True, SOME guys can render someone brain dead with their conversation skills

Yep

well, be careful what you wish for.

women want men admiring their "assets" 24/7, now you say they [men] cant converse.

Tallesty1: how do you reply the guys when they try to chat with you? Some gals do not know how to keep a conversation lively, both online and offline. how do you reply someone who asked you "how are you" with "kk" and expect him to talk to you again?

Hmm incisive
I use to think all girls are kk girls until I met one Gemini on nairaland

What is wrong with a lady staring an intelligent conversation with a guy? Is there anything wrong if a lasy initiates a conversation instead of the guy?

ITbomb:
Hmm incisive
I use to think all girls are kk girls until I met one Gemini on nairaland

@darkchild1, the prob is that Some guys are dead boring! U don't even know where to start esp all these secretive ones..

@OP. The truth is that there more boring ladies than guys.

I even think your inabilty to detect a guy that has a good conversational skill backs what am saying- despite the fact that there are more dudes with reasonable IQ than ladies.

Most ladies don't have a single opinion on anything,even if having one will save their mamas life. They don't even know how to chat via social media, the conversation will end up looking like interrogation.

Beware of ladies with funny names like Berry,Candypoppy,foxyxoxo etc they are queen of Boredom.

I think the major cause is because most ladies think that the whole world revolves inbetween their leg/xes, that's the only thing a man needs.

@O.p.... when was the last time you engaged a guy in a conversation?

When was the last time you and your girlfolks engaged in a discourse?

gsalvatore: @OP. The truth is that there more boring ladies than guys.

I even think your inabilty to detect a guy that has a good conversational skill backs what am saying- despite the fact that there are more dudes with reasonable IQ than ladies.

Most ladies don't have a single opinion on anything,even if having one will save their mamas life. They don't even know how to chat via social media, the conversation will end up looking like interrogation.

Beware of ladies with funny names like Berry,Candypoppy,foxyxoxo etc they are queen of Boredom.

I think the major cause is because most ladies think that the whole world revolves inbetween their leg/xes, that's the only thing a man needs.

OnyeEgo1: Op i beseech go start a convo with a gentle and lonely man... I bet u wud b wow... They are always quiet...

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darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


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..my dear,u av not met d ryt guy ni....mayb u too dey boring gansef.....just sayin ni oooo,not making conclusns

IMO, ladies are 10 times more boring and less intellectual when it comes to having conversations.

Am not interested in chatting dis days cos u hardly chat with a girl dat can do more one word replies, eg: 'k', 'scl', 'work', 'ofis', 'brb', etc. Can u imagine how annoying it is for you to type a whole sentence and all u get as a response is 'k'?

Its unfortunate the op has been meeting with some shallow fellows lately.

I personally can hardly think of anything to say in any chat.

I took my time to read through the thread.For some people,the fact is they aren't skilled in interpersonal communication.That cuts across gender,so I wouldn't stereotype.I've met some educated guys coming for an interview, and finding it extremely difficult to express themselves.Some of the ladies roll their eyes and act sexy.Its appalling!!That translates even to the informal interactions.However,the good and intellectually sound guys and ladies abound.It takes being in the same social milieu to know them.So we have the good,the bad and the ugly.

Darteyyyy: @O.p.... when was the last time you engaged a guy in a conversation?

When was the last time you and your girlfolks engaged in a discourse?

I have conversations with both sexes all the time . Some guys just can't keep up

gsalvatore: @OP. The truth is that there more boring ladies than guys.

I even think your inabilty to detect a guy that has a good conversational skill backs what am saying- despite the fact that there are more dudes with reasonable IQ than ladies.

Most ladies don't have a single opinion on anything,even if having one will save their mamas life. They don't even know how to chat via social media, the conversation will end up looking like interrogation.

Beware of ladies with funny names like Berry,Candypoppy,foxyxoxo etc they are queen of Boredom.

I think the major cause is because most ladies think that the whole world revolves inbetween their leg/xes, that's the only thing a man needs.

What you just wrote is very rude and disrespectful to women as a whole, you have a mother and maybe sisters too, common . Christ !

darkchild1:


I have conversations with both sexes all the time . Some guys just can't keep up

What's up? How was your day? Lol.

It all boils down to interest. I study each person and know what interest them most and talk about. This female only interest is latest Nigeria gossip, it will be pointless to start talking about international politics. If you like football we talk football, if you like computer and mobile gadgets we talk about the specs of latest phone in town etc

@ op, reason those guys can't keep up as you say is because is they don't have an opinion on the subject matter, they are indifferent. They will simply just agree with you

[size=13pt]Depends on where you get yours. Many of us still preserve the culture of being gentlemen, disciplined and intellectually stimulating as our mums raised us. The society we live in right now is a little messed up. Just gotta look patiently [/size]

whenever u notice so many chat algorithms such as kk...lols...sup wif u..xoxo..et al.repeatedly during a chat...then ure the mugu number 4.shes definitely involved in "meaningful fruitfull and tangible" chat wt some other broda out there..

