I guess marriages where the couple help each other aka "50:50 nonsense" are fake?

couples helping each other is not the same as demanding that each follow a set of laid down duties so that work is duly shared 50:50. I find most guys including my humble self are more than willing to pull their own weight around the house when needed. cooking, cleaning house, tending the kids is not a problem . . . where it becomes an issue is when madam thinks she can command you to do what she wants when she pleases all in the name of "50:50".

Submissiveness get levels oo. I mean you ain't gotta be a slave all in the name of being submissive!

chika98:

Submissiveness get levels oo. I mean you ain't gotta be a slave all in the name of being submissive!

that's right. but playing dumb sometimes, doesn't necessarily mean your stupid. you do what you need to do to get what you want. so if being submissive would get things done most times, then you play along. but as everything has got a limit. so should you also apply wisdom and try not to loose your individuality.

Well if he doesn’t give me what I want, I get a ‘headache’ every night and act like the two incidents are totally unrelated

you can not change people attitude when you can not change your own attitude, you must lean to put your attitude in a right track where other attitude can see and follow.

have you consider yourself as one who can really change the world if the power is in your hand?