mamaput:

Men stray because they take anything they can get.
At that point they do not use their brain. You put food for them and they eat there and then.

Women stray too but they plan it very well. That means they can wait a week or two to do it.
because they do not want to leave any trace behind them.
They smell their food before they eat it and find out more about it.That takes time.
But men just eat.
A woman will even go as far as taking a shower and inspecting her cloths and her odor.
Women are natural born detectives .And thats just it.

You couldnt have said it better!

But if a man is completely satisfied with his partner, a responsible man, do u think he'll still go ahead and do it especially when he knows exactly what is at stake? Thats where my worry stems from.

He will not look for it(woman) But sometimes it just comes your way.
You may say no to one woman or no the first time.
But how many times can a man say no when it comes his way.
Any way not every man is a "James Bond"
And not everyman has to fight Temtation every day.

@ WHITELEXI! No whitelexi, I have never went through anything at all like this. I am also not taking it personal at all. What i am stating is what is in the BIBLE. God says you marry to death do part. He did not say cheat because you get bored or your wife did not fix your favorite meal. So i would appreciate you not turning my words around. I would also like to say this discussion was not about when who cheat it is about men, You said so yourself that men leave because of various women or cheat. But if women cheat what i stated regarding the bible also applies. Have a wonderful day Love!

yes we are made to stray into a right path and this time with much focus and destination not like girls

mo money:

yes we are made to stray into a right path and this time with much focus and destination not like girls

not like gals in wat sense

all that we are being accused of

Yes, and so are woman. But society has succeeded in strangling a woman's natural instinct.
Men on the other hnd are having the time of their lives.

That is not to say that 95% of women don't cheat on their partners, its just, they are a bit more clever about it.

i give it to you

yes i think there is a gen thats controls that fact.a male pal of mine once told me that a guy will give you 75% of his love the other 25% goes out one way or the other.for stuffs like 1 night stands,hot girl chasing him aka pussy attack etc, this really changed my way of thinking so my solution to this whole thing is that i am cool with the 75% any decrease to 60% - 70% still hanging there.but try keeping him in check.less than that am off, this way i always know when 2 push off, and protect my heart, dont critise pls this system works 4 me, so i use it.

LetterGirl:

@ WHITELEXI! No whitelexi, I have never went through anything at all like this. I am also not taking it personal at all. What i am stating is what is in the BIBLE. God says you marry to death do part. He did not say cheat because you get bored or your wife did not fix your favorite meal. So i would appreciate you not turning my words around. I would also like to say this discussion was not about when who cheat it is about men, You said so yourself that men leave because of various women or cheat. But if women cheat what i stated regarding the bible also applies. Have a wonderful day Love!

Anything can happen, and nobody holy pass, men cheat, women also cheat, it didnt start today, it wont end tomorrow, but i still stand by the fact that when God created eve from adam's rib, he probably meant that eve should be adam's helper and not his boss!
In the world today, there are many signs of the end time, one of them is women.

i guess its just natural greed plus the fact that they know they can get away with it, even r permitted to. even when they have a tite chick who's waitin on their every need. it just takes the Holy spirit for a man to be faithful

guys are just jerks!

Busta:

guys are just jerks!

Best thing I've heard all day. Wow!!!

Most men lack self control and blame it on biological grounds and on society,
thats nuisance, even those who say when a man cheats"something is lacking at home"
if something lacks as they say why not communicate with your spouse, straying
isnt solving a problem but rather piles the problems,
there is nothing like"naturally" made to stray, what rubbish?most men stray cause they lack self control

its amazing to see the rate at which fingers are pointing to the men as culprits of infidelity as if it originated from them, men stray and women also stray whether u are good at hiding it or not straying is straying, everybody has being tempted to stray at one time or the other especially when things are not moving as u would desire, i am also prone to stray, but the truth is the grass is never greener at the other side, every situation in life comes with its up and down, that is why self control is important, weathering every storm is vital and making ur relationship work should be everyones goal. but whether men are naturally made to stray is a lie from the pit of hell.

Women Stray More than men.


Men are outnumbered in the world, 7 women to 1 man,

It is impossible for every man to remain faithful, because if that was to happen, the number of lesbians in the world would increase,

Variety is the Spice of life,

@ Whitelexi,i really don't support your first post

I am not saying women don't cheat or something but i still can't see the sense in cheating because your wife doesn't satisfy you or something,it do happens,some women do chase their husband out but the point is lot of men are never contended with what they have and they end up pokenosing and searching for whats not lost,

Look people, stop blaming the MAN or WOMAN. It is a personal choice for each. After all if a man cheats is it not with a woman? And vice versa? This topic makes it appear as if only men stray or they should be excused for doing so. Nature actuallly made both man and woman the same in terms of sexual desires- like animals. BUT unlike animals we have the freewill to control ourselves. If one chooses not to then it is the individuals choice.

I asked a dude, and he was being VERY honest with me when he said it's in their nature, it's the way they are programmed, esp with the whole "be fruitful and multiply" ish.

Whenever they get the opportunity they will cheat, unless they have the fear of God in them, have respect for their relationship, and self control. Unlike most chicks, the person the dudes are banging doesn't have to be pretty, or even clean lol. They can always fantasise they're banging Alicia Keys and they will cum haha. So sometimes, I don't blame them. They are effed up like that.

Don't get me wrong though, as some will go out of their way to cheat and will go as far as inviting the situation. Anything to go and make mouth to the boys, and add to the number of conquests.

Don't 4get that God is watching u sha.

yes of course the are. Listen the world over is dominated in population by women. I believe polygamy is the real way to go as a species. This one for one thing is a western idea to track people in the "name of Jesus" (please). This is why for example, in America you can get arrested for polygamy (*cough* for tax reasons *cough*) and yet the same ppl who are eager to condemn are the ones are having affairs as if they are s,ex happy! Look @ the blasted animals! We have learned everything else frm them why not have multiple wives? Oh wait! I forgot jealousy, well ladies wouldnt you rather KNOW the women he is phocking than total stangers? thats what i thought!  I for one am a jealous woman but i know something named common sense. Men have something called a *bleep* sack, they are walking spermatozoa donations, if you accidently brush up against it they quiver at the knees and you expect them to keep it monogamous? YEAH RIGHT! Dogs do what they do best which is bark, so let a dog be a dog! Dont expect that dog to be quiet just because you put a leash around his neck o! 

Chei! We don suffer

So u r sayin men ar dogs

^ no i am not. i am just saying just as it is a dog's nature to bark, so is it a man's to cheat. ring or no ring.