I hv been living in an easthern state for 3 years now, But I have decided to go back to the west where am from But the problem is there is a girl am dating she loves me so much, as hard as it is for me I jst hv to leave her and move on wit my life, I don't know Wat is out there for me. Am a realist I don't live on promises and hopes. Pls how I do I tell her without hurting her badly

Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part.
You're asking us how do you tell her you're breaking up with her, without hurting her badly?....Why don't ask yourself the Same damn question?.

How would you feel if you gf tells you she's breaking up with you, because she's moving away to a different state?.

Haven't you ever thought about the fact that she might love you so much that she wouldn't mind going along with you?...After three years...Do you think its that easy to end a relationship like that?.

[quote author=Victoriousvic][color=#000099]Why do you want to break up with her if she truly loves you? its not my intention but i dont know wat is waiting for me out there

glitest: Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part.
You're asking us how do you tell her you're breaking up with her, without hurting her badly?....Why don't ask yourself the Same damn question?.

How would you feel if you gf tells you she's breaking up with you, because she's moving away to a different state?.

Haven't you ever thought about the fact that she might love you so much that she wouldn't mind going along with you?...After three years...Do you think its that easy to end a relationship like that?.

. Its the most difficult tin I hv ever have to do

glitest: Op, ..You should know that is a very selfish act on your part.
You're asking us how do you tell her you're breaking up with her, without hurting her badly?....Why don't ask yourself the Same damn question?.

How would you feel if you gf tells you she's breaking up with you, because she's moving away to a different state?.

Haven't you ever thought about the fact that she might love you so much that she wouldn't mind going along with you?...After three years...Do you think its that easy to end a relationship like that?.

I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this.............@Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make.

I hate it when a partner takes a unilateral decision. Mscheew

Dude,this a really tough question cos theres no better way to break up with someone that loves u but i truely understand u cos sometimes in life love aint enough....you have ur dreams and goals and maybe its ur love for her thats hindering u from acheiving it but my advice is dont break up with her yet.try to make her understand and see reasons why u have to relocate alone and also why u need to get ur shit together but u will always keep in touch and invite her over once in a while,wait until she starts losing hope and doubting ur relationship before u end things it may take alot of time but u have to be really patient and gentle with her......one more thing,ignore all those that say ur selfish,some of them are too afraid to take life changing decisions concerning their own lifes,can love pay the bills?

fijiano202: Dude,this a really tough question cos theres no better way to break up with someone that loves u but i truely understand u cos sometimes in life love aint enough....you have ur dreams and goals and maybe its ur love for her thats hindering u from acheiving it but my advice is dont break up with her yet.try to make her understand and see reasons why u have to relocate alone and also why u need to get ur shit together but u will always keep in touch and invite her over once in a while,wait until she starts losing hope and doubting ur relationship before u end things it may take alot of time but u have to be really patient and gentle with her

thanks for your understand, u hv an idea abt hw I feel

Tallesty1: I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this.............@Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make.

Bros, this ain't no preaching....I lost a friendship( female) due to a similar issue...So my preaching isn't only towards the guys.

eskober: . Its the most difficult tin I hv ever have to do

If this was the most difficult thing you've ever had to do as you claim, you wouldn't be online asking people on how to tell her you're moving on without her.....So your comment isn't given you any pass.


You didn't come online to get everyone's advice, you are online to get advice from those who are in support with your already planned decision; You want to get their advice and approval, so as to reduce the level of guilt you already have for doing so; Thus you wouldn't have such decision hunt you, when you move on.

You might not be an horrible guy, but you are sure 100% a selfish one.

Tallesty1: I wish girls reason this way before braking-up with a guy, but unfortunately they don't. It is only when a guy wants to dump a gf that we hear preaching like this.............

guy u deserve a Gold medal for that thesis u just put up there

@Op, you started everything so you should know how to end it if you wish to. I would say distance may not affect the r/shp if the bond is a strong one but the decision is yours to make.

i don't think the Op is into the girl that much because he should have weight all options before coming online to make his intentions know........
Because distance relationship isn't as bad as some people put it since there was a foundation of years before u decide to move.........

So OP na you shit........ nah u go pack am

glitest:


If this was the most difficult thing you've ever had to do as you claim, you wouldn't be online asking people on how to tell her you're moving on without her.....So your comment isn't given you any pass.


You didn't come online to get everyone's advice, you are online to get advice from those who are in support with your already planned decision; You want to get their advice and approval, so as to reduce the level of guilt you already have for doing so; Thus you wouldn't have such decision hunt you, when you move on.

You might not be an horrible guy, but you are sure 100% a selfish one.

take it easy wit me now, let me ask u hv u ever had to take a life changing decision befor. If u want to talk me out of it I will appreciate jst open my eyes to think u think am missin thanks in advance

Op...Talk you out of it?..
This is a decision you have to make for yourself...Good luck with whatever decision and step that you take concerning your relationship and life.

D way u tell her to remove her pants

eskober: I hv been living in an easthern state for 3 years now, But I have decided to go back to the west where am from But the problem is there is a girl am dating she loves me so much, as hard as it is for me I jst hv to leave her and move on wit my life, I don't know Wat is out there for me. Am a realist I don't live on promises and hopes. Pls how I do I tell her without hurting her badly

lmao tell her your mom went to an herbalist n he saw the future that the both of you ain't compatible ..........lmao

glitest: Op...Talk you out of it?..
This is a decision you have to make for yourself...Good luck with whatever decision and step that you take concerning your relationship and life.

*smiles*

Kentnickole:
*smiles*

Thanks

glitest:


Thanks

Wat can I do to win u over again?

Kentnickole:
Wat can I do to win u over again?

Win me over as in?.

glitest:




Win me over as in?.

Can we talk in prvt?

Kentnickole:
Can we talk in prvt?

I hope there isn't any problem?.

glitest:


I hope there isn't any problem?.

It seems there is...

glitest:


I hope there isn't any problem?.

There is...

Kentnickole:
There is...

I hope I didn't offend you?....I do apologize if I did...So I hope there isn't anything else?.

glitest:


I hope I didn't offend you?....I do apologize if I did...So I hope there isn't anything else?.

I already sent u a mail nd u owe me sm tn...

You keep saying you don't know what's out there for you, biko let me ask o, did you keep any unpleasant thing out there?Boko haram or Ebola dey wait you ni? You just tired of the babe and it would be easier to just tell her that, either ways, since she loves you, she'd hurt badly.

I hate seen all dis topic,if u want 2 breakup while not go ahead,y askin 4 help,oh u want us 2 encorage u 2 break up wit a girl dat luv u wholeheartedly