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Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Elythron16zero4: 12:53pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
claireshan: story ,,that's only when you are a lazy azzhardworking babe, hope say ubi find babe because many find babe no de fit work for house. my friend say na ugly babes they fit work well because wetin remain to make am find nahim bi the hellele work them they do for house .i no talk say him they correct ooo! but na your kind woman i de find to marry eh but i no see. wey bi say i go cross my leg they read papers/ watch movies/read books and she go they work like jaki de go. abegi if you never marry u fit PM ME OJARE but the whala bi say whetha this things wey u talk u go fit to do am trutru. some of una go talk like angelii olorun but when una come enter house una go become lion i dey talk 4m experience |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Godmystrength: 1:01pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
walearoy:marry her? i don dey pity you already o. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by walad4yhu(m): 1:07pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
oskaaay: Thanks Boss...Very greatful... |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Amhappy(f): 1:08pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Na before before i dey worry if hubby no help me do chores. Now i jeje do the ones i fit do and leave the rest. Work no dey finish. 2 Likes |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by okotv(m): 1:15pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
dimples2: I will marry a man like my father! I remember my mum and him shared d housechores...fact... i grew up in a home of 5 boys and a LADY and so am used to house chores...i even became better at it when i was addmitted to a military secondary school...chores are very easy for me to do and would gladly help but when she is tired....no work no matter how important it is and same goes for me...slaving a wife is very inconsidrate and as for watching tv..well i was brought up in a no tv house and would not be a slave to it...never 4 Likes |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Blockus: 2:36pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
No Woman who is married to a Man who comfortably provides for both the needs and wants of his family would ask him to help out with the house chores. Its the increase in half-men that has led women to also share their responsibility in the house with their husbands. Them never born that woman wey go tell me to do house chores. #HerFather! |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by kibo: 3:28pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Too sad then. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Godmystrength: 4:15pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Blockus: No Woman who is married to a Man who comfortably provides for both the needs and wants of his family would ask him to help out with the house chores.why that? that's not nice. her father is also your father o. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by dopedealer(m): 6:49pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Ngokafor: U need some fresh fruits |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by meyri: 7:02pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
I simply ask him to help, if he doesn't I just take my sweet time and complete at times carrying over for the next day. At times he finds that it taking me too long he'll do it himself or help me do it.. I try to minimize my chores by cleaning and washing as I cook, so when I'm done cooking I have no dirty pots or utensils. We eat from the same dishes so there's few to wash.It just us two and we both work, so chores I'd the least of our concern. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Blockus: 7:05pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Ngokafor: @dopedealer, In the words of Phyno fyno, o'bago.. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Sophyrocks:Have u seen any lady that married because the man said or showed he has household qualities? No be money first? No dey follow their yearn here....backbreaking job ko ....early grave ni. Na men good to die. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Nobody: 8:39pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
egopersonified:U never paid a rent...did u contribute to build where u call home now? U dey pay rent? |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Happywoman(f): 9:16pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
It's our house right? If it becomes unbearable dirty the shame will be on us . So I do the lil I can and he too does the lil he can . Once again, it's our house ! And we will manage it anyhow it is. If I/he work (s) myself/himself to exhaustion and starts derelicting other CORE duties nko? Abeg just do ur best and leave the rest. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jul 11, 2014 |
Number one I do not believe in "house helps". "House helps" in other words skivvies or slaves do not come from Mars they are somebody else's children and cannot be justified unless you are some kind of VIP with an extraordinary lifestyle. Otherwise everyone from the age of 5 or 6 years should be involved. It is important for children to see their fathers do housework and infact to learn from them; that is one of the best way to learn about your kids' attitudes,strengths and weakness and for adults who drive everywhere a good way to keep fit and avoid diseases,trust me! Having said all of this it remains the wife's responsibility and so she s responsible for convincing her husband of all of the above sweeping a house of 4 rooms and some ironing every weekend as well as washing 2 cars every weekend will do wonders for your health and stress levels. We tend to sit down too much once we start to "make it " and that is why too many die "young". Nothing like a bout of housework on Saturday to get you in the mood for some Jagolova with a very enthusiastic wife afterwards. Above all your home is your shrine and as the chief priest you must clean it regularly PERSONALLY. Unfortunately many d not grasp this very basic fact |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Bigsteveg(m): 12:37am On Jul 12, 2014 |
