We haven't met before, just fb & calls he proposed to me online& said he wants to marry me.. He's actually working on my visa so i could come over to u.s. but the point is he always want me to do tins in his own way.

mizcalvina: We haven't met before, just fb & calls he proposed to me online& said he wants to marry me.. He's actually working on my visa so i could come over to u.s. but the point is he always want me to do tins in his own way.

Dats d main reason you shd be careful. If u were my sister, dis is wot I'd say to you "Stay away from dat guy!" He's trying to own u. And if he works your visa and u go and meet him over there, den u hav totally sold urself to him.

If he's really reasonable, ask him to come to naija to visit u dis xmas or next easter or even next xmas. He mite want to use boko haram as excuse. Der is no boko haram in d south na. And if he still declines, nna babe na to run oh!

Bottom line is u shdn't be in a relationship with a domineering freak like dat. I can guaranty u dat within a year or two he will start beating you up. I suspect he's trying to take advantage of naivety and d craze our people hav for americans to buy you over so dat u can become his eternal slave when u get to america. Y in no go try am for oda maerican babes? In day find babe way in go own. He probably thinks dat since ur from here u wd be dumb enof to quickly sign a prenup with him. Abegi!

I no mean to spoil ur market sha but am just trying to tell u d truth, which u know is always bitter. See! Plenty mentally unstable guys full america oh! Pls oh, dont make a decision u will regret later in life oh!

U think am na? Person neva marry u e don day control u, when in marry u in go day tell when to brush ya teeth oh.

Pls oh! Dont let some stupid girls give u stupid advice oh! Are u a student? If yes, ur room mates or course mates go just mislead u if u tell dem dis. And it will be totally wrong if u wd like to marry an american just to pose. Marriage no be trophy oh! Life is hard in america oh, when u combine dat with a domineering freak, u are signing up for hell on earth oh!

PLEASE! Der are millions of great guys in naija dat wd treat u like a queen. If u can just be patient and generally nice and hospitable, u will come across one of dem. D fact dat someone stays in america doesnt mean he is d one for you oh, or dat he wd treat u rite oh.

My finger don day pain me. But before I go, just break up with dis guy. No collect in money chop run oh, make u no follow spoil our name add, mbok. Mbok use ur head.

Cheers!

Thanks dear for the wonderful advice. I really appreciate... God bless

@obongproff, I doff my wife's womanliness 4 u(for ur mind)
@mizcalvina, pesin wey old reach my elder broda wey dey do like dat no fit, I repeat NO FIT settle down with an angel like u. U might say the man at the t-junction wey u know betta pass d angel wey u no know, there is dat pesin whose "ribcage" fits u exactly not a "boy" (I call him a boy cos a man wey dey mature no get time for all the sume-sume)

For me, I don't bother myself who call my wife or who she adds on social media network(though I seriously mark and guard my territory)

You guys are simply amazing,, i have got huge love for all my lovers..