I saw this on Facebook, and after reading I thought to myself, 'Nairalanders must hear this!' .

Married women, plz stop getting bothered about
if your hubby has a side chic outside, instead,
bother more about how your husband treats you.
This is important, cos, truth is , whether we like
it or not, or maybe wish it away or not, 90% of
husbands cheat on their wives, of this 90%, 10%
of them are not even suspected at all by their
wives, only about 10% are faithful for various
reasons, upbringing, religion, finance, and many
more, that is the reality. Plz note this,
responsible men are not men who do not cheat
on their wives, but men who their family is first
irrespective of cheating or not cheating. If your
husband provides for you and your household,
and loves you and the kids, then he is a good
father, believe me, the good father, is still
cheating on you, chances are extremely high.
There are diff reasons men cheat. Whether we
like it or not, mens sexual urges of attraction are
higher than women, again, women systems
(childbirth, menstruation, and hormonal issues) ,
make it difficult for a man to get satisfied by the
wife alone(not an excuse, but the fact). Imagine
a woman who is pregnant and pregnancy is
disturbing, they say, dont sleep with her ooo, so
where do you want the man to go for sexual
satisfaction, this is not a selfish article, but
reality in black and white. Again, has someone
heard the expression..'men are polygamous in
nature?'...that crazy, but its true, when a man
sleeps with a lady for so long, the biting
sensation reduces, thats y ur hubby dont rush
you again like he used to do during dating, does
not make you worn out, is its mens nature,this is
another truth. My advice, Women, dont kill
yourself checking phones to see girlfriends, or
side chics, when you know it wont change much
but cause issues, only have issues with hubby if
he isnt providing for you and loving you well, and
still he cheats on you, or maybe he provides for
you but he cheats without respect, rubs in on
your face as if nothing would happen, perhaps he
cheats with your friends, in these cases, he is
wicked, and you need to shout for christ sake.
But if he takes care of you, respects you and
maybe does one or two hit, her and there, and
hides it from you , loving you and treating you
well, plz ignore some messages even if you see
them, perhaps, just mention it and pass. That is
nature. My advice to men, plz and plz, love your
wife unconditionally, take care of her, plz if you
dont have money, to take care of her and maybe
scratch a little for girlfriend, then dont cheat.
before you give 1kobe to a girl, ensure she is
very comfortable. or me this is the truth, I love
my wife, I adore her, I provide for her, but usually
has pregnancy stress and I would have to stay
away from sex for a while, assure her and with
her, even sleep in hospital with her, but brother,
a few times, I hit it with a side chic, trust me, I
dont forget my condoms to keep her safe. I call
her always and make her comfortable, she
suspects am cheating on her, but my caring
attitude leaves her confused, cos I give her time
and time again.I know its adultery, so plz dont
preach, this is only but a practical piece, dont be
preachy here, cos I know many pastors that
patronise ashawos, maybe your pastor is among,
so let be more practical than religious. Finally, If
you leave your caring man, just because he
cheats 'with respect' on you, trust me, you may
run into one who would cheat without respect.
So as long as he treats you like an angel, plz let
peace reign, you cant win this battle, your great
grand mothers didnt win it.

What is your take on this?
Mods come and see this one.

Who wrote this nonsense ?? So we should applaud them right? Then they come back home and transfer incurable diseases to the poor innocent wife.

We women have really suffered in this life.

So, it is now 'ok' for Men to cheat, abi? I hope this writer and would-be supporters won't see anything wrong when their wives also cheat on them at the same time being loving and caring to them.

Ask Tiwa Savage na!
Cheat jam cheat!
Nor be Tblizzzy wan commit suicide after he don find out say Tiwa don dey phock awon TuBaba and Don Jazzy dem take dey feed im GANJA/COCAINE SNUFFING AZZZZE?
Muchechecheche

Every woman MUST LEARN TO OUT-PLAY ANY MAN!

Only a STOOPID woman will sit around and cater to a philandering husband!
As im dey move, na sa I go waka dey followrrrrram o.
Till death do us part abi?

DIE-vorce ke?
No need abeg!

Well, some truth in what OP said..but I am going to pass since society frown at it even though it's the fact

One prayer I have is that cheats should marry cheats, and the faithful, the faithful. May a good egg not get messed up with a bad egg.This way, the ecosystem would balance itself out.

