MzOma: Dear lovely people of NL, am in dire need of good words of advice...
I have been going out with a guy for almost a year. Infact we wd officially be a year old by the 23rd of next month(sept), he schools in d eastern part of the country, buh hez based in lag while am also based in lag, the issue now is the long distance thingy, we barely get to see at all,the last time we got to see was last year november, though we communicate very well on phone, buh am starting to entertain some fears abt this relationship.... Am thinking of calling it quits on our first anniversary next month, or is there a way we could deal with the distance ish?
Really need matured advice.....
Thanks, lovely nairalanders.

banega: Lool , don't mind mee oh,. was laying my bed jareee,. Good night honey!! Muahhhhh •

Sleep tight dear

MzOma:
Yeah here in lag.
They both seduced themselves... Buh that happened a long ago..
Nd that's my exact fear, that he may not be doing it with someone I know ds tym arnd...
Buh he doesn't stop professing his love for me.... It kinda gets me confused most times

okparaugo: How are you gonna handle the break up. ?

Her : Boo, are cheating on me ?

Him: Why do you ask ?

Her: I mean, how do you keep body and soul together in school ?

Him: Sweet, body no be firewood.

Her: So my suspicion has been right ?

Him: I never said so, I self service.

Her: sobbing.. ( I want a break up )

Him: goes on his knees ( I can't live without you ).

Continues...

Harbosede02: Follow ur heart.....u jst av a doubting mind concerning d relationship,according to ur post,d relationship asn't given any sign of wantin to quit it,i think u sud think abt d positive outcome nt d negative outcome,then u sud as well be a lil bit more patient.
Datz all.

MzOma: :-Xur kidding me right.

okparaugo:

Sorry, my head is running wild.

I hate break ups

MrCork:


...Migoma...madam, ok so u want to quit datin the guy coz he refuse to spend his school fees moiney on u....abi? so u r one of those university Gold diggers..abi? 10 outter 10 i bet u r dark skin...I lie??

...prooofs our point...dark skin females are never be trusssted!! (no oofeinse)

MzOma:
Well its not break up ds tym, buh how I can deal with d distance issue

MzOma:
and ur point is?

okparaugo:

There are mid term breaks, SUG week and so on. Times when he could get 3 to 5 days off lectures.

November 2013 is to far to me, so he didn't come home to lagos after first semester exams ?

I can't handle such long periods without seeing my sweetheart..

MrCork:


...u r a gold diggger...u muss never be trusssted & i dont want u..ever!!!

MzOma:
Nope he didn't, he had something to do at his hometown

MzOma:
Point taken,
Though ur moniker says everything that needs to be said bout u.... #ok bye#

okparaugo:

Dear, ask him when he is gonna be around to see you again.

Have a heart to heart talk with him. Tell him your fears, that if they are real, somehow you ate gonna know. Tell him to.be sincere with you.

MzOma:
Thanks darling, wd try to do just that....
Any other useful advice wd do too

MzOma: Dear lovely people of NL, am in dire need of good words of advice...
I have been going out with a guy for almost a year. Infact we wd officially be a year old by the 23rd of next month(sept), he schools in d eastern part of the country, buh hez based in lag while am also based in lag, the issue now is the long distance thingy, we barely get to see at all,the last time we got to see was last year november, though we communicate very well on phone, buh am starting to entertain some fears abt this relationship.... Am thinking of calling it quits on our first anniversary next month, or is there a way we could deal with the distance ish?
Really need matured advice.....
Thanks, lovely nairalanders.

okparaugo:

I'm the 19th one.

What are your fears?

Just the distance or you miss him a lot ?

Or you suspect him keeping another ?

MrCork:


...ermmm sweery...u never been to London..so pliss plis plis.. show respectto Londoners. ..its not our fault that no man wants u on Nairaland (no oofeinse)

sameer1212: gbam. ansa dis question bfore i coment.

mrking3: [b][/b]the only thing that keeps distance relationship going is TRUST, commitment and communication. I've been in Distance Relationship with my partner for over SIX years now! And I've really had no reason to regret coz it works for us! Truth is you don't even need a third party's input on most of your relationship matters! Only you both can make it work! If you don't have mutual Trust for each other I don't see the need to remain in the relationship

MzOma:
Nuff respectto to u london ewu.
And for d records, I aint here to make NL guys want me, I am here to also be a part of the world outside my domain. Meet civilized people from Nl, make frnds , socialize, and uniting with the world, so dearie if this hurts u so much, take a visit to hell nd don't come back.
U talked abt respect, u shd come to nigeria sometime, so u can really learn it....
Nuff said already....#okbye#

MrCork: ...and then she tellin me..a Londoner.. to come to Nigeria?....NIGERIA??.....SAY WHAT? ..it aint happening....fogerrrit!!

i thought this BastaAard is dead already

mrking3: [b][/b]the only thing that keeps distance relationship going is TRUST, commitment and communication. I've been in Distance Relationship with my partner for over SIX years now! And I've really had no reason to regret coz it works for us! Truth is you don't even need a third party's input on most of your relationship matters! Only you both can make it work! If you don't have mutual Trust for each other I don't see the need to remain in the relationship

MrCork:


...Migoma...madam, ok so u want to quit datin the guy coz he refuse to spend his school fees moiney on u....abi? so u r one of those university Gold diggers..abi? 10 outter 10 i bet u r dark skin...I lie??

...prooofs our point...dark skin females are never be trusssted!! (no oofeinse)

CoachDX:
Sure you're married and she's not. I agree on your 3keys but not to someone that still thinks she's got options.