i thank God that all the guys that i love always love me back. because i don't have the mouth to tell him that i love him.

Interesting!

How on eart do u expect a girl to go to a guy and tell him she like/love him.Then after that u will say the girl is cheap that she brought herself to u to use and dump she...........

becos she has her dignity to keep and she may not be able to stand to pay the pain if the guy says no.
To see a girl that ask a guy out it should be that the girl really loves him. So wat will she do wen he says no.

Hi Guys
my first time here & its nice to join in

For me, i think when a chic digs a brother she should let him know, he's not gonna think she's cheap

boyz are supposed 2 do da asking not gals
it's just not feminine 4 a gal 2 tell a guy 'i luv u'

Rhodalyn:

boyz are supposed 2 do da asking not gals
it's just not feminine 4 a girl 2 tell a guy 'i love u'

U speak the truth wise one

How can I possibly tell a guy that I like him? It's so awkward. I'll rather keep crushing.

Hey Nana

wots up,gee?

IAH:

How can I possibly tell a guy that I like him? It's so awkward. I'll rather keep crushing.

QUEENZY:

How on eart do u expect a girl to go to a guy and tell him she like/love him.Then after that u will say the girl is cheap that she brought herself to u to use and dump she...........

i agree with u ooooooo

Thanks for participating in this topic. We have examined a very wide range of ideas and opinions here, and I want to suggest the creation of new threads titled, "How to Ask a Man Out - For Women" or "How to Ask a Boy Out - For Girls"

see guys, every body have there diffrent character, it depend on persons involves, that is it.

Because if she does, the man thinks he is all that and some and treats her like trash _{yes there are some guys out there that still behave like 12th century creatures}

no big deal if a girl asks a guy out,

When a girl like me has been chased around by Men who call themselves real christians and want sex before marriage then I would be bold enough to tell the right man who is God fearing that I love him when I see him! If a man who is not God fearing can have the nack and boldness to come to me who is God fearing then I better take hold of my destiny by moving nearer the God fearing ones whose character I have studied. And if I have a strong feeling of love to a Godly man, my, my, I would fast and pray to get hold of him and reveal to him I Loooooooove him!
I always get what I want!

The kingdom of God suffereth violence and the violent take it by force! So go in prayer and take him by force on your knees! Then do the lovey dovey smiley face when you see him!

So the gist of it is when I see that right Man, he would not pass me by. I would not wait around for those bold unreasonable guys that just want to use girls anyhow!

we only need to change our mentality in dis country cos in the western world, things are seen differently.As 4 me the only girls that have actually told me they like me are the ugly ones(no offence).i'm yet to see a fine sweet girl walk up to me and toast me.Is it a crime 4 a girl to toast a guy?must we guy do the toasting every single time.

Taiw: we only need to change our mentality in dis country cos in the western world, things are seen differently.As 4 me the only girls that have actually told me they like me are the ugly ones(no offence).i'm yet to see a fine sweet girl walk up to me and toast me.Is it a crime 4 a girl to toast a guy?must we guy do the toasting every single time.

Not meant as an insult but if you were exceptionally handsome or rich, that might happen.

Pinky: num1.....most guys re so dumb that if u ask them out or give them an inclination that u've got the hots for them, they take a big advantage of u

num2..... the smart ones might develop cold feet (disappear)all of a sudden if u as a girl voice out ur feelings..... its only the sane ones that try to reason with u & u guys can see if a relationship can start or not.. but i I've come to discover that most guys wen they say No it is NO.. they dont wanna change their minds..because the girl saying " hi i think I've got the hot for u" will be offended with the rejection & wont bother to pressurize the boy..
all this makes it hard for girls to tell a guy they like him... no one likes to be rejected.. ..
so as a girl.. if u cant say it u let the feelings die in u..
but for me.. my advice is.. ""if u like him, he looks appealing to u.. go for him, if he acts funny or says 'No' ...get on with life.. there re other sweet dudes out there waiting to know u better""

Ȋ̝̊̅ disagree with U̶̲̥̅̊! Ȋ̝̊̅ personally like girls who are bold & do not hold back when it comes to the matters of the heart.......Ȋ̝̊̅ have never taken undue advantage of this kind of girls nor have Ȋ̝̊̅ embarrassed any of them. Even when Ȋ̝̊̅ won't date them, Ȋ̝̊̅ politely tell the girl how grateful Ȋ̝̊̅ am & my reason for not taking this offer....Ȋ̝̊̅ have high regards for these bold girls(e no easy to tell someone ur feelings towards him)..It's only a guy who lacks manners,conscience,maturity-& one who can't take responsibility for his failure in relationship as a man that will criticize a gurl for initiating a relationship with him or chasing him around against his will when things go wrong...People like me(shy type) out there might never toast or date a gurl until she gives us the green light(expresses her feelings towards us).....Lol

Well, I already told him that I liked HIM. And I am feeling stupid. Coz I have this fear of rejection.