MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the fact that this woman has no respect for you is ONLY HALF of the problem, the other problem is that you allowed her to treat you this way and didnt say sh*it.

the first time she stepped out of line you should have brought her back to her senses by letting her know that you wouldnt accept such careless behaviors. if she didnt agree with it then you should have just said bye bye, step out of the vehicle  and move on with your life.

if she has no respect for you today, she will never have respect for you in the future, even if you become a gazillionaire. and if she suddenly have respect for you because you become rich, then the kind of respect you are getting is garbage!

MRbrownJAY:

@poster
the fact that this woman has no respect for you is ONLY HALF of the problem, the other problem is that you allowed her to treat you this way and didnt say sh*it.

the first time she stepped out of line you should have brought her back to her senses by letting her know that you wouldnt accept such careless behaviors. if she didnt agree with it then you should have just said bye bye, step out of the vehicle  and move on with your life.

if she has no respect for you today, she will never have respect for you in the future, even if you become a gazillionaire. and if she suddenly have respect for you because you become rich, then the kind of respect you are getting is garbage!

jamoeniola:

If it were a man in this seen, NL Ladies 4 don castigate the guy trust them

its not fair at all, and still they ask for equal right.

[size=20pt]if not 4 kids i will just get do with ashewo pay as u go pronto[/size]

Nonsense

kanayo74:

@ Poster,
there are some questions u have to answer,
i ) are you toyally dependent on her?
ii) if no to the question above to what extent do u depend on her?
iii) are u getting on her nerves?
iv) she says she fuels the car, do u at anytime fuel the car or u just use and dump for her to fuel.?
v) do u have a job or something you do that you get a reasonable income form?
vi) do u have a house of your own or she pays your rents for u.?
vii) do u see her as if the preferable is not available, available becomes preferable .?
viii) who is older between both of you?
ix) do u ever get anything from her or u just take from her always
x) when you answer these questions we now start from there.



what i noticed in your write up is that she is seeing u as a parasite that produces nothing but eats from her.

sincerely the earlier you stop receiving something from her the more respect u have.

waiting for your response
answer dis questns

ikuoma4rea:

Hey,l have a 2 bedroom flat fully furnished and also a job but its just that sometimes she helps with going to the market with her own money.Sometimes l also collect money from her to add to my plan B runs outside my monthly salary.If there is a pressing need she helps without thinking twice.Even owning her some money but should get a car anytime soon so am totally not dependent on her.

ikuoma4rea:

Hey,l have a 2 bedroom flat fully furnished and also a job but its just that sometimes she helps with going to the market with her own money.Sometimes l also collect money from her to add to my plan B runs outside my monthly salary.If there is a pressing need she helps without thinking twice.Even owning her some money but should get a car anytime soon so am totally not dependent on her.

Spyker:

QUIT NOW BEFORE YOU START WASHING PANTS because i am sure you have already washed her car several times. NA small small woman dey take make you her wrapper.

SA Goddess:

Would washing the woman's car be wrong?

harakiri:

The bolded part above indicates you've already sold yourself cheap.When i was a Christian, i remember a place in the book of proverbs where it's stated that :

"In a home where the wife is the bread winner, there will always be scorn and contempt for the husband". . .

That's for church folks but you do get the message don't you? At some point in my life, i was forced to lean on a woman for assistance and i know what it cost me. The financial assistance i got was nothing compared to the shame,disgrace and total lack of regard she had for me.If her "respect level" was 95% before, it reduced to 4.3%.NEVER TAKE MONEY OR ANY FORM OF ASSISTANCE FROM A WOMAN NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCE! ! ! Forget the sweet words of love,sharing together and all that crap.You will definitely suffer for it sooner or later.

I don talk finish!

DOAweb:

Fact! Fact! Fact! 

err . . . when you were a Christian? Pastor collect your money or what?