onila: whether you like it or not

we are doing him a better favour

we lose more of our pride when we give our men sex

in society, men can sleep with everyone without being called ashawo

but we ladies are thought to close our legs and feel more hurt after we give him sex after being dumped

so yr wrong, we are doing a big favour

You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

onila:

its only whores that ask guys for sex or dont allow their guys beg for it sorry

I see yr standards, poor you

Lol This comment is ridiculous, childish, and pathetic. Onila I realise that you like to make controversial topics and comments but come on now, why would a woman who loves her man put him under such pressure and degradation to beg the woman he loves for love, and what makes a woman a who.re for wanting to make love to the man that she loves?

kika23:
I sent u a mail. Did u c it?

nah, not yet. what's up?

donroxy: You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

fcck you

donroxy: You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

Rolling on the floor...I'm weak

Onilaiscool: fcck you

That's not a virgin's vocabulary

khiaa:


Lol This comment is ridiculous, childish, and pathetic. Onila I realise you like to make controversial topics and comments but come on, why would a woman who loves her man put him under such pressure and degradation to beg the woman he loves for love, and what makes a woman a who.re for wanting to make love to the man she loves?

u dont have to make him beg, there is a way does it in a classy way

these are my values

anyways I believe in being a virgin before marriage, I am just advising girl who do it before marriage

CAMNEWTON4PRES: That's not a virgin's vocabulary

yea i am holy mary too

oloribrunku

donroxy: You rarely provide sense on this forum , I don't wanna imagine how blank those tissues up gonna be !!

You are the one being favoured by getting called/passed @ and banged !!

u are just a repless, classless pig

I am sure yr one of those guys that screws anything on skirt

over my live body

men like you make me puke

two of us r not on the same level

Omomehn: nah, not yet. what's up?

Not much thought I'd say hello.....

*yawns*

kika23:
Not much thought I'd say hello.....

thats really thoughtful of you. check ur box

Onilaiscool: yea i am holy mary too

oloribrunku

are u?

sexx this, sexx that, sexx is so overrated on nairaland, I feel like I'm among a group teenagers with raging hormones, arrgghh!!!, even we wey be virgin no dey over hype the sexx..

@ topic, well, when I decide to have sexx, any woman(I said woman, not girls, I wonder why girls and boys will be having sexx?, hmmn) that would think she is doing me a favour by having sexx with me is joking, I will not beg her, I go just carry myself go watch football, worst worst, I go on t.v dey watch nollywood for African magic.

if the youths will just respect themselves and wait till marriage before having sexx, all this nonsense talk will not be coming up...

Sex should never been seen as a favour in the first place. It is about pleasing the other rather than yourself in the right situation. Two people who are deeply in love cannot view sex as a favour as it is a means of expressing ones deepest feelings. However the standard placed on a woman by society makes a woman feel she is doing a man a favour by having sex since she'll be the one to be riddiculed should anything go wrong, so I understand onilas point of view, but this is not true.

Onilaiscool:

u dont have to make him beg, there is a way does it in a classy way

these are my values

anyways I believe in being a virgin before marriage, I am just advising girl who do it before marriage

I understand you have your values but those are YOUR values, everyone has their own. Making love to the one you love is such a beautiful act, stop making it into something ugly, especially since you claim you haven't experienced it. Trust me when you meet that special person you will understand.

Dannyxy: sexx this, sexx that, sexx is so overrated on nairaland, I feel like I'm among a group teenagers with raging hormones, arrgghh!!!, even we wey be virgin no dey over hype the sexx..

@ topic, well, when I decide to have sexx, any woman(I said woman, not girls, I wonder why girls and boys will be having sexx?, hmmn) that would think she is doing me a favour by having sexx with me is joking, I will not beg her, I go just carry myself go watch football, worst worst, I go on t.v dey watch nollywood for African magic.

if the youths will just respect themselves and wait till marriage before having sexx, all this nonsense talk will not be coming up...

