Hello everyone am in a relationship with a girl 8 years different most things l told her are lies for the past one year now l told her what never true about my family and what am because l jst wanted to get her which l finally did.
but one thing disturb me alot she claim too holy and faithfull to me which l am to her either but am afriad of one thing about her no body calls her phone, no text messages from anyone for the past one year now no dia calls to any person eccept my no miss calls from any other person only my miss calls sometimes l keep her phone for three days and no calls come in asking for her.

My problem now she is too holy to be to trust l believe she have another phone she give all people to reach her. she get mad every little thing l do she hardly say l love only when l ask her to but she cliam she love me that l am all and all in her life, though am her first guy she said.

the fact is l dont trust her in any way. she is Ibo and l am Edo, she promise to marry me if l agree to marry her.

What should l do about this?.

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@ poster

I av nothing to say rigth nw.

I think you are being crucified by your conscience.

Can someone please tell me what to do,

Tell her whats on your mind
or
Break up with her

When the madman starts dancing in the market square. . .  His drummer will most likely be in a nearby bush - Cherchez le femme!

and whos the madman ?

dyabman:

and whos the madman ?

Count your teeth with your tongue, you will discover who it is

dyabman:

and whos the madman ?

though it took me time to grab and digest ur grammar,but i will answer u

but before i answer u poster,how old r u?

depends on ur kind of love for her. is it all about sex or u truely love her, if u do try and find out hw come she never had all those things u mentioned ,like txt msgs and bla and moreover how old is she?

So basically, your problem is that you suspect your girlfriend has another phone?

spikedcylinder:

So basically, your problem is that you suspect your girlfriend has another phone?

When a farmer has a poor yield, he blames his tools. . . My understanding is that this guy is not getting much from the relationship and has to find some allegations to place on the chic in order to release himself without feeling guilty of messing up the entire thing.
Her holiness is now a fault? You dont have any competitors calling her mobile phone and yet you're bothered? I've even tried reading this thread upside-down and i still dont understand how he is bothered. . . Except he wants a way out!

He needs the challenge and she is not offering any excitement. Long story short, he is bored. We are human, just that some people place a lot of importance on some kind of excitement being with someone.

whitelexi:

When the madman starts dancing in the market square. . . His drummer will most likely be in a nearby bush

hahahahha my ribss
@poster sorry dude your english is killing

the fact is l don't trust her in any way
this my friend is ur major problem

whitelexi:

When a farmer has a poor yield, he blames his tools. . . My understanding is that this guy is not getting much from the relationship and has to find some allegations to place on the chic in order to release himself without feeling guilty of messing up the entire thing.
Her holiness is now a fault? You don't have any competitors calling her mobile phone and yet you're bothered? I've even tried reading this thread upside-down and i still don't understand how he is bothered. . . Except he wants a way out!

Its ok for him to want out but I sense a lot of insecurity with this person. I mean, he seizes her phone for 3 days!!! If he wants out, he should just say so and spare us the grammer and stop blaming his girlfriend for cheating on him with a phone!

na wa ooooo

bros poster
as correct edo guy, me i for expect say make u carry pigin english scatter ur problem for us, make we fit mend am.

now u don put us inside ur wahala with ur grammer

your evil don mature, and is begginig to torment your conscience.suffer alone.

looooooool

PLS COULD YOU GIVE ME A DOSE OF PANADOL B4 I ANS YOU?

hollandis:

PLS COULD YOU GIVE ME A DOSE OF PANADOL B4 I ANS YOU?

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my friend, first u need to tell us the girl's age and urs too.

Also, I think you are suffering from a guilty consience. Going through your post, your first lines about ur lying to her does not correlate with the other lines regarding her phone and all. For me, for mentioning those lines at all means its hurting you that the girl has been faithfull all through while you have been very dishonest. Poor Girl.

Best advice from me is for you to open up to her and tell her the truth about you. All the lies, tell her about them. If she leaves you, you really dont deserve her. If she stays, please try to treat her better. She deserves more

Seriously guyz . . , . .I honestly couldn't understand the writeup . . ._{how did you guyz do it ? ? ?}

Your writeup is gibberish. but tell us , d 8 years diff, is she older or younger dan urself ?

naija women don suffer.

You dont trust her,i mean without trust what is a relationship without trust.

How can you describe her Beauty?

Both of u r fooling urselves. D girl sure has another phone. Ur rship is built on lies of course it will crumble.