While reading, i suspected it will be a man who wrote this nonsense. My suspicion was right when i read further.

What i see about the writer is a bloody coward, an irresponsible, disgusting animal. He claims he is performing his fatherly, husbandly roles and doesnt forget his condoms. Your wife is carrying your baby and all you are interested in is satisfying your ANIMAListic, Dogistic, GOATistic sexual urges.

You wrote that "Your wife suspect you but is confused because of your roles being carried out as the head of the home". If You are MAN enough, and you know it is in men's nature to cheat why cant you tell your wife.... WIfey, I cheat on you because I am a Man and see what happens to you.

I hate and detest selfish evil men like you.

Spits on his dumb head.

Na wa! I'm in shock!

So this man will preach this to his daughters?? Is this what women have been reduced to??

Sad sad! To think men think this way? Women need to look out for themselves o

I can bet my 10kobo, that's a Nigerian man talking
, I fear those people.

women don suffer

PS; I thought he said reasons why women should ignore.. I didn't see any na

sometimes i wonder why these donkeys and fish brains bother to get married sef.

Rat don chop this one brain .

This mans is a cause to is generators.

I sense a disturbance in the force.

Dats how a marriage counselor told couples to b blind and deaf so dat dere marriage will b everlasting and some men said it's 4 dose who believes marriage is a do or die affair . I just couldn't laugh , why den re dey getting married if dey believe dat dey will still divorce. Although no one knows 2moro, we just pray 4 d best.

Back to d topic
@ "cheat with respect" BC he plays his role very well as a father/husband providing d needs of d family and all dat, we should ignore him while he cheat. Issorite

In case d woman decides to "cheat with respect" 2 bc she takes care of d husbands needs, d kids and caring 4 d home , should d husband also ignore BC she "cheats with respect"

Hmmmm, am nt supporting cheating oh.
Hahahaha, nlders will not kill me with laugh

Be Faithful

‘She is your companion and your wife by covenant.’
Malachi 2:14 NKJV

As the culture around us becomes more permissive, the idea of faithfulness in marriage is being challenged. The entertainment industry promotes the idea that infidelity is a marvellous game for two. But they don’t tell you the downside. When it has run its course, it brings pain and disillusionment. And not only for the two people involved, but for those who love them, depend on them, and look to them for an example. It’s time for some straight talk about the covenant of marriage. After the thrill of the chase and the cooling of passion, you get back to cooking, cleaning, and earning a living. Yes, the grass is greener on the other side of the fence, but it still has to be mowed. When you’re dating you get to see the best aspects of someone, but when you marry them you get to live with their flaws, frailties, and irritants, much like those in the former husband or wife. And guess what? Married life begins to feel confining. Then what does the individual do when he or she is beginning to feel trapped? Hopscotch from one life to another in a vain search for something indescribable - something they never seem to find. What’s the answer? Instead of looking for the right person, seek to grow and mature and become the right person. Often the qualities you’re looking for in someone new lie undiscovered and unappreciated under the surface in the person you’re married to. These qualities are like seeds: if you water them, nurture and protect them, they will grow into something beautiful you can enjoy.

Bible in a Year: 2 Chron 32-33; Rom 1

Copied

Well last tme I checked adultery either by wife or husband is still a sin.

Rationalizing it away like you just did won't change that fact.

If according to you, 10% of all married men don't cheat, then nothing stops the other 90 from restraining themselves. We are not dogs you know, and articles like this only make men look like as if their brains are in their small heads down there.

If you cheat on your wife, it's because you don't respect her and you don't have self control.

byvan03:
Rat don chop this one brain .

lmao

Ioannes:
Well last tme I checked adultery either by wife or husband is still a sin.

Rationalizing it away like you just did won't change that fact.

If according to you, 10% of all married men don't cheat, then nothing stops the other 90 from restraining themselves. We are not dogs you know, and articles like this only make men look like as if their brains are in their small heads down there.

If you cheat on your wife, it's because you don't respect her and you don't have self control

the bold is not true.
op got valid points.

"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe.

lynnfeb:
Who wrote this nonsense ?? So we should applaud them right? Then they come back home and transfer incurable diseases to the poor innocent wife.

We women have really suffered in this life.

"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe.

op got valid points.

byvan03:
Rat don chop this one brain .

how u take know?
abi u be rat

jopretty:
So, it is now 'ok' for Men to cheat, abi? I hope this writer and would-be supporters won't see anything wrong when their wives also cheat on them at the same time being loving and caring to them.

"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe.

op got valid points.

johnson232:

how u take know?
abi u be rat

By their fruits...


All these "how to be a loser" 101 kinda posts nah to whom it might concern.

Pls keep calm when yours cheats on you, you hear!

johnson232:

"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe.

op got valid points.

johnson232:

the bold is not true.
op got valid points.

"King Solomon had 700 wives and cheated on them with 300 concubines & God still loved him. Your husband cheats on you with one woman and we can't have peace. My sister keep calm and read the bible ~"Robert Mugabe.

Well let's Hope you'll remember to quote Robert Mugabe when your wife cheats on you.

By the way, "King Solomon had 700 wives...and God still loved him"

Well the Bible also forbids us to eat pork. I'm sure you eat pork wella.

How can you even have a stable home for the kids to grow up properly when the father is busy out there humping everything in skirts and tight jeans.

Who forms the minds and consciences of the kids

If you want to play the field, then don't get married.

Na wa ooooooooo, so Op for your mind now you don't make sense with this copy copy write up of yours abi? Chai women don suffer, what exactly is wrong with this world? now there is justification to men committing adultery right? I won't say all men because not all men cheat but all the men who belongs to this school of thought are selfish, pathetic losers who finds an excuse for their wrongdoings, these set of men won't take it if their wives are cheating on them ooooo, that's when you will see threads of "my wife is a cheat, what should I do" and then the selfish ones and partner in crime will start with the advice of "divorce her" "punish her" and all sorts, Hypocrites everywhere, why won't you even support when you men ain't the one at the receiving end, so it's the woman that should suffer in silence, share her man with different ladies or one as the case maybe while at risk of getting a STD right? You folks should better grow up, there's more to this life than putting your John Thomas in every vagina you see. SMH.

My own question is why do serial cheats marry? You can not keep ur dick in one place yet you marry, I don't understand o. It's all about wanting to eat their cakes and have it. And they are the kind that will almost die if another man so much as look at their wives twice not to talk of her cheating with respect too .Talk about killing with sword but can't stand blade pass in front of their face. Smh, women have suffered. And they'll complain about women marrying just for money.

Gaborone:
One prayer I have is that cheats should marry cheats, and the faithful, the faithful. May a good egg not get messed up with a bad egg.This way, the ecosystem would balance itself out.

The ultimate prayer my sister.

KanwuliaExtra:
Ask Tiwa Savage na!
Cheat jam cheat!
Nor be Tblizzzy wan commit suicide after he don find out say Tiwa don dey phock awon TuBaba and Don Jazzy dem take dey feed im GANJA/COCAINE SNUFFING AZZZZE?
Muchechecheche

Every woman MUST LEARN TO OUT-PLAY ANY MAN!

Only a STOOPID woman will sit around and cater to a philandering husband!
As im dey move, na sa I go waka dey followrrrrram o.
Till death do us part abi?

DIE-vorce ke?
No need abeg!

What kind of patronizing thread is this and an insult To every woman's intelligence? Op you need help.you obviously are a narsist

And kanwuliaextra you do birthday you no invite me abi?

A whole me your home girl

Koda o

Anyway happy birthday. Hope you had a good time?

Nonsensical, most stupidest and most phoolish write-up! Yeye dey smell. Ahswear, those cheaters would meet their doom, definitely in between one of the strange women's laps! Chai, this thing pain me

KanwuliaExtra:
Ask Tiwa Savage na!
Cheat jam cheat!
Nor be Tblizzzy wan commit suicide after he don find out say Tiwa don dey phock awon TuBaba and Don Jazzy dem take dey feed im GANJA/COCAINE SNUFFING AZZZZE?
Muchechecheche

Every woman MUST LEARN TO OUT-PLAY ANY MAN!

Only a STOOPID woman will sit around and cater to a philandering husband!
As im dey move, na sa I go waka dey followrrrrram o.
Till death do us part abi?

DIE-vorce ke?
No need abeg!

LMAO!

Happy birthday in arrears babes