Haven been opportune to travel to some part of Nigeria and also meeting vast variety of my fellow Nigerians both male and female,i think a man has to look beyond facial looks and character and consider some other things which some people may feel are not necessary but are vital for a man in marriage and should be considered in my opinion.
As the saying goes "A hungry Man is An angry Man” Food is one of the unseen vital role that is been played in many south south and igbo culture that keeps the man at home and making him happy, to further attest to this, a man with two wives always have competition among his wives especially in food aspect which keeps him happy with the woman that feeds him more therefore according more money and materialistic things including attention to that particular wife.
A man that has been eating good food will find it difficult and unnecessary to eat outside apart from his home, been prone to eating outside as a married man can lead you to certain unseen stories been observed in everyday life most leading to broken homes, having mistresses,food poisoning and a host of others just to mention few
With respect to my fellow yoruba people I have observed in many occasions where the woman of the house does not cook but rather gives the kids money to eat road side food, this alone incorporate character in that child which he or she grows up with, therefore making the female children practically unable to be a good house wife material in the kitchen
Haven spent most time in the western part of Nigeria especially lagos I have seen this peculiar character in the female gender not just by observations but by practical examples
One of the illustrative example among the many I have had with my yoruba female girlfriend has been she cooking fried egg with what I could not imagine,the second has been a very annoying situation with a food which was supposed to be a delicacy called fried rice turn out tobe a ("doomicacy") that left me stooling for days, it dint only end there among many I can't explain
With this point so far been expansiated I doubt in my right sense I will want to marry a yoruba female
N/B this is just my opinion, if food does not count in marriage then u can give me a better reason to marry a yoruba

harrysterol:
A man that has been eating good food will find it difficult and unnecessary to eat outside apart from his home, been prone to eating outside as a married man can lead you to certain unseen stories been observed in everyday life most leading to broken homes, having mistresses,food poisoning and a host of others just to mention few
With respect to my fellow yoruba people I have observed in many occasions where the woman of the house does not cook but rather gives the kids money to eat road side food, this alone incorporate character in that child which he or she grows up with, therefore making the female children practically unable to be a good house wife material in the kitchen
Haven spent most time in the western part of Nigeria especially lagos I have seen this peculiar character in the female gender not just by observations but by practical examples
One of the illustrative example among the many I have had with my yoruba female girlfriend has been she cooking fried egg with what I could not imagine,the second has been a very annoying situation with a food which was supposed to be a delicacy called fried rice turn out tobe a ("doomicacy" that left me stooling for days, it dint only end there among many I can't explain
With this point so far been expansiated I doubt in my right sense I will want to marry a yoruba female
N/B this is just my opinion, if food does not count in marriage then u can give me a better reason to marry a yoruba

. clown

At the bolded... another crappy generalisation which says more of the people you associate with
You need to step up your circle of associates

You are free to marry from any tribe.it is your prerogative

Ok. NEXT?

harrysterol: Haven been opportune to travel to some part of Nigeria and also meeting vast variety of my fellow Nigerians both male and female,i think a man has to look beyond facial looks and character and consider some other things which some people may feel are not necessary but are vital for a man in marriage and should be considered in my opinion.
As the saying goes "A hungry Man is An angry Man” Food is one of the unseen vital role that is been played in many south south and igbo culture that keeps the man at home and making him happy, to further attest to this, a man with two wives always have competition among his wives especially in food aspect which keeps him happy with the woman that feeds him more therefore according more money and materialistic things including attention to that particular wife.
A man that has been eating good food will find it difficult and unnecessary to eat outside apart from his home, been prone to eating outside as a married man can lead you to certain unseen stories been observed in everyday life most leading to broken homes, having mistresses,food poisoning and a host of others just to mention few
With respect to my fellow yoruba people I have observed in many occasions where the woman of the house does not cook but rather gives the kids money to eat road side food, this alone incorporate character in that child which he or she grows up with, therefore making the female children practically unable to be a good house wife material in the kitchen
Haven spent most time in the western part of Nigeria especially lagos I have seen this peculiar character in the female gender not just by observations but by practical examples
One of the illustrative example among the many I have had with my yoruba female girlfriend has been she cooking fried egg with what I could not imagine,the second has been a very annoying situation with a food which was supposed to be a delicacy called fried rice turn out tobe a ("doomicacy" that left me stooling for days, it dint only end there among many I can't explain
With this point so far been expansiated I doubt in my right sense I will want to marry a yoruba female
N/B this is just my opinion, if food does not count in marriage then u can give me a better reason to marry a yoruba

Trouble dey take siesta, iyanga go dey poke am

Wait dem dey cum, and dem go give reason

Though I didn't read the op but I know you must have committed the fallacy of hasty generalization . You should never describe or judge a woman by her tribe or nationality , there's more to her than her origin.

