Please i really need your Help Nairalanders.....


I have been with this Girl like FOUR years... The first three Months of our relationship was sweet and cool until i noticed changes in her attitude.. The Tape worm(EX) crept in. I have been there for this girl.. Loved her and cherished her... I took pains for her just because i truly LOVE her...I took her to see my people so she could understand i truly want the best for us...

I met her when she was really struggling to gain admission into the University and we worked out the MATHS together just to see her through...Immediately she gain the admission, she changed.. She tells me its OVER at every little problem we had and all i do is CRY because i really do LOVE her and cherish HER so much... I give her everything she needs and i spend time thinking on how to make her HAPPY ALWAYS just because i cared about her....

The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX... I tried explaining to her that i was there for her and i love her so much and i really want 2 be with her. I explained 2 her that i so much love her and this can KILL me so soon and she insisted i should stop calling her... I was furious all through the night...Then she later called me crying. I asked why she was crying and she said she had hurt me so much and i was too good to her. She said she never deserved me and that she had things 2 tell me... She later Opened up that she lied about her EX and that she slept with HIM.. I was Heartbroken again and wept. She said she never intended to do it and she felt guilty about everything.. I said i still Love you and still don't care about the Mistake you made and we can move on and i will still LOVE u.. She later said she slept with her REV father. I was speechless on hearing that and asked how she got involved with him. I also asked if she slept with HIM when we started dating or before and she said after we started dating and she slept with him three times.....My reply was "I was there to make you happy,gave you the best sex,showed you LOVE and cared for you all through for good 3 years and all you had 2 do is sleep with your EX on seeing him once and also sleep with your REV father" I love her so much and just couldn't stand 2 see her cry so i forgave her...

I made her strong and also forget about the silly shit with the HOLY MAN OF GOD....She called me two months after the whole drama and said she had something 2 tell me,she said "I still Love my EX and i want to back 2 him" I was MAD again and said why don't you want 2 leave your EX and let it be? Why do you always make me wanna cry... I later TOLD her i am no longer interested in the relationship and want i wish her luck with MR EX...I hanged up and switched off. She left me messages on Facebook saying she was sorry and wanted 2 see if i still LOVE her...I forgave her and we still Moved on. Now we have been together for four years. I had a chilled bottle of RED wine last night and decided to think about all she had done and also made up my MIND to call it QUIT. I LOVE HER SO MUCH that i was ready to die for her but she doesn't even appreciate everything .

I really need your help nairalanders if this is gonna be the right thing 2 do.. I need your advice before i take actions....

Tanx and One Love....

Hmmmmm.......end time tins *smh*

mschewwwww

Ahhh...

You gast man up
Any man that uses his teeth to cut shaki from pepper-soup with his eyes wide open is a real man- Martin Luther King Jnr (1900)
I sure sey na your konji dey talk now, you need another babe wey you go discharge your akamu on top am before all those fungus start to dey grow for there

Mtcheew . Man up bro. Nothing is gonna make her change . Move on , she too will be surprise. You can only get your assss kicked by people when the discover you place high value on them. One character of okonkwo I loved so much, he loved ikemufuna so much but would not express it so that he will not been seen as a weakly, not that you should not show your woman love but no carry am for head. Find love soon

Am confused too

JUST DIE FOR HER IN PRESENCE OF YOUR PARENTS SHE WILL APPRECIATE DAT.

1one: Ahhh...

eph12: mschewwwww

delugadou: Hmmmmm.......end time tins *smh*

mcocolok:

......space booker association

Eyah. Pele
Just ignore that chick or you'll die loving her sorry a.ss. It's clear she's taking you a solitude in time of distress. Cut the crap now, get another nwanyi that will cool your mind. You're too young to die for love o

Na so e dey be

bright007: ......space booker association

space booker detective how market?

@op my advice for u is to chill small cuz all wat ur gf said may be lies trying to whine u nd see ur reaction maybe u still love her or not..I dnt blive dat she told u she slept with her rev father, it maybe a cooked story to see ur reactions...I hate someone loosing his/her lover..
just chill small nd observe..Thank me later if diz works

Oga stop crying over a split milk.it over move on it happens

I have stated this before and I will do it again now:

Women too have 'taste'...any man that has ever experienced real care/love from a lady/woman would not think twice before dumping any 'She' that does not like/love him.
That is why I am in support of ladies making the first move...it all starts by being good friends. A mature guy will handle it well telling her that he is interested or not and respect her for being brave/frank. The guy should be very careful in knowing exactly what are real intentions are. Let ya spirit guide you wella!!!


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Bro abeg wetin b the name of the red wine wey u drink? Because e be like say the thing dey give person sense, Na correct spark of life.

pussypounder: q

u are really trying gan

ChinDike: Thanks.

Wicked post...

Kachisbarbie: Aiii, just smoke some weed and think about it

Your profile pic tells me ur in ur early 20s. Personally i think thats a bit too early for commitment, at that age you are still discovering yourself, so its pointless tying urself up with anyone let alone someone who blows hot and cold as often as ur girlfriend does. I'd say take a break and get busy with other productive aspects of ur life.

mcocolok: .... The real problem began when she traveled Home after her first year. On a cool evening two weeks after she got home, she uploaded pictures on her Facebook between she and her EX...I called her and she never picked up the call.. I left her messages so she could explain to me what happened and she never replied. I tried calling that Night and she never picked up until 1am and her reply was " WETIN SELF, I NO FIT SNAP PICTURES WITH SOMEBODY AGAIN,I TELL YOU SAY MY EX DEY STAY MY AREA..I DEY WAKA I COME SEE AM ,HE SAY MAKE I SNAP WITH AM SO I COME SNAP WITH AM" I was heartbroken by the response but i had to be strong.. She later called and told me she was no Longer interested in the RELATIONSHIP and that she LOVES her EX......

Op. Na here I stop o
Any other thing u wrote na garbbish and waste of my reading time.

Babe is done with you
WTF
Leave her alone
I wonder how people still stay inlove without being loved in return.

I was here

CyberEBOLA: space booker detective how market?

Mr space booker.......market is in your hands oooo

Love conquers all things. It is good for a man to be wise.
You are not stupid young man. You are just naïve and innocent.

You need to put your acts together and realise, its best you jump off this bus early and move on with you life. No sentiments, no emotion bro, start doing something poistive with yourself.

I am happy to congratulate you on your decision to act wise and move on.
Wait oo, this no be love oooo. Wetin you sabi about love sef?

Go make some good money and forget about everything that would waste your time.

All the best bro. Cheers

To the posters above. If u have nothing important to say then say nothing. Anyway OP, I feel ur pain. I felt the emotions in your post.

I realise that in life, when you show too much attention to some1, he/she tends to take u 4 granted. But the moment you stop it and care less, the person will just be all over you. You cared too much, Forgave too much , probably spent too much and this is the result.
My honest opinion, call it quits with that chic.
P.S- how come she slept with her Rev father since in your words, u gave her the "BEST SEX"

ok

Read read read and you shall know!

-CramJones

Confused niggi... But I must confess it seems ur heart is rili strong to tak all those bullsh*t