I understand she agreed to have sex because she likes you
there is more pressure on a woman to be decent than a man
women generally feel bad after sex she gets. . dumped by her guy carelessly
its just part of every womanz nature
the emotional damage that comes with it

U guys are acting ya all dont live in double standard society where men are allowed to sleep ard but girls cant

khiaa:

I understand you have your values but those are YOUR values, everyone has their own. Making love to the one you love is such a beautiful act, stop making into something ugly, especially since you claim you haven't experienced it. Trust me when you meet that special person you will understand.

yes exactly
and no one shld insult me for my views abt sex

this is the advice I give to my loved ones and Nigerian females on this forum

I never advice my friends because I dont brag abt my virginity in real life, I keep it personal.
I want Nigerian girls to learn from me the ones who think am right and I want a better society for Nigeria, so since I cant do it in real life, I guess faceless forums is the best place

and I have met a special person but I will never sleep with him

his nice 2 me but I am not meant to trust anyone before marriage, anything can happen

Onilaiscool:

thank you, coming from a guy who understands

what I have been trying to explain to these modafcckers

Lmao That's not fair, that guy sounds like a rap.ist.

onila:

double standard in our society

girls feel naturally more used after sex

we might be enjoying it but the fear of being used destroys it all
U see girls getting into depression, feeling worthless, and used when guys fall into their bottomless pit and dump them after that

only when dey r in love wif d dude n he emotionally abuses dem...

Have u been to ekiti or benin recently??

if u want girls believe she aint doing a favour

the world wld be a better place for us ladies

if u guys stop bragging to the whole world that you slept with her or dumping a girl without acting like u have a heart

Blockus:



How is sex attached to pride for women and not for men?!

When two people have sex, they just fhucked each other equally.. But somehow, you women over emphasize yours than guys. Why?!

Rosemary made a solid point, its sex. If your pride is attached to your pussiie, then please keep that pussiie on lock. But if your pride is attached to your brains and achievements in life, then you shouldnt feel that having sex with a guy is 'ruining your pride'.

#Just Saying.

well said

onila: whether you like it or not

we are doing him a better favour

we lose more of our pride when we give our men sex

in society, men can sleep with everyone without being called ashawo

but we ladies are thought to close our legs and feel more hurt after we give him sex after being dumped

so yr wrong, we are doing a big favour

Yet when a child comes out of the sex, u have the nerve to say my child as if u did it by yourself, meanwhile you are also getting child support from the man.

Ashantiking:

Yet when a child comes out of the sex, u have the nerve to say my child as if u did it by yourself, meanwhile you are also getting child support from the man.

we are the ones that is gonna drop out of school, less likely to get married with a child -which african man wants to marry a woman that had a child out of wedlock

Ashantiking:

Yet when a child comes out of the sex, u have the nerve to say my child as if u did it by yourself, meanwhile you are also getting child support from the man.

carrying a baby for nine months and pushing out the baby aint a joke

This thread is re.tarded, so juvenile!

onila:

this is a faceless forum, the best place to brag abt my virginity. .so screw off

in real life, I only tell my little cousins to keep it and not any random bit.ch!

he is right,you are too obsess with sexuality.. Just take a look at your profile. How old are you BTW?

Nostalgia21:
he is right,you are too obsess with sexuality.. Just take a look at your profile. How old are you BTW?

in my twenties

onila:

its only whores that ask guys for sex or dont allow their guys beg for it sorry

I see yr standards, poor you

I can't believe I tried to reason with you. no hope for u, sorry

onila: shes loosing more

just because she want to enjoy her free sex does not mean shes not feeling bad about herself

stop deceiving urself, who ask you to give out favor? did the guy walk up and say, 'hey please i need ur favor today'? hoe's like you is what is giving girls that want to have sex for the fun of it the feeling of guilt.

Baddestguyp: I can't believe I tried to reason with you. no hope for u, sorry

fcck you, u didnt try to reason with me but condemn me, idiat!

mannerless boy