have that wedding night bliss cause if you kip on having sex with ur partner u won't enjoy anytin on your wedding night, what do you think

lygn19:
Bad guys do settle down bro. But dat doesn't mean d tamed lion(d bad life) has been shut away forever.
I might have done enuf bad things in ma past but I can say it boldly dat " I didn't ruin any gurls life".

Ofcus bad guys do settle(only if they change) but do their relationship last long?

I said this because...

In your scenario
• A good guy has two option - either he leave the girl to her sorry azz and walk away or sleep with her for payback out of anger.

• A bad guy - They will always wanna payback no matter what, they feel cheating on them is a lose game.

So your payback is because you are a 'bad guy', well you just confirmed it and it makes you feel not a loser or betrayed.

mrsincredible: sorry dear its 21st century pple don't appreciate virgins again

tintingz: People still appreciate virginity or have you ever heard our parents encouraging their children to have pre-marital sex?

Don't generalize, many guys still go for virgins and end up with them in marriage, even some bad guy will wanna end up with virgins.

Virginity Is not a full guarantee of a happy home but it gives peace of mind to the couples(in sexuality part), if you are not a virgin you don't have any problem or to be worried just be yourself and be a good woman to your man same goes to virgins