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Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by LaJose78(m): 10:43pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
I saw this on Facebook, and after reading I thought to myself, 'Nairalanders must hear this!' . Married women, plz stop getting bothered about if your hubby has a side chic outside, instead, bother more about how your husband treats you. This is important, cos, truth is , whether we like it or not, or maybe wish it away or not, 90% of husbands cheat on their wives, of this 90%, 10% of them are not even suspected at all by their wives, only about 10% are faithful for various reasons, upbringing, religion, finance, and many more, that is the reality. Plz note this, responsible men are not men who do not cheat on their wives, but men who their family is first irrespective of cheating or not cheating. If your husband provides for you and your household, and loves you and the kids, then he is a good father, believe me, the good father, is still cheating on you, chances are extremely high. There are diff reasons men cheat. Whether we like it or not, mens sexual urges of attraction are higher than women, again, women systems (childbirth, menstruation, and hormonal issues) , make it difficult for a man to get satisfied by the wife alone(not an excuse, but the fact). Imagine a woman who is pregnant and pregnancy is disturbing, they say, dont sleep with her ooo, so where do you want the man to go for sexual satisfaction, this is not a selfish article, but reality in black and white. Again, has someone heard the expression..'men are polygamous in nature?'...that crazy, but its true, when a man sleeps with a lady for so long, the biting sensation reduces, thats y ur hubby dont rush you again like he used to do during dating, does not make you worn out, is its mens nature,this is another truth. My advice, Women, dont kill yourself checking phones to see girlfriends, or side chics, when you know it wont change much but cause issues, only have issues with hubby if he isnt providing for you and loving you well, and still he cheats on you, or maybe he provides for you but he cheats without respect, rubs in on your face as if nothing would happen, perhaps he cheats with your friends, in these cases, he is wicked, and you need to shout for christ sake. But if he takes care of you, respects you and maybe does one or two hit, her and there, and hides it from you , loving you and treating you well, plz ignore some messages even if you see them, perhaps, just mention it and pass. That is nature. My advice to men, plz and plz, love your wife unconditionally, take care of her, plz if you dont have money, to take care of her and maybe scratch a little for girlfriend, then dont cheat. before you give 1kobe to a girl, ensure she is very comfortable. or me this is the truth, I love my wife, I adore her, I provide for her, but usually has pregnancy stress and I would have to stay away from sex for a while, assure her and with her, even sleep in hospital with her, but brother, a few times, I hit it with a side chic, trust me, I dont forget my condoms to keep her safe. I call her always and make her comfortable, she suspects am cheating on her, but my caring attitude leaves her confused, cos I give her time and time again.I know its adultery, so plz dont preach, this is only but a practical piece, dont be preachy here, cos I know many pastors that patronise ashawos, maybe your pastor is among, so let be more practical than religious. Finally, If you leave your caring man, just because he cheats 'with respect' on you, trust me, you may run into one who would cheat without respect. So as long as he treats you like an angel, plz let peace reign, you cant win this battle, your great grand mothers didnt win it. What is your take on this? Mods come and see this one. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by lynnfeb(f): 10:51pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
Who wrote this nonsense ?? So we should applaud them right? Then they come back home and transfer incurable diseases to the poor innocent wife. We women have really suffered in this life. 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by jopretty(f): 11:11pm On Jul 06, 2016 |
So, it is now 'ok' for Men to cheat, abi? I hope this writer and would-be supporters won't see anything wrong when their wives also cheat on them at the same time being loving and caring to them. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by KanwuliaExtra: 3:08am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Ask Tiwa Savage na! Cheat jam cheat! Nor be Tblizzzy wan commit suicide after he don find out say Tiwa don dey phock awon TuBaba and Don Jazzy dem take dey feed im GANJA/COCAINE SNUFFING AZZZZE? Muchechecheche Every woman MUST LEARN TO OUT-PLAY ANY MAN! Only a STOOPID woman will sit around and cater to a philandering husband! As im dey move, na sa I go waka dey followrrrrram o. Till death do us part abi? DIE-vorce ke? No need abeg! 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by patani(m): 8:16am On Jul 07, 2016 |
Well, some truth in what OP said..but I am going to pass since society frown at it even though it's the fact 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 9:11am On Jul 07, 2016 |
