mujiboy: Does the wife knows you know about her cheating? If she does be extra careful, you might just be set-up.. However is your friend and his wife both happy.. As in i mean not like they Quarrel or fight eachother, If they are happy.. You should chill down with your info.. You re in a dangerous Zone anyway..

tall2ce: No you should not tell.Just mind your business

alutacontinua: Minda ya business

Marilyn_Nash: And you call yourself a friend, i'm sure you can sleep easy when your friend contracts HIV from a cheating partner, something you could have prevented.
Fake friends everywhere.

sharubutu:

What is beautiful about a home where the wife cheats? You're a bad Person. No wonder there's so much evil in the land; Boko Haram, armed robbery, kidnapping, rituals, corruption, etc. "Evil only prevail when good men chose to be quiet"

uboma: I recently found out that the wife of my close pal is cheating on him. I do not want to meddle in their affairs but i have this sense of guilt not having told him what i discovered about his wife. If we weren't close, i wouldn't be bothered at all. I am also worried about the negative consequences it will have on their marriage if he gets wind of it.
If i keep mute, what chances are there that she will stop cheating on her husband?

And who knows, he may eventually find out himself in the long run...

What do you suggest please? I will appreciate responses from matured members here.

Epaul: @OP (uboma), if you have a concrete evidence to adducet as against mere suspicion, tell your friend and damn the consequence (you could save him from further greater harm). Just like i'm about telling this my friend this:
whenever 'does' is used in a sentence the verb that follows should be a singular verb. It should be "does the wife know you...?"

Truckpusher: Tell him straight and wait for the consequences.

I did it once and ended that ugly union ,the lady swore to watch me beg for my life and I swore to see her age and die in shame ,in fact I cursed her and right now she is on wheel chair.

A cheat is a killer ,only waiting for the perfect opportunity to present itself then your friend is gone forever.

Ishilove: Its a very small thing. Simply by a new sim card, register it and send anonymous text msgs giving the husband details of his wife's cheating. Drop names, locations, numbers where possible. (A family member of mine used this medium to expose a cheating partner.) Give your friend very detailed information of his wife's indiscretions and leave the rest. Tell him in the message that you are destroying the sim card, but if he has a brain, he should better investigate the matter properly. End it with 'a concerned friend'

1st ola: Anyone I can call a friend must be someone I really like and i see like a brother. If I don't tell him such thing, I feel that I'm also cheating on him.

sharubutu:

What is beautiful about a home where the husband or wife cheats? You're a bad Person. No wonder there's so much evil in the land; Boko Haram, armed robbery, kidnapping, rituals, corruption, etc. "Evil only prevail when good men chose to be quiet"

tuffgongjo: .and what will be his gain when the friend's family is scattered$people will tag him a home destroyer,sometimes u just don't poke nose in others affairs.

woodcook: Most of the advice : MYOB so much for Christianity/Islam. I thought must of you are true Christian/Allah worshiper?

@Op what would Christ do?

njokusboy: . Hahahaha, stand up girl, iwu alobam....

rahazaqa: U don dey Open Secret,no be today.

Pedro JP:

I no trust u at all. Blike u no want make person see u for ur own like business.

slap1: A home where the wife cheats is unofficially destroyed. The husband should be informed. If they break up to make up, good. If not, good riddance.