How can I handle this:: My guy keeps many female friends, , some he will say his relatives and casual friends. the painful part of it is that each time i wnat to visit him he will tell me not to visit and he will give one excuse.
To my greatest suprise last night, I was force to call a number from his phone and I asked the girl some questions and i was shook from the responds.
Please help me out ladies coz am tired of men that are not contented, full of lies.
I thought of quiting but I love him so much and I also jealous.
what should i do please

Quit while ur sanity is still intact. U don't need Joey Greco 2 tell u, ur dude is doing d cheating thingy do u? He gives u reasons y u can't visit. . . U think dats normal? Are his reasons tenable? Don't even bother replying, I know he's prolly lying! Dump his undeserving ar$$ n look 4 som1 more appreciative. . .








PS: Ma fifty cent!

thanks @okanran
No good reason than his uncle will be visiting, i mean no good reason

ammamat:

I was force to call a number from his phone and I asked the girl some questions and i was shook from the responds.

wat is it you hear. tell the room.

uve not told us anything only assumptions
can u be more specific, ?

what is it you hear. tell the room.

I ask if she knows this person ( that is my guy) she said yes, and she aske if his back from travelling, she has been to his place for several times, that she's the fiance if am his sister or any of the relatives. I should tell him that they should see today.

It actually depends on u if u convinced that he is cheating then girl it is better you quit the relationship and move on,rather than stay and get seriously hurt later.

Thanks @ shegirl71

Thanks @ shegirl71

Isn't this the same guy you were doing puzzle for in this thread https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-180171.0.html

If yes,  

@ Busy body
Please don't crucify me, But i have no choice, I love him so much

I am not crucifying you, not at all. When I was still in the dating game, I used to do the same thing and call the girl up, pretending to be the cousin, and that tell her that I have heard a lot about her, and this usually does the job. Before you know it, the girl would have told you everything you need to know to figure out your position in the relationship.

Busy_body:

I am not crucifying you, not at all. When I was still in the dating game, I used to do the same thing and call the girl up, pretending to be the cousin, and that tell her that I have heard a lot about her, and this usually does the job. Before you know it, the girl would have told you everything you need to know to figure out your position in the relationship.

_{why do we like snooping wen we know it will hurt? just curious}

@ post, I think u should know what next. It is very plain except if you are not telling us the whole truth

Tgirl4real:

_{why do we like snooping when we know it will hurt? just curious}

The earlier we know, the better So that we can look for bigger fishes in the sea

God help me, coz iI feel like not having anything to do with anyman again,

If i stay singles hope i will still make heaven.

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What other answer do you expect other than dump him? Start playing hard to get. Don't call him. Ignore him and see what happens.

Thanks @Rickky421, I think that is what i will do, I will returnd his charger and won't call, text.

jeff_mark:

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Badsoski, I dey feel u jhor. But let her be na, u know she's fresh out of d heartbreak hotel n u wan' add ya own join.

ammamat:

God help me, because iI feel like not having anything to do with anyman again,

If i stay singles hope i will still make heaven.

It is not compulsory to marry and if na to make heaven, e go better if u no marry at all,

@ OP: U's naive no doubt. U better sharp up if not guyz go use u play tire, werrin concern marriage n paradise, FYI, u go see father and reverend mother 4 hell fire on judgement day, na me tell u so! As 4 moi ama be sipping ma lemonade beside Baba God on dat day jeje. . .

I tire o

Okanran, true talk

you can cheat everyone, but not your conscience . Follow UR heart. Dont hide anything from those you believe can offer better advice

um .girlz tak.