One prayer I have is that cheats should marry cheats, and the faithful, the faithful. May a good egg not get messed up with a bad egg.This way, the ecosystem would balance itself out. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by bolseas(f): 9:36am On Jul 07, 2016 |
While reading, i suspected it will be a man who wrote this nonsense. My suspicion was right when i read further. What i see about the writer is a bloody coward, an irresponsible, disgusting animal. He claims he is performing his fatherly, husbandly roles and doesnt forget his condoms. Your wife is carrying your baby and all you are interested in is satisfying your ANIMAListic, Dogistic, GOATistic sexual urges. You wrote that "Your wife suspect you but is confused because of your roles being carried out as the head of the home". If You are MAN enough, and you know it is in men's nature to cheat why cant you tell your wife.... WIfey, I cheat on you because I am a Man and see what happens to you. I hate and detest selfish evil men like you. Spits on his dumb head. 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by rvpbae: 12:27pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Na wa! I'm in shock! So this man will preach this to his daughters?? Is this what women have been reduced to?? Sad sad! To think men think this way? Women need to look out for themselves o 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by quivah(f): 12:54pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I can bet my 10kobo, that's a Nigerian man talking , I fear those people. women don suffer PS; I thought he said reasons why women should ignore.. I didn't see any na 5 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by EZEIGBO1OFIMO: 12:58pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
sometimes i wonder why these donkeys and fish brains bother to get married sef. 5 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by byvan03: 1:10pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Rat don chop this one brain . 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by ahnie: 1:19pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
This mans is a cause to is generators. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I sense a disturbance in the force. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by njiasi30(f): 2:38pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Dats how a marriage counselor told couples to b blind and deaf so dat dere marriage will b everlasting and some men said it's 4 dose who believes marriage is a do or die affair . I just couldn't laugh , why den re dey getting married if dey believe dat dey will still divorce. Although no one knows 2moro, we just pray 4 d best. Back to d topic @ "cheat with respect" BC he plays his role very well as a father/husband providing d needs of d family and all dat, we should ignore him while he cheat. Issorite In case d woman decides to "cheat with respect" 2 bc she takes care of d husbands needs, d kids and caring 4 d home , should d husband also ignore BC she "cheats with respect" Hmmmm, am nt supporting cheating oh. Hahahaha, nlders will not kill me with laugh 11 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Dabbyfab: 2:47pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Be Faithful ‘She is your companion and your wife by covenant.’ Malachi 2:14 NKJV As the culture around us becomes more permissive, the idea of faithfulness in marriage is being challenged. The entertainment industry promotes the idea that infidelity is a marvellous game for two. But they don’t tell you the downside. When it has run its course, it brings pain and disillusionment. And not only for the two people involved, but for those who love them, depend on them, and look to them for an example. It’s time for some straight talk about the covenant of marriage. After the thrill of the chase and the cooling of passion, you get back to cooking, cleaning, and earning a living. Yes, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but it still has to be mowed. When you’re dating you get to see the best aspects of someone, but when you marry them you get to live with their flaws, frailties, and irritants, much like those in the former husband or wife. And guess what? Married life begins to feel confining. Then what does the individual do when he or she is beginning to feel trapped? Hopscotch from one life to another in a vain search for something indescribable - something they never seem to find. What’s the answer? Instead of looking for the right person, seek to grow and mature and become the right person. Often the qualities you’re looking for in someone new lie undiscovered and unappreciated under the surface in the person you’re married to. These qualities are like seeds: if you water them, nurture and protect them, they will grow into something beautiful you can enjoy. Bible in a Year: 2 Chron 32-33; Rom 1 Copied 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 3:24pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Well last tme I checked adultery either by wife or husband is still a sin. Rationalizing it away like you just did won't change that fact. If according to you, 10% of all married men don't cheat, then nothing stops the other 90 from restraining themselves. We are not dogs you know, and articles like this only make men look like as if their brains are in their small heads down there. If you cheat on your wife, it's because you don't respect her and you don't have self control. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by cindybaby22(f): 4:01pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
