A friend is terrified, shock and confused ever since she realise that she is pregnant for his course mate who deflower her. However, the mother is the only backbone of her education, the dad doesn't contribute in any way according to her. She seriously need advice from me but i strongly discourage abortion. She believe that the only alternative and easier way out is abortion since the guy in question totally reject her, the embarrassment and disappointment from mum and her family member, she is so confused and emotional that she doesn't know the right decision to take but i stand against abortion. Please, people i need construction advice to help this young girl not criticism, abuse and ridicule but a way forward. Thanks

this is a hard question,

u said u go against abotion, then the only left altanative is for her to bear the child.

for me noting more. that was why u dont have response.

How far gone is she,
If she's still about 2 month then she can get her Gynacocid(am not sure if that's the spelling) but pronounce it that way to the chemist and they would know what u're talking about,if she more than that then either abortion or give birth to the child.
It would be the girl decision at the end of the day.

sorry for her,two choices born or abort it

Eyah! Tell the guy to use condom next time.!

Its her choice to make.
If she wants to have the baby she should consider the responsibilities and financial obligations involved in raising a child.
If she chooses to have an abortion, she should go to a specialist not quack and I am sure there will be emotional trauma afterwards.
Its her choice and no one else can make it for her.

The only thing I can say to her is to be wiser next time and insist on condoms.
Its only pregnancy and it could have been HIV or other infections.
Girls should take time to know all the implications before jumping into sex.

Easy:
The guy who is responsible doesn't want to know.
The girl thinks abortion
You, her friend think otherwise.Then why not step in adopt the baby and play dad when its born.

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it must be difficult at dis time for her, but as everyone has said its either she keeps it or abort it. keepin it at year one in school dat will be torment especially if d guy is not supporting it or aborting it and live to experience almost forever d emotional trauma.
but my advice is, if she is strong willed let her keep it. God takes care of his own.