one guy tell one girl he dream abt her and dat his going 2 marrie the girl just like oh! lol, i'am confused oh? oOO

I can hardly understand what you're getting at here.

Can't you be more specific?

@ Poster

If you're confused, den go to confuse dot com

Afi "marrie" na!

@ topic

No courtship??

Ehehehhe!

Sono cazzi!

yh sum ppl r actually lyk dat. they believe in getting married ommittin courtship 4 sum reason. like one of ma friends say ''god will show me my husband and errting will work out from there''. she sayz she doesn't want courting atall. they will get 2 know eachoda after marriage which i find really wierd tho. . .

Bad idea

tope2000:

Bad idea

innit?. . . dnt think its real. . .it wud feel so wierd man!

tope2000:

Bad idea

why?

tope2000:

Bad idea

who told u so? u don marry before?!

Opslag:

why?

How can you marry sumone u hardly know very well

Brash!:

who told u so? u don marry before?!

yes na
me n you
u don 4get already

Brash!:

who told u so? u don marry before?!

no be how she marry you be dat?

she come dey give me hard time now because of your sorry ass

of course people can marry without 'dating', but they do so with a whole bunch of unknowns that could turn into deal breakers later on.

Opslag:

why?

People date for years and still find unpleasant habit in their partners after saying I do. Imagine getting married to a total stranger. That means having to digest everything at once. If they don't go crazy after 1 month then maybe they'll make it to the third year of their marriage!

debosky:

no be how she marry you be that?

she come dey give me hard time now because of your sorry ass

LMFAO!

No be my fault debosky, my game is too tight bruv!

tope2000:

yes na
me n you
u don forget already

why i go forget, it was so good, i had to marry you twice in a day!

It is possible, however, not adviceable.

michelin89:

People date for years and still find unpleasant habit in their partners after saying I do. Imagine getting married to a total stranger. That means having to digest everything at once. If they don't go crazy after 1 month then maybe they'll make it to the third year of their marriage!

people date for 3yrs u said & find defaults in thier partners,wat do they do afta finding faults?break up right.now wt diff. Does it make?its not lyk aftr findin faults,corrections are made.dating 4 me is jst a waste of time.if u tink u love her c'mon save ur time & mary her.wat if she pretends thruout ur dating regime?

Opslag:

people date for 3yrs u said & find defaults in their partners,what do they do after finding faults?break up right.now wt diff. Does it make?its not like aftr findin faults,corrections are made.dating 4 me is jst a waste of time.if u think u love her c'mon save your time & mary her.what if she pretends thruout your dating regime?

The dating is to get to know one another and know if the person is right for you or not.

In my opinion, people who want to just run to the altar without courtship either have serious self esteem issues or have something serious to hide.

Why would you not want your future spouse to know what type of person you are before they are bound to you for life?
Marriage is about more than love. it's about compatibility, shared values, ambitions dreams etc.

Talking about "If God chooses him/ her for me "or If "I love him other then that is enough".

Arrant nonsense if you ask me.

If anybody tells me I will marry you because God showed me you in my dream i go slap the crase commot for hin bodi o!
Na yam!

Wat if she lays low for d time being and xplodes aftawrds?

Rotflmao! Headache!

Brash!:

why i go forget, it was so good, i had to marry you twice in a day!

But ,it not advisable

Opslag:

people date for 3yrs u said & find defaults in their partners,what do they do after finding faults?break up right.now wt diff. Does it make?its not like aftr findin faults,corrections are made.dating 4 me is jst a waste of time.if u think u love her c'mon save your time & mary her.what if she pretends thruout your dating regime?

You sabi read at all?

michelin89:

People date for years and still find unpleasant habit in their partners after saying I do. Imagine getting married to a total stranger. That means having to digest everything at once. If they don't go crazy after 1 month then maybe they'll make it to the third year of their marriage!

You know wetin digestion be?