joichi somethings are better left unsaid via a medium like this.but just in case your may need my own little advise, is it gonn8220a be possible for you to call me up on 08020748220 or 07025290133 or better still we can chat via yahoo messenger.patrick4u2006@yahoo.com is my yahoo id

Hey dearie, hope dis isnt comin too late,

There's only one determining factor: does he have prospects? if his future is bright, stay on, if not, take a bow.

sfw?

Its really annoying that you do all that for your guy out of love,yet he does not appreciate.
Is nt is a crazy world? He now sees your kind gestures as his birthright.
Well if love is all you need to build a wonderful marriage life,stick with him;but if you
desire much more than love to build and sustain marital bliss,quickly take your leave.
No matter what advice you receive,only you can tell the quality of life you want in life.
Listen to your heart and do the needful.

aunty joichi,

where u bin dey?

How far?

Did you dump his sorry ass?

OpeLovely:

aunty joichi,

where u bin dey?

How far?

Did you dump his sorry ass?

na beans?

think with your and not with your honeypot.dump him for the sake of your children yet unborn.half a word they say is enough for the wise

I'm sure there's no rope tied to your neck.

Do what most ladies are known for. Hold him with one hand and keep searching with the other.

sharraaaaaaaaaaap, you shld learn to go thru everything with your man. and besides you have the good sex to look up to, some have nothing yet they still holding on strong.

Thank you all for concern for joichi, but read every response and make out the right and the ones that make sense. My advice is that communication matters in every relationship, talk to your guys what you don't want and pray that he changes

sorry girl, but u gotta do the Ussain Bolt thing, On ur marks, get set, BOLT!!!!, i SHOULD feel sorry for you but instead i'm feeling sorry for the girl who keeps calling u his wife and tells u that u should spend towards him. My questions are:

1. Can't he go look for a job?

2. Why do u STILL stick with him anyways?

Get on with yer life gir, it could be hard,but its a longshot, or u wanna keep babysitting a handicap(what i should call him for the rest of your life), I don't mind having u though, na i'mean?

kelvin

@Joichi

At least there is something he is good at which is not easy to come by that is what you are still holding tight abi.

THE BOY DEY Bleep HER WELL OOOO,THAT IS THE REASON HE KEEPS ASKING BECAUSE HE NEEDS TO BE PAID FOR HIS WELL RENDERED SERVICES.PERIOD

The poster of this Article does not possess any marriage material whatsoever, when your in love with someone does not mean only him will be taking care of your financial needs,when things are tough for him ladies should learn to assist guys,afteral is the ladies that men work for to please and satisfy,When things fall back into place he will continue doing as before, I wonder why the poster did not come here and post this rubbish when her man was doing everything for her? Just now little assistance she can't bear it,and is already crying. WOMEN SOMETIMES I DON'T UNDERSTAND THEM, to live with them is hellish but also you should can't live without them

God rewards a cheerful giver!!

too bad for a him, most men are indeed very funny,

any way i'll be pleased to introduce this wonderful forum i found today to us www.smartideasonlineclub.ning.com the club is a financial base club

If you don't want him to relie on you for just a little assistance,WHY DO YOU RELIE ON HIM FOR SEX You are a very ungrateful lady

@poster: Come to me I will assist you,see my email address and get to me right away,honestly I will assist you

hi galfriend,
are you suppose to carter for your man or is he suppose to do
are you in relationship b/c of sex or companionship

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a stich in time saves nine, be careful!

so Ladies are becoming ATMs--wonderfull!!!

ujujoan,abeg u too talk,she said advice not fight 4 her.

He relies on u for financial needs?? So what??
Hang in there and hope his situation gets better.
What if he gets a good job tomorrow and things take shape

THERE ARE MANY FISHES IN THE RIVER, A GUY WHO DOES NOTHING TO PROVE HE HAS A BETTER FUTURE IS NOT WORT IT.
NO MAN DESARVE TO MAKE U HAVE A STRESSFUL LIVING, SIT HIM DOWN AND LET HIM KNOW UR MIND, CAN'T HE GO LOOKING FOR JOB?? (((FORGET ABOUT HOW GOOD HE DOES SATISFY U IN BED, AS HE MAY BE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THIS))))) THERE ARE MILLIONS OUT THERE WHO CAN DO BETTER THAN HIM. MAKE GOOD USE OF UR SWEAT DONT SAY I DIDN'T ADVICE MEN CO THAT GUY IS A BIG TIME RELIABILITY TO U.

foolish and lazy boyfriend @topic

so joichi what do u say in all this
ut thread has gone up to 15 pages

answer,

@poster

come to think of it properly sef,she said she has been dating him for only God knows when,but if really the boy is pest as she puts it,and she thinks she is beautiful which i doubt,she would have at least gotten another boy or toaster,that means the guy either knows she is ugly or he knows no man would take the courage he took to approah her basically because of her looks.

IS THREAD NO GO FINISH?
ABI UNA NO WAN REST. E BE LIKE SAY NA CONTRACT SHE GIVE UNA.
SHE WEY POST AM NO DEY READ OR CONTRIBUTE AGAIN,
WETIN COME BE UNA OWN

MAKE ANY BODY NOR POST AGAIN AFTER DIS MY OWN.
D THREAD GOT TO STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


NEXT TOPIC,

continue or you back out!
dont tell stories woman.

What did u think?

@ tolulopsy
just leave this guy and move on with life
i've had the same experience in the past, that i just av to close my eyes and dump him, his own case is even worse, i'll spend all my money on him yet he's not appreciative.

well, your advise is good. but the truth about people who makes assertions like yours is that they have not really done anything for the guy they claim they did so much for. is it easy to dump a guy? fact is the guy dumped you, your statement is just a face saving grace. you might have thought he would marry you only for him to ditch you at the time it hurts most.
i'm sure the guy might have spent so much on you and you so little or nothing on him. well, get urself another guy if you are beautiful enough to do that. you will "dump" them again when they realise the type of person you are.

Well, it is good to help one's b/f, but it's also a fact dat helpin your bf can be so damaging to your social, mental, physical and spiritual beings.Luv is about give and take, hence, from the info provided, your b/f seems to be very selfish and lack love for you. You re not interested in  the relationship anymore simply coz, you r unbecomin of him due to his selfish act. You can always spend your money in those tins  that will improve your life, tak care  of your family and at  the right time, the right man will come knockin at the door of your heart askin you to marry him. Your b/f will never change and you should plan to improve yourself socially,mentally, physically and spiritually and  at  the  appointed time, your  man will show up. The only person that can really help anyone is God, the Creator of the  Creatures.

Marriageable relationship is beyond sex and your parameter of being sexually attached to him is really an error and only 2% of REAL relationship is based on sex and romance. Take care and smile cuz, your days are coming.

Mugabe, l will like to know more about you and l guess  that  you are  into  Relationship consultancy, but you need  o know that Joichi can read and  she will surely call you when she needed you too, Sincerely speaking, l'm not gettin on your nerve but l need  to draw  your  attention to the effect  of  askin her to either call or email you. From your two posts your contact is there, Do you think that Joichi will not jump out of  her skin again , ? 

Always my mugabe