GlorifiedTunde: *Please Don't Quote If You Can't Understand * I was feeling u until u mentioned doing the dishes...nonononononononono NO |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Bigsteveg(m): 12:40am On Jul 12, 2014 |
Blockus: U know i almost agree with him until he started mentiong doing the dishes, wife undies.....either he's joking or he's being eyeing a girl. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Bigsteveg(m): 12:40am On Jul 12, 2014 |
dimples2: I will marry a man like my father! I remember my mum and him shared d housechores So wot happens when d man is not like ur father...u keep divorcing? |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by kilokeys(m): 10:10am On Jul 12, 2014 |
simple logic. he foots all the bills... u do it he splits bills with u ... both y'all do it common sense while men see washing cooking and cleaning as demeaning.. he could help with other things DIY stuff Like fix broken things, keep the kids busy , monitor homework, or wash d cars. whatever he does... give him food when he is hungry. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by egopersonified(f): 10:14am On Jul 12, 2014 |
If only we could switch roles for a day, these marriage issues would all die natural deaths. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by amivel(f): 10:15am On Jul 12, 2014 |
HmMm thank God for this thread is not easy to do house chores alone especially if your kids are still young except you are the dirty type that don't care how your home look like is too much Cos like ne I wash bathrooms and toilet twice a week the kitchen us there to take care at the end of the day no time for yourself God will help us women are really trying. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by mcstan18(m): 11:24am On Jul 12, 2014 |
coachwilcox: I subscribe to men doing chores at home. Its the TYPE of chores I am very much choosy. What? You're my personality of the year for this contribution. I never wished to comment but your submission broke down my resolve. A very plausible opinion from EVERY point of view (male or female chauvinist, religious, etc). Kudos again brother. 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by oskaaay(m): 11:30am On Jul 12, 2014 |
oskaaay: It’s Saturday and despite a BUSY week, you’re up early again. You drag yourself out of bed and start facing chores. You make breakfast, your darling husband eats, leaves his dishes on the table and moves to the Living room to enjoy T.V (despite the fact that the living room needs some cleaning up). Your kids are very young and can’t help much with chores. You’re exhausted and tensed, yet all the clutter stares you in the face. But what riles you the most? Of course! It’s the sight of your sweetheart concentrated on the TV, totally unconcerned about your running here and there! In case you missed out the story line that begot the over 182 comments. That is it in quote above....so, what your view? While you dey calm with the comment. Check out doctors/nurses jobs opportunity abroad at http://careerpingger.revlisimo.org/jobs-for-nigerian-doctors-and-nurses-in-saudi-and-qatar/ and inform friends...... |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Nobody: 12:22pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
egopersonified: If only we could switch roles for a day, these marriage issues would all die natural deaths.OK...start. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jul 12, 2014 |
Bigsteveg: Where there is a "will" there is a way By Gods grace I will |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Kanwulia: 9:19am On Jul 14, 2014 |
walearoy: Yes. Please, how shall we proceed? Just give me the venue and I will show up! 1 Like |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by walearoy(m): 10:56am On Jul 14, 2014 |
Kanwulia: Yipee *dancing skelewu* I'll see my pastor ASAP and get back to you! *still dancing skelewu* |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by thelish(f): 3:15pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Kanwulia: I dey miss ur post on nairaland oo. where have u been? |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Vikelo1212: 9:29am On Aug 02, 2016 |
oskaaay:. I agree with you. You practically made sense in ur comment. As if you've been there. It's not easy especially when the woman works too or not an ordinary house wife! Don't mind some" nobody's "comments, seems they are young boys that have no experience and just want to comment to pass time. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Vikelo1212: 9:36am On Aug 02, 2016 |
Kanwulia:. Your comment shows your status. Besides, you are either not a woman or just an inexperienced young lad who does not appreciate the potential s of women. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Vikelo1212: 9:55am On Aug 02, 2016 |
. Mr Nobody, if you are not married, you shouldn't comment on this type of topic. Because following ur comments, they sound hating and irrelevant. Or do you think everyone here is joking? I guess someone brought up this topic for people to help advice, so if u do not have something good to put in, try and refrain... This forum is educative and I gain from the info I get here. Pls don't discourage some. |
Re: What To Do When Your Husband Won’t Help With House Chores by Ugosample(m): 10:34pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
I will marry a man like my father! I remember my mum and him shared d housechores And this last point of yours is a very valid point. 1 Like |
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