So funny how many of us are quick to hasty generalization. It was fun reading your thoughts OP and I wish you well.

If a Lady is not good at cooking, you as the husband can guide her and teach her how to go about it. Maybe you don't know that Yoruba girls are perfect wife material cos most were brought up in a perfect tradition way that suits the future partner.... Their cooking might not be okay compare to those from the East, But of what benefit is a lady that knows how to cook all the delicacies in the world and knows nothing about how to keep a happy family cos must of them are rude and not submissive. To crown it all, you can end up rearing another man's kids for many years thinking they are Yours! .....THIS IS OUT OF EXPERIENCE! !!

If we were to classify or analyse people based on stereotypes and 'generalizations' associated with their ethnicity, we may end up not finding a person good enough to marry.

Every single tribe has their fair share of negative individualistic traits/character that may not be associated with every individual in that group.

walexzee11: If a Lady is not good at cooking, you as the husband can guide her and teach her how to go about it. Maybe you don't know that Yoruba girls are perfect wife material cos most were brought up in a perfect tradition way that suits the future partner.... Their cooking might not be okay compare to those from the East, But of what benefit is a lady that knows how to cook all the delicacies in the world and knows nothing about how to keep a happy family cos must of them are rude and not submissive. To crown it all, you can end up rearing another man's kids for many years thinking they are Yours! .....THIS IS OUT OF EXPERIENCE! !!

And the generalizations just keep on coming...

yoruba babes are strong and good in bed. I can never forget Yetunde, best lay ever !

Hahahahaha

I CANNOT date. . . .not to mention marry an EDO, Urhobo(Ijaw/Isoko/Itsekiri/Rivers/Cross Rivers. . . . All those BUSH AREAS OF NIGERIAN MEN)Yoruba or BIAFRAN-Igbo man. I have dateD or PHOCKED some of these LOCAAAAAAAL-BUSHMEATS in the past . . . so I know ke!

All you need to do is meet their checkered family members.

EDO women prefer foreigners for the same VERY REASON! I DON'T like their culture of maltreating women and children. They are not capable of loving or receiving love. It is in their EXTREMELY HARSH GENES!

In short. Delta IGBO or Northrrners only!

Bottom line OP!

If your instinct speaks to your CONSCIENCE, learn to listen.

pickabeau1:

. clown

At the bolded... another crappy generalisation which says more of the people you associate with
You need to step up your circle of associates

You are free to marry from any tribe.it is your prerogative

the was no need for alarm or scrupulous and provocative words...every single thought has been on opinion, try and be constructive in replies

DickDastardly: Trouble dey take siesta, iyanga go dey poke am

Wait dem dey cum, and dem go give reason

I no want trouble o

harrysterol: the was no need for alarm or scrupulous and provocative words...every single thought has been on opinion, try and be constructive in replies

As you were destructive with your opinion

Dude ... step up your circle

Elantracey: Though I didn't read the op but I know you must have commit the fallacy of hasty generalization . You should never describe or judge a woman by her tribe or nationality , there's more to her than her origin.

wel u Neva read it, I only made a survey of 60% which I felt ws enough to write abt

I can imagine the kind of people the op associate with, it tells a lot about you. Road side food indeed. Abeg, as Pickabeau said, step up.

walexzee11: If a Lady is not good at cooking, you as the husband can guide her and teach her how to go about it. Maybe you don't know that Yoruba girls are perfect wife material cos most were brought up in a perfect tradition way that suits the future partner.... Their cooking might not be okay compare to those from the East, But of what benefit is a lady that knows how to cook all the delicacies in the world and knows nothing about how to keep a happy family cos must of them are rude and not submissive. To crown it all, you can end up rearing another man's kids for many years thinking they are Yours! .....THIS IS OUT OF EXPERIENCE! !!

this is a good reason, I only made an observation so such perception can be cleared and have a better thought on that, my present girlfriend is a yoruba so am not against dem

Infact I strongly and totally disagree.the yoruba women I have met are the lines who always have food at home and offer you food immediately you step into their house full of assorted meat, fresh and dry fish all sorts of delicacies.
Infact, them go wan use food kill you, only you beef,Turkey ponmo, orishrishi chicken fresh dry and banla fish, if not for ebola bush meat join.