byvan03:lmao 5 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by johnson232: 4:07pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Ioannes:the bold is not true. op got valid points. "King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by johnson232: 4:09pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
lynnfeb:"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe. op got valid points. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by johnson232: 4:12pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
byvan03:how u take know? abi u be rat |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by johnson232: 4:13pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
jopretty:"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe. op got valid points. |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by byvan03: 4:18pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
johnson232: By their fruits... All these "how to be a loser" 101 kinda posts nah to whom it might concern. 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by jopretty(f): 4:30pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Pls keep calm when yours cheats on you, you hear! johnson232: 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Mopricelezz(f): 5:05pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
I hope the wife can do same, as long as she takes good care of the husband. Naija women don suffer oo. So cheating is now a norm? Lobatan Whatever happened to respect and self control 4 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 5:20pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
johnson232: Well let's Hope you'll remember to quote Robert Mugabe when your wife cheats on you. By the way, "King Solomon had 700 wives...and God still loved him" Well the Bible also forbids us to eat pork. I'm sure you eat pork wella. 7 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
How can you even have a stable home for the kids to grow up properly when the father is busy out there humping everything in skirts and tight jeans. Who forms the minds and consciences of the kids If you want to play the field, then don't get married. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by Prettiepearlz(f): 5:39pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
Na wa ooooooooo, so Op for your mind now you don't make sense with this copy copy write up of yours abi? Chai women don suffer, what exactly is wrong with this world? now there is justification to men committing adultery right? I won't say all men because not all men cheat but all the men who belongs to this school of thought are selfish, pathetic losers who finds an excuse for their wrongdoings, these set of men won't take it if their wives are cheating on them ooooo, that's when you will see threads of "my wife is a cheat, what should I do" and then the selfish ones and partner in crime will start with the advice of "divorce her" "punish her" and all sorts, Hypocrites everywhere, why won't you even support when you men ain't the one at the receiving end, so it's the woman that should suffer in silence, share her man with different ladies or one as the case maybe while at risk of getting a STD right? You folks should better grow up, there's more to this life than putting your John Thomas in every vagina you see. SMH. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by HaneefahRN(f): 8:21pm On Jul 07, 2016 |
My own question is why do serial cheats marry? You can not keep ur dick in one place yet you marry, I don't understand o. It's all about wanting to eat their cakes and have it. And they are the kind that will almost die if another man so much as look at their wives twice not to talk of her cheating with respect too .Talk about killing with sword but can't stand blade pass in front of their face. Smh, women have suffered. And they'll complain about women marrying just for money. 6 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by bukatyne(f): 12:19am On Jul 08, 2016 |
Gaborone: The ultimate prayer my sister. 3 Likes |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by mrwonlasewonie: 5:42am On Jul 08, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: What kind of patronizing thread is this and an insult To every woman's intelligence? Op you need help.you obviously are a narsist And kanwuliaextra you do birthday you no invite me abi? A whole me your home girl Koda o Anyway happy birthday. Hope you had a good time? |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by inemani: 4:00pm On Jul 08, 2016 |
Nonsensical, most stupidest and most phoolish write-up! Yeye dey smell. Ahswear, those cheaters would meet their doom, definitely in between one of the strange women's laps! Chai, this thing pain me |
Re: Reasons Why Married Women Should Ignore Their Cheating Husbands. by EfemenaXY: 4:46pm On Jul 17, 2016 |
KanwuliaExtra: LMAO! Happy birthday in arrears babes |
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