darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

Dygeasy: Can you blame the guys? What are we faced with everyday on your display pictures? Sensual, half _naked photos and yet you want us to discuss intellectually.

You want make our brain knock? We can't keep switching its focus every now and then.

disclaimer: I'm typing nonsense and I know.

Ograke: It depends on the calibre of guys you roll with.There are tons of male intelligentsias around.It just takes like-mindedness and maturity to locate them.

They aren't always lousy and loud as the not-really-intelligent ones.

Smart guys tend to be calm,composed,matured and unassuming.They don't pride upon their intellectual prowess.

Maybe you should try out new guys,leave your circle/environment and strike friendship with new guys.

And sometimes in life,like attracts like.So I hope you're also intellectually sound.

Good luck in your search.

Scyllapatron: @op - learning is pleasurable but doing is the height of enjoyment. i'd rather spent happy time with friends on whatsapp, than to sit with you and debate israel and gaza , all in the name of intelligent conversation..

vokalguy:

I think you and the OP both have a point... so you are not typing nonsense.

At the rate that females post half naked pics of themselves on Instagram, Twitter, Facebook etc... it will be hard for a guy to have a meaningful conversation with them. First impressions matter and pretty much what you are telling a guy is there is nothing to you apart from your big ass or big boobs.... I mean on the other hand, good conversation goes both ways... its kinda messed up that society nowadays expect the guy to always be the one to initiate the conversation, it should be equal. Ok I am done

dBard: I tend to agree with u@ o.p..
but d oda fellow does make an interesting point. A good discourse is like pingpong; d beta u get, d beta ur return. Wit t me is d best indicator of intelligence., n dat is greatly lacking wen u look@ convos dse days. Does that mean d I.q of peeps is on d decline? it does seem so.
first impression matas as well, if I was t come across ur d.p n u 've up a' notice me' pic on display, I tink dat will t a large extent detrmine at wat level I'll start d conversation, either at d bimbo stage or higher.
can't remember d last time I actually had a stimulating discourse with anyone younger dan 26/27.
can't count d no of times I've seen young couples on dates, each more engrossed in dier phones dan in making any effort t actually interact.
no wonder sex is on d increase, dats d only way dey seem to kip tins interesting. .kip from getting bored.

Just reading d replies t d o.p basically buttresses her point.

It's jst so sad...

Tymax: Same way ladies only beg for money on social media platforms.


The world has changed.

pcguru1: Well there's also another aspect to it, take me for example 90% of my posts are on Programming, Matured talks and others, you see that's generally the way I talk when the conversation calls for intellect, but seriously if you see when I chat with babe's, I tend to dumb it down considerably, because a lot of girls find guys like you mentioned boring, its not our fault, am chatting with a babe exposing her cleavage it already tells me the type of conservation to engage. And I keep saying everything on NL is a facade, you'd be surprised the poster who posts rubbish on NL could an enlighten dude who is just embracing a fake persona. Till you really sit down and chat with people honestly on issues you will be surprised in what each guys have to offer. Also try changing the guys you roll with.

darkchild1:
Finally someone who totally gets me!
Thank you

darkchild1:
okay, point if correction I am not rolling with nobody, it's the impression I get when a guy walks up to me, it's seems they rather chat, (BBm et al) than talk. Which is just annoying

darkchild1:



Intelligent conversations, doesn't have to be News,or current affairs , it's about making an effort to seem interesting, even if your just talking about agege bread. Like I said pple prefer to press there phones than actually talk .

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing