Onilaiscool:

hate them with a passion

go AIT and announce dont be a coward hiding under a faceless forum

Onilaiscool:

I never said because I am a virgin, I am better than everyone
my best friend during my first year in uni was a real LovePeddler
she slept with anything
I never judged neither did I condemn her one bit

I work hard to be a productive woman, I dont tie everything to sex
me being a virgin, pple still called me useless for not knowing how to cook
I can have it all, go to school, get a job, learning how to cool and still close my legs

I am not being insulting, its the guys here calling me dumb, LovePeddler, daft and all. .typical of Nigerian guys
I am never quick to insult pple

I am far from being judgmental
if me feeling superior to men will make me keep my virginity, so be it
being a virgin aint easy so whatever method a girl uses to make herself a virgin, aint nothing wrong

Onila is cool.

onila:

double standard in our society

girls feel naturally more used after sex

we might be enjoying it but the fear of being used destroys it all
U see girls getting into depression, feeling worthless, and used when guys fall into their bottomless pit and dump them after that

And when did your personal feeling of insecurity equates to other mature ladies out there who knows that sex is a mutual activity and is able to keep their heads up and still believe and respect there decisions to have sex?

Just when did your believes become a standard of measurement?

And how do u know so much about the post-sex feeling after claiming to be a virgin?

So many questions that its difficult to follow your logic; its dead on arrival.

Get rid of that virginity and start seeing life from a different perspective.

Why do some girls think they are the only ones losing their ego during s,ex? A guy would throw all his huge ego to the bin and do all whatnot in the bedroom including licking your aszzholes and getting ridden cowgirl by a girl just to please her, yet she will still be the one feeling used. Smh

I don't understand how some1 who says she's a virgin seems to know how it's feels having sex...I don't even know y una dey ansa this girl sef.

Na people like@onila wey if dem test this thing once she would damn the consequences and continue exploration cos then she would say to herself"Na so this thing sweet".LOL

onila: when we ladies decide to do him

we think and over think. .look at the advantages and disadvantages

crack our heaed and brain, struggle with our pride

it aint a one minute decision

Remain a virgin and do no man any favour again.

Godmother:
Guess you haven't seen situations where the reverse is also the case. Your values are not bad ones Onila. Its just the way you are going about it. Yes we live in a double-standard society which is making we women to be careful cos of the bad name some might give a girl, but like I said, times are changing and a lot more people are becoming more liberal and enlightened.

I'm not advocating sleeping around, far from it. I'm just saying you as a woman should have more worth and achievement. You seem to tie your entire existence to your coochie and see it as the all in all.No offence, but if I was a guy, I wouldn't date you. Not because you are not date-able, but because you are so self-righteous and proud and see yourself as above men.

And I feel that you might be a wonderful person but this your attitude will just put me off. Like I said earlier, if you wanna have sex, fine. If you don't its also fine. Its a personal decision that everyone should stick with so long as you are comfortable. But biko don't go all insultive about it.

I was a virgin myself until two years back( and I'm in my late 'ties) and yes, like you I was self-righteous too and thought I was a gift wrapped up in blue ribbons worthy of only the best men I offered nothing else in the relationship.

So babe wisen up. By all means, hold unto your virginity if that's your decision. But also have something else to offer. Tone down on this your virginity obsession. There's more to life than virginity and sex

Just had to quote you. Succinctly put

donpeey22: Is that why you have been keeping it like you claim? Babe you are on a loooooog thing! Because many men nowadays prefer babes who've got some experience in s,ex. Who wants to start piercing a grown asz woman's hymen on his wedding night? With all the blood spilling thingy? Virginity was overhyped when child marriage was in vogue.

many guys wld love a virgin

Onilaiscool:

many guys wld love a virgin

Only a few old fashioned guys will!

nuges1: I don't understand how some1 who says she's a virgin seems to know how it's feels having sex...I don't even know y una dey ansa this girl sef.

Na people like@onila wey if dem test this thing once she would damn the consequences and continue exploration cos then she would say to herself"Na so this thing sweet".LOL

I dont need to have sex before I know abt how after sex feels

just from what I hear and what my elders tell me, I shld figure it out
and some of my little common sense

I went to a strict christian secondary school in Nigeria where they emphasized th importance of a girl being a virgin before marriage

donpeey22: Only a few old fashioned guys will!

not few but many

even u, u will appreciate a virgin

nothing more sweet when u know yr the first guy that hit it first especially if shes worth the wait

Frenchkiss564: go AIT and announce dont be a coward hiding under a faceless forum

i say it all the time in real life, not scared

dadoctore:

My apologies but frm wat u said ere it means no matter hw Hot u might be n r wit ur dude u'll just sit still n hope he smhw gets d msg n begs u for it?(even tho ur hormones r clearing raging atm)