chatting wt a gal can be compared to a typical college classroom discussion..they totally lack the diction to express themselves..
man is weak...we do all tins...yet our female folks cant compliment us with explosive and romantic chat time..who spends the money...we...who pays the bills ...we...take u to the saloon,host ur bday, take u out wt friends on expensive night out...compliments of whowe...we we we we...what can our female folks do for us

Psychologically speaking, men are suppose to talk less. In other words, our brain wiring is made in such a way we find it difficult to maintain a flowing conversation, we are wired in such a way we give solutions within a split second without taking much time. On the other hand, a lady uses both hemisphere of her brain to communicate while her male counterparts only use one side that's why a woman is more of a talkactive person than a male. Woman are wired to solve all their problems through discussions and conversations whereby a male wud keep silent and meditate on his issues. All I'm trying to say here is that it is true we suck when it comes to keeping conversations cuz its our brain wiring we cant help it. I honestly do tell all my female frnds purposely "wat do u want me to talk abt?" I guess its an honest and polite way of letting the ladies know my weakness when it comes to talking much. And o, abt the intelligent stuff while we tend not to reach that topic, in our brain we think a lady is all abt make ups, fashion, kind of girly conversations in which we are ignorant abt. Imagine me approaching u and disscusing abt fast pistol touting cars, football, gadgets and weapons which as a male we all think abt? Wudnt u consider us an alien? Dats why wen we are surrounded by our female counterparts, our brain tries to pin point and step down our tinking capacity in other to somehow relate wit a llady, trust me, wen ur brain begins to do dat, decision making is extremely stressful, that's why we suck wen communicating wit d ladies. It takes a guy wit tons of experience in conversation wit the opposite sex to be able to flow naturally cuz his brain has already stored all his previous conversations while noticing the attentions of the ladies, he rarely discusses anytin new, bt to go to his storage vault and bring abt any subject he might hav discussed wit tons of ladies. So ladies, wen ever a man approaches u wit a distinct subject u might want to consider he's tried dat already on somebody else.

darkchild1: What you just wrote is very rude and disrespectful to women as a whole, you have a mother and maybe sisters too, common . Christ !

Wot he sed is neither rude nor disrespectful. He sed d truth which u are finding hard to accept. If u think he's rude den u hav to run a poll or gather real statistics to find which gender has lower IQ or is more boring or has poorer communication skills. And if ur stats is right, u will discover that its d ladies.

Simply becos ur different from most ladies in dat area dat doesnt mean dat most ladies are as versatile as u. Sorry day are not!

chrisbaba1: [size=13pt]Depends on where you get yours. Many of us still preserve the culture of being gentlemen, disciplined and intellectually stimulating as our mums raised us. The society we live in right now is a little messed up. Just gotta look patiently [/size]

Lol

darkchild1:


Lol

I took it outta context? Lol. I just went with the topic o. By the way put up a profile picture, my psychic senses tell my ur dark and slim just how i dweamt (yh dweamt) the lady id fall for is.... serious

chrisbaba1:

I took it outta context? Lol. I just went with the topic o. By the way put up a profile picture, my psychic senses tell my ur dark and slim just how i dweamt (yh dweamt) the lady id fall for is.... serious

My profile pic has always been there!

darkchild1:


My profile pic has always been there!

I must have missed it, how sad. . id send u a message later today, talk sm more if u dont mind.... tkcare

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

Ironically, I have discovered that the more the day passes by, the worse most girls become. Seriously! Although, I would still blame it on the kinda people one encounters.

For real, I have really missed having an intelligent convo with a girl. They just seem to be on a different pedestal whenever any convo is ongoing. We ain't always on the same wavelength unless I come to their level. It's just sad.

And I would add that, many girls are not just unintelligent these days, they are also uninteresting too.

ayando: Is funny that a lady is saying this when majority of them seem to be less interesting to chat with. Most times, you guys just sit back and wait. Secondly I think some or most ladies are just selfish with their time n intelligence except if you are either dating them or they are getting smtin from you. This is an experiment I carried out and the result was positive. Caveat: my opinion.

This is do damn true!

ayando: Is funny that a lady is saying this when majority of them seem to be less interesting to chat with. Most times, you guys just sit back and wait. Secondly I think some or most ladies are just selfish with their time n intelligence except if you are either dating them or they are getting smtin from you. This is an experiment I carried out and the result was positive. Caveat: my opinion.

you spoke my mind and .....
This is do damn true!

EejaNla01:
you spoke my mind and .....
This is do damn true!

Em we "read" you the 1st time

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

hater

darkchild1: Just thinking out loud. In my opinion guys generally are getting quite lazy these days, when it comes to having quality and intelligent conversations with the opposite sex. They seem to just hide behide social media tools. Can't remember the last time I had a thought provoking decent conversation . Other than, wassup, what r u up to blah blah


#randommusing

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You are dating small boys thats why you hear whatsup all the time[/size]