Is it by being direct like asking him/her what his/her feelings are for you.Please expose all the secrets. It would definitely help someone there know exactly what it is that women have on their minds?

There is no way to know, cso u cant read the mind of anyone, but u can only know your own self, it is all a risk.

I want you hollandis.




There! Does that work?

spikedcylinder:

I want you hollandis.




There! Does that work?

lol ,I'd have to read your body language Miss spiky

Mehhnnn, this is one of those crazy questions that are so difficult to answer. . .  Like asking me to tell a girl that i'm about to break her heart. . .  or asking me to admit that my wife is ugly. . .  How do u think this is gonna happen? Its just not fair, Period!

$$Rhino:

There is no way to know, cso u can't read the mind of anyone, but u can only know your own self, it is all a risk.

Agreed you can't read someone's mind but there must be a way, at least something visible to enable you ""see" what her heart has for you

The answer to "How Do You Know If The One You Want Wants You?" is: you dont need to know!

whitelexi:

The answer to "How Do You Know If The One You Want Wants You?" is: you don't need to know!

Lol! This made me laugh

whitelexi:

The answer to "How Do You Know If The One You Want Wants You?" is: you don't need to know!

hehe!

ok seriously now.
How do you know when someone wants you? Answer is, you really can never know unless the person says something about it. It also depends on what you mean by "want". Very relative term you know.

whitelexi:

Mehhnnn, this is one of those crazy questions that are so difficult to answer. . .  Like asking me to tell a girl that i'm about to break her heart. . .  or asking me to admit that my wife is ugly. . .  How do u think this is going to happen? Its just not fair, Period!

You suspect there may be unanswerable questions but I believe every question is answerable even if the answer might be wrong but there is adefinitely an answer

whitelexi:

The answer to "How Do You Know If The One You Want Wants You?" is: you don't need to know!

4 reasons i need to know
1.I would stop judging her moves as whether good or bad
2.I wont interprete her actions negatively
3.I would have a clear mind as to the future of the relationship and in that case erase any doubt
4.I would know whether she is there for real or just being "smart" or friendly

spikedcylinder:

ok seriously now.
How do you know when someone wants you? Answer is, you really can never know unless the person says something about it. It also depends on what you mean by "want". Very relative term you know.

In the world of girls, it is somewhat impossible.Girls are the masters of clues,signs and signals.

spikedcylinder:

It also depends on what you mean by "want". Very relative term you know.

Inside the heart of people is the longing ,need,desire to be loved ,trusted by someone they love

hollandis:

Inside the heart of people is the longing ,need,desire to be loved ,trusted by someone they love

98% true

Ruby_Pearl:

98% true

so would you be straight forward to the guy?

hollandis:

so would you be straight forward to the guy?

Not really. No.

Ruby_Pearl:

Not really. No.

I believe actions are stronger than words.it's just that some girls have this cinderalla complex and some guys are just playas.What actions, so  to to speak,suggests that the guy is into you and vice versa?

I guess we would never really know for sure

hollandis:

I believe actions are stronger than words.it's just that some girls have this cinderalla complex and some guys are just playas.What actions, so to to speak,suggests that the guy is into you and vice versa?

My answer

tope2000:

I guess we would never really know for sure

^{BtW, Hollandis, when did you become a love doctor?}

Believe me it's a double edged sword, for men it's easy to show that they want someone by way of their actions. Being nice,  romantic, the calls and the numerous sms. But for the ladies it's not as easy as that , they have to protect themselves cos' they usually see the men as the predators while looking upon themselves as the prey. But believe me inbetween those walls they have around themselves, there's always a loophole. Like some body languages when the both of you are together, or friends she confide in, or the tone of her voice when she's on the fone with you. It's hard work but you have to be clever to figure out a way of knowing if she's really down for you.

Ruby_Pearl:



^{BtW, Hollandis, when did you become a love doctor?}

there is nothing more challenging in life than finding and sustaining a loving, passionate relationship with someone and being reciprocated too

chidnosky:

Believe me it's a double edged sword, for men it's easy to show that they want someone by way of their actions. Being nice,  romantic, the calls and the numerous sms. But for the ladies it's not as easy as that , they have to protect themselves because' they usually see the men as the predators while looking upon themselves as the prey. But believe me inbetween those walls they have around themselves, there's always a loophole. Like some body languages when the both of you are together, or friends she confide in, or the tone of her voice when she's on the phone with you. It's hard work but you have to be clever to figure out a way of knowing if she's really down for you.

Thanks chidnosky I got 3 things here
body language
her friends
the tone of her voice


more please

tope2000:

I guess we would never really know for sure

Believe me "there is nothing as good as knowing"

@ poster
you will definately know! depends on you, if you are ready to accept the fact that the person doesnt want you, just let it go.
naturally we ladies know when a guy doesnt want us, i lie??

Just look into h/her eyes. The eyes they say, is the window to the soul.

ramonacee:

@ poster
you will definately know! depends on you, if you are ready to accept the fact that the person doesnt want you, just let it go.
naturally we ladies know when a guy doesnt want us, i lie??

Yes, you should know. . . . at least your intuition should tell you when something is not right.

Imagine this sitaution;

Girl: Hey how are you? Was kindda missing you thats why I called.
Boy: Missing me ke? So when I now go missing, what will you do?


This was an actual conversation o.
Intuition eh?