I will never ask my guy for sex the first time

he will come for me when he sees the sign without me asking or him asking

Onilaiscool: not few but many

even u, u will appreciate a virgin

nothing more sweet when u know yr the first guy that hit it first especially if shes worth the wait

I don't give a fucck about a virgin! I prefer my ladies experienced in bed and naughty. Like i said earlier only a few old-fashioned men like the virginity thingy.

donpeey22: I don't give a fucck about a virgin! I prefer my ladies experienced in bed and naughty. Like i said earlier only a few old-fashioned men like the virginity thingy.

haven't u enjoyed enough girls already

why cant u have time to teach one girl sex and b patient

What ar friends. For

Onilaiscool:

haven't u enjoyed enough girls already

why cant u have time to teach one girl sex and b patient

sex is never enjoyed enough as the desire to have it keeps growing..lol, why waste my time teaching her when i can get myself a real biatch.8-)

donpeey22: sex is never enjoyed enough as the desire to have it keeps growing..lol, why waste my time teaching her when i can get myself a real biatch.8-)

I believe if u happen 2 see a nice and gorgeous girl
U wont turn her down simply because shes a virgin

Onilaiscool:

I believe if u happen 2 see a nice and gorgeous girl
U wont turn her down simply because shes a virgin

A nice and gorgeous girl who doesn't know how to fucck his man is a no no for me. Worsestill when she doesn't also know how to cook.

Onila you got it all wrong.
Women feel like that because they find it difficult to move on after break up.
Women knew the truth but they can't just accept it.they enjoy more in a relationship.
Break up with a guy in the morning before evening he will get a very sexy and sweeter girl.
But in a girls case, she has to wait until another toaster comes her way,maybe in six months time.

Whoever believes onila is a virgin can equally believe that salt solution can cure ebola virus. You know what, her choice of sexual words makes me longing to having sex. Believe it or not, onila has just been jilted by her lover. As a psychologist, I don't need any soothsayer to tell me that she is speaking from her previous bitter experience. This pseudo-virginity is making her ................
I dey come, my baby just walked in.

Guys beware!!!

Onila is a slut o.

Attention seeking kid.

If your pride is attached to sex then It shows how cheap you are.

No be person be Linda ikeja, Oprah winfrey, Omotola, Mitchel Obama etc.

You're here talking shit about ur p.uss.y been fuvvcked everytime.

Olosho girl.

Busted.

Vikky014: Na waoh,so guys also lick virgiana?*marvangel even enjoys d hairy once?ayaff fainted o,Ebola is real o,BTW any girl dt regrets or complains afta havn sex wt a guy is plain silly,#team close dt hole till u r ready for d consequences,,dnt depend on a guy

Vikky I don't like d hairy ones read my post wella......said d hairy ones(especially dos wan that look like sambisa forest....lol) na hard work........and not like I enjoy doing it.......just do it cuz

Zakkyoz: Whoever believes onila is a virgin can equally believe that salt solution can cure ebola virus. You know what, her choice of sexual words makes me longing to having sex. Believe it or not, onila has just been jilted by her lover. As a psychologist, I don't need any soothsayer to tell me that she is speaking from her previous bitter experience. This pseudo-virginity is making her ................
I dey come, my baby just walked in.

what a dumb psychologist

Nigeria;s education system is a joke

guyANDROID1: Guys beware!!!

Onila is a slut o.

Attention seeking kid.

If your pride is attached to sex then It shows our cheap you are.

No be person be Linda ikeja, Oprah winfrey, Omotola, Mitchel Obama etc.

You're here talking shit about ur p.uss.y been fuvvcked everytime.

Olosho girl.

Busted.

when did I say my only pride is my vjay jay

onye ara

Onilaiscool:

when did I say my only pride is my vjay jay

onye ara

WHO get time for small kid like u

Olosho forming Porshe online.

guyANDROID1:

WHO get time for small kid like u

Olosho forming Porshe online.

i am too posh,if u ask me

classy with style

U r correct jor. Jst passin by.

Onilaiscool:

what a dumb psychologist

Nigeria;s education system is a joke

Joker of the year! In your naive and fickle mind, it is only when you passed through formal education that you can read people's mind. You are even insulting your country's educational system in a subtle way. Your stupidity has beclouded the fact that i could be a foreigner. what a pity!

Zakkyoz:
Joker of the year! In your naive and fickle mind, it is only when you passed through formal education that you can read people's mind. You are even insulting your country's educational system in a subtle way. Your stupidity has beclouded the fact that i could be a foreigner. what a pity!

sharrap, yr a pako Nigerian

marveangel: Vikky I don't like d hairy ones read my post wella......said d hairy ones(especially dos wan that look like sambisa forest....lol) na hard work........and not like I enjoy doing it.......just do it cuz

lol,wunt like dt*wink

Onilaiscool:

i am too posh,if u ask me

classy with style

You own Olosho is online version.

Ahhn, I know your type.

Attention seeking Mofos