Let me call Toyin abeg, salivating from all this typing choi

harrysterol: With this point so far been expansiated I doubt in my right sense I will want to marry a yoruba female

harrysterol: this is a good reason, I only made an observation so such perception can be cleared and have a better thought on that, my present girlfriend is a yoruba so am not against dem

You are confusing me....

Godmystrength: You are confusing me....

having a gf is not thesame as been married don't be confused

I guess the heat has been turned up in the politics section. It's time to transfer hatred and tribal bigotry to the family section. I hope people would just ignore this tool and move on. There's no appropriate response for people like the op than silence.

harrysterol: having a gf is not thesame as been married don't be confused

I know what i am saying. what are you doing with a yoruba girlfriend if you can't marry a yoruba female??

U cnt find a 100% perfect hausa, yoruba or ibo girl. dt she cnt cook 2 ur taste doesn't mean she cnt cook 2 another mans satisfaction. Besides wit d way U portrayed it, it seems U r a gd cook so if U truly care then teach her. Hw long U wan dey jump from Aisha to Chichi to Yemi then bukky b4 U marry?
Prophecy: ur future wife is a yoruba.

balaclava: U cnt find a 100% perfect hausa, yoruba or ibo girl, dt she cnt cook 2 ur taste doesn't mean she cnt cook 2 another mans satisfaction. Besides wit d way U portrayed it, it seems U r a gd cook so if U truly care then teach her. Hw long U wan dey jump from Aisha to Chichi to Yemi then bukky b4 U marry?
Prophecy: ur future wife is a yoruba.

prophet john the baptist I hail o lolz

balaclava: U cnt find a 100% perfect hausa, yoruba or ibo girl, dt she cnt cook 2 ur taste doesn't mean she cnt cook 2 another mans satisfaction. Besides wit d way U portrayed it, it seems U r a gd cook so if U truly care then teach her. Hw long U wan dey jump from Aisha to Chichi to Yemi then bukky b4 U marry?
Prophecy: ur future wife is a yoruba.

God forbid,let him go and marry girls from his bush tribe or from wherever hole he crawled out from,he doesnt deserve any

Godmystrength: I know what i am saying. what are you doing with a yoruba girlfriend if you can't marry a yoruba female??

aisha2: Infact I strongly and totally disagree.the yoruba women I have met are the lines who always have food at home and offer you food immediately you step into their house full of assorted meat, fresh and dry fish all sorts of delicacies.
Infact, them go wan use food kill you, only you beef,Turkey ponmo, orishrishi chicken fresh dry and banla fish, if not for ebola bush meat join.

Let me call Toyin abeg, salivating from all this typing choi

as in,i dont know where all dese mumu talk is coming from,cos me i am yet to see one.d way d op is generalising,u would think there are no ibo or niger delta men married to yoruba women,in reality they are many.or is it all dese girls from d se and ss dat can cook?cos me i know an itsekiri dat cant even break eggs not to talk of frying it

pickabeau1:

i know what i am saying o. After a while what happened
here will happen and people will start saying all manners of
things https://www.nairaland.com/1885602/run-when-woman-says-need#25986682

I doubt if the gf is aware that her bobo doesn't want to marry a yoruba
girl ''unless he is not in his right sense''

harrysterol generalizing a whole tribe because of a single person is abnormal. I will only assume what you said as true if you can be sincere with this question
"Are you telling us now that ALL Igbo Ladies are perfect in cooking " ?




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I'm not yoruba but this is the most silly thing I have heard in my life. You are small minded. You really need to grow up and think of more important yoruba woman's food. Jeez

..everyone has his or her problem. If you cant take the heat then get out of the kitchen..girls boku

Godmystrength: I know what i am saying. what are you doing with a yoruba girlfriend if you can't marry a yoruba female??

the was a "but" in my statement obsession may occur untill